Group Sex: Can You Dig It?

[punkrockgrrl]

my boyfriend's friend turned us onto the whole group sex (which is definitely not for everybody) thing last year, but it's not like we have threesomes very often (only four times in the past six months). Sometimes a boy or a girl is involved (for the record, i'm NOT bi-sexual, so if another girl gets involved, i don't go down on her) and it's always a friend we know (it's funny how willing some friends are to having sex with a couple when asked), so there's no strangers involved.

i don't get jealous watching my boyfriend have sex with another woman because our group sex nights are more of a fantasy fulfillment kinda thing. when we have sex, just the two of us, it's not just lust, so there's no loss of intimacy. we both agree that our one-on-one sex is BETTER than our group sexcapades, but we still have fun with the latter once in a blue moon...

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by punkrockgrrl
my boyfriend's friend turned us onto the whole group sex (which is definitely not for everybody) thing last year, but it's not like we have threesomes very often (only four times in the past six months). Sometimes a boy or a girl is involved (for the record, i'm NOT bi-sexual, so if another girl gets involved, i don't go down on her) and it's always a friend we know (it's funny how willing some friends are to having sex with a couple when asked), so there's no strangers involved.

i don't get jealous watching my boyfriend have sex with another woman because our group sex nights are more of a fantasy fulfillment kinda thing. when we have sex, just the two of us, it's not just lust, so there's no loss of intimacy. we both agree that our one-on-one sex is BETTER than our group sexcapades, but we still have fun with the latter once in a blue moon...

Can I get your phone number?

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by tygloalex


Can I get your phone number?

are you gonna bring the twins? :p

[tygloalex]

No you weirdo. My imaginary hot twins are my imaginary daughters! That's imaginary incest, you weirdo!

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by tygloalex
No you weirdo. My imaginary hot twins are my imaginary daughters! That's imaginary incest, you weirdo!

yeah, but they're not your real children, so it's not real incest. oh well...guess i'll just have to try to convince who 'n betho :p

[JimRochester]

I'd like to be your friend :)

[digitalfreaknyc]

So if it's a 3some with another guy..does your boyfriend get it on with him as well???

[ViewAskewbian]

To seriously answer the question posed: You know, I have done this only once. Sticking only to threesomes for a bit, the female involved decided, at one point, to bring over a friend. That friend, we got, to bring over another friend and we called over a male friend of ours. So, for all of you counting: 3 men & 3 women. Nothing happened for some time, I think everyone kind of shy to make the first move. I know I was but we all kind of knew why we were there. So, finally, two of the girls just basically said: "Screw waiting for us men" and started kissing. Then, well, all hell broke loose.

Now, this was my first and ONLY time with a group. I found that I stuck pretty much with the girl I liked (the initial girl from the threesomes) and really didn't care much to switch up. You see, I am a very clean person when it comes to sex and, as scary as it sounds, the other two guys were using the same condoms on different girls. That, alone, made me not want to jump anyone else but, alas, after I was with the one girl I did go to the washroom, flush one condom, put on another one, and got with her friend.

But I just felt strange throughout the whole thing, watched, observed, wondering if one girl thought I was giving less to her then another. Although the THOUGHT of it was a wild fantasy, when it transformed into reality I found I didn't like it as much as I could have. You know, then again, we were all young and crazy then and I wonder how I would react to this if it was with a group of adults.

At any rate, although not entirly turned off by the whole thing, and although I would probably go for it again if the circumstances were right, that time wasn't very enjoyable.

[ChefWinduAZ]

Originally posted by digitalfreaknyc
So if it's a 3some with another guy..does your boyfriend get it on with him as well???

I was thinking the exact same thing.

Also, when the threesome is with another girl, you say you don't go down on her but do you let her go down on you?

[Jack Straw]

Originally posted by ViewAskewbian
So, finally, two of the girls just basically said: "Screw waiting for us men" and started kissing. Then, well, all hell broke loose.
I don't know exactly why but I loved this line when I read it.

[scarab007]

[i]
i don't get jealous watching my boyfriend have sex with another woman because our group sex nights are more of a fantasy fulfillment kinda thing. [/B]



BUT you get jealous when he watches star wars twice, with friends?
http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=212278&highlight=star+wars

1 + 1 = 3?

[fmian]

I like to keep my fantasies as fantasies, and that's it.

[Jackskeleton]

well since he ditched you two weekends in a row for star wars.. Guess you should take away this privilage for a small time. :p

In all actuality, I don't think I would be able to handle group sex with my partner. Call me possesive, But I love her being all to myself. :)

[waporvare]

Nothing says, "I love you!", like watching a guy pound his pecker into your girlfriend.

[hotaru_san]

technically, no

I messed around with a couple twice. But I didn't have sex with the guy and only fingered the girl. I wasn't interested in the guy at all- I was somewhat interested in the girl and I was interested in getting some attention. It was fun, but not something I would even do again and certainly not something I would even do with someone I really cared about. I wouldn't want to share or be shared. -smile-

[icondude]

Originally posted by ViewAskewbian
Nothing happened for some time, I think everyone kind of shy to make the first move. I know I was but we all kind of knew why we were there. So, finally, two of the girls just basically said: "Screw waiting for us men" and started kissing. Then, well, all hell broke loose.

