Problem with Porn?? I Don't Think So!
Over the course of the weekend of Sept 25-27 local TV media covered the EXXXOTICA NY/NJ held in Edison NJ. One local station that covered it labeled its segment "Porn Problem" hence the blog entry.I have been reviewing adult movies for close to fours years now and writing erotica for five and have not had a problem with it at all. Those who see a problem with porn are the very same ones that watch it in their homes behind closed doors and with curtains drawn ridiculing what they don't understand and fear.
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The adult industry is a billion dollar industry that will continue to grow no matter what people say and how many protest against it. Those naysayers and the tight lip prudes that swear they don't watch it do not understand that the more they spew hatred against it and its performers makes others want to watch it even more. Both boys and girls at young ages get curious and will go online to see what the hell is all the fuss about.
Accessing any kind of porn is easy today because of the internet, even when I got my first computer many years ago that was the first thing I searched for. Everyone does it! You cant say that looking at adult content makes one a pervert or one has a sickness. Yes there are people that have gotten addicted to porn on the net but like anything in this world one has to learn to control the urges.
Is society today so sexually repressed that they are willing to go to extreme measure to belittle the men and women who have fully embraced their own sexuality and are comfortable with themselves and their bodies to bring to life fantasies of both men and women through adult films?
I have had the extreme pleasure of interviewing many of the talent male and female from the top adult film companies and none of them are what the typical stereo type that is spoken of! They al have lives outside of the industry and some of them are happily married with children. Others are married to their on screen partners who don't have a problem with their significant other having sex with others on screen.
Societies closed mind has made up rampant tales of how these ladies are forced to perform and have been victims of rape , physical and drug abuse. Yet have asked that same question to all I have interviewed and everyone that has answered all stated that's just BS!
Yes, you will find some that will have dabbled in smoking weed and drinking but does that constitute that they are only in porn for the drugs and booze? If you personally have a problem with porn then don't watch! No one is sitting there with gun to your head telling you that you HAVE to watch it.
I used to be one of those prudes that swore she would never watch porn and thought it was something a good catholic would watch.. News flash.. I WAS WRONG!!!!!! I asked one of my closest friends Liss and she said that Religious repression is the main cause of why so many protest against it.Alot of people snub it completely are afraid of gong to hell or see it as something dirty. Unfortunately we both know too many "holier than thou" people that would never look at porn and do .
Adult movies like anything in life has its following and if it's not your cup of tea then move on and leave those that enjoy it making it for us to watch alone! Thank you to all the men and women in the adult industry that enjoy having sex on camera and to everyone involved in making it for us !