Cindy Starfall Blog
Getting into the Swinger's lifestyle
You might wonder how I went from an innocent Catholic school girl to joining the wild swinging lifestyle.
Honestly, I didn't even know that swinging existed in the beginning. I was so grounded in my traditional home andI had very little knowledge about any sex topics.
When I started having sex at 18 I was totally curious abou everything involved with sex since it was such a taboo at home.
I was first introduced into the lifestyle through a friend. We were dating and hooking up for a little bit. I remember one night when we were having sex he started talking dirty to me about watching me fuck his buddy. I didn’t really think much of it. I thought it was silly and funny.
He knew I always have porn playing in the background when we had sex, so the next time he picked out a group orgy scene. That was my first look at an orgy. I thought it was crazy, but I got an instant desire to be in that situation.
What about you? Have you ever thought of fucking someone else besides your partner without sneaking around? Or have you had the fantasy of fucking two women or watching your girl with another girl?
I can help you make those sexual desires come true.
Of course, the first question would be, “How do I even bring this up to my partner?”
You definitely don’t want to scare him/her away by being too aggressive. You have to find ways to slip your fantasy into your normal sexual conversation. Here are some tips:
- Dirty talking during sex or role playing. Personally, this is my favorite part during sex because you get to be playful and creative. For example: Describe what it would be like to have a hot foreign exchange student at the house with your partner telling the student how to please you. Basically, just talk about all the nasty things you want to happen to him/her.
- Watch a group sex porn together. You can take him/her to an adult store and point out threesome/orgy movies or just browse through the internet and mention to him/her that group sex sounds fun.
- Tell him/her you had a crazy naughty dream last night of whatever fantasy you have in mind and ask him/her to help make it a reality.
Trying these tips can help you gauge his/her attitude towards the idea of swinging. Does he/she think it’s disgusting? Does he/she think it’s hot? Does he/she get jealous from the ideas?
If the ideas are not appealing to him or her, assure them that it's just a crazy dream or wild roleplay fantasy.
Obviously, swinging is not for jealous or obsessive people, but it is a less stressful way to satisy those taboo desires instead of sneaking around to cheat. If this is what you guys are open to, next time I will give you ways to get into the swinger community.
The attached picture was of me and M. Being a nurse, her face is blurred out for privacy reason. Don't you want to be the one to watch , take picture, and join in?