-other-

[ChiTownAbs, Inc]

Originally posted by hotaru_san
technically, no

I messed around with a couple twice. But I didn't have sex with the guy and only fingered the girl. I wasn't interested in the guy at all- I was somewhat interested in the girl and I was interested in getting some attention. It was fun, but not something I would even do again and certainly not something I would even do with someone I really cared about. I wouldn't want to share or be shared. -smile-

Can I have your phone number ?

i think i can take jack on :D

[Applejack]

Originally posted by ChiTownAbs


i think i can take jack on :D

kinky

[-lunacy-]

Well that's great. Just be sure your using protection. :)

[elise]

Originally posted by fmian
I like to keep my fantasies as fantasies, and that's it.

I agree. A boyfriend brought up the idea of having a threesome with another girl and I just couldn't picture myself doing it. In all honesty, I think I'd be very jealous. To me, sex is a very personal thing. And watching someone I'm with be with another woman in front of me, is just too much for me.

[mikehunt]

-other-
I think I could dig it

[Giles]

most definately!

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by vapoRware
Nothing says, "I love you!", like watching a guy pound his pecker into your girlfriend. yeah, always wanted a guy like that-rolleyes-

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
yeah, always wanted a guy like that-rolleyes-

kittens -rolleyes-

[Kube]

My lady and I have been doing it. We're not jealous of each other so it's a lot of fun.

Playing with friends is a lot more fun than playing with strangers. They're an intimacy and comfort to it. There's also less presure and keeps it on the innocent side.

We don't go all the way. We stop at 3rd base (so to speak).

punkrockgrrl..is that how you guys do it too?

If you're thinking of trying it I suggest both partners making up guidelines in advance. You don't want to be in the situation and ask your lover "is this ok"

[hotaru_san]

Originally posted by ChiTownAbs


Can I have your phone number ?

i think i can take jack on :D

I'm not sure how I should feel about that comment :p-wink-

[criptik28]

Originally posted by vapoRware
Nothing says, "I love you!", like watching a guy pound his pecker into your girlfriend.

rotfl

:up:

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by Ð. þ¶åµ


kittens -rolleyes- dude, sorry, not my thing :) I want my guy to only want me. :)

[criptik28]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
dude, sorry, not my thing :) I want my guy to only want me. :)

Ah, the bonds of marriage. ;)

[goldilocks]

I've done it a few times. There used to be this "club" so to speak in a town near by me. You had to have written proof signed by a doctor that you didn't have any STD's or anything to get in the place. People just went there to have sex. There might be only 4 or 5 people there at one time and then there might be as many as 20 or more. Just depends on the night. There was a bar and they served drinks and everyone just pretty much walked around nekkid and had sex with whomever they wanted, if the other person was willing also. There were quite a few rules that went along with it. All in all, it was some of the best times of my life. :D

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
dude, sorry, not my thing :) I want my guy to only want me. :)

evil kitten :rolleyes:

[Bushdog]

Originally posted by hotaru_san


I'm not sure how I should feel about that comment :p-wink- I'm not sure what he meant to say, but it sounds like he's into your boyfriend (or wants to be in him :eek: )

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by Ð. þ¶åµ


evil kitten :rolleyes: :lol: no matter what i say i'm evil :)

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
:lol: no matter what i say i'm evil :)

not really, there are things that you can do which would make you not evil -smile-

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by Ð. þ¶åµ


not really, there are things that you can do which would make you not evil -smile- oh reeeaaaally? like what? :)

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
oh reeeaaaally? like what? :)

message me, and i'm sure we can work something out -smile-

[Shafted!]

Originally posted by goldilocks
I've done it a few times. There used to be this "club" so to speak in a town near by me. You had to have written proof signed by a doctor that you didn't have any STD's or anything to get in the place. People just went there to have sex. There might be only 4 or 5 people there at one time and then there might be as many as 20 or more. Just depends on the night. There was a bar and they served drinks and everyone just pretty much walked around nekkid and had sex with whomever they wanted, if the other person was willing also. There were quite a few rules that went along with it. All in all, it was some of the best times of my life. :D

And where is this so-called club? If you gots the info, you gots to share man!

By the way, i can dig the group sex (w/2 women) but i would hope my SO would not feel jealous or whatnot.

[goldilocks]

Originally posted by Shafted!


And where is this so-called club? If you gots the info, you gots to share man!

By the way, i can dig the group sex (w/2 women) but i would hope my SO would not feel jealous or whatnot.



Ever go to South Alabama? :D

[sexy_overlord]

All I can say is everybody else in that group had better be female.

[Shafted!]

Originally posted by goldilocks




Ever go to South Alabama? :D

Nope, but now its on my list of places of visit!

[RewindTheMovie]

I am going to be taking part in one soon with my best friend ( a guy, like me) and his g-friend. But, i keep on thinking of Double Dipping........

[kninestile]

:hump:

[Jepthah]

Originally posted by kninestile
My wife and I both have a person or two on the side and have been to several different types of clubs. This has been going on for 6 years or so.

In order to be successful both partners have to completely trust one another. If either partner has even a tiny bit of insecurity in them then disaster will follow any type of group sex or side action event.

What is the 'benefit' of this behavior to your marriage? I am genuinely curious.

[fmian]

Originally posted by kninestile
My wife and I both have a person or two on the side and have been to several different types of clubs. This has been going on for 6 years or so.

In order to be successful both partners have to completely trust one another. If either partner has even a tiny bit of insecurity in them then disaster will follow any type of group sex or side action event.

There is no way in hell I'd let another guy bone my wife. Even though I trust her not to fall for someone else, why the hell should anyone other than me have the privaledge to make love to her?
Even when I die, I'll haunt her so she doesn't forget me.

[kninestile]

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