Cindy Starfall Blog
Top 3 Misconceptions about Swingers
Many people were surprised when I first told that I was a swinger before I join porn. I asked why and most of them answered with “I thought of swingers look different”. I’m sure some of you swingers out there experience the same thing. For my vanilla friends on here, I want to clear out some common misconceptions about swingers
- Swingers are old and unattractive
Not all swingers are in their 50’s-60’s and obese. Swingers come in all ages and looks. Couples who I play with are attractive, successful, and young. Some of my main ones are in their 20’s, 30’s and early 40’s. Image is very important for us so we work out every day! Because we’re sexually active, we tend to keep our body fit to attract the other couples. Check out my picture of me on top of a hot single guy. Then my picture of my hot “daddy”, we worked out and his wife’s intense workouts absolutely killed me!
2. Swingers have sex with anyone, anywhere.
Just like you, swingers are even more selective in who we have sex with. We don’t mind going through many profiles and scouting parties all night to find that perfect couple and the right chemistry. Many single guys have made a mistake after finding out that I’m a swinger. It’s a turn off when they automatically expect me to allow them in my hotel room because I’m a swinger. Yes I’m a swinger and I love sex but please don’t be too aggressive with me. If I want to fuck you, you will get laid because I will be the one who initiate the sex first.
3. Swingers are all about sex.
It’s true that 80% of the time couples plan a meet up is to have a crazy fuck fest. However, we are also friends. We have had days where we just enjoy good company. We go on road trip, try new restaurant and sex isn’t the only thing on our minds. There are no pressure to have sex on every occasion.