Masturbation (future g-friends) degrading?

[RewindTheMovie]

Do you think that thinking of a girl that you might someday go out with while you are masturbating is wrong? Degrading? I think it is.... anybody else?

[Quake1028]

Um, no. Not at all. I think as long as you don't express those feelings to this person/others, there is nothing wrong with it. Pretty natural I would say.

[ziggy]

I used to think it was bad to objectify them in that way if I were interested in something beyond just sex with them. I stil rarely do, but I don't really think about it in those terms anymore - more like habit I guess.

[jim_mailman1962]

Nope.

[zuffy]

I think it's wrong and degrading. I would love her too much to think of her as a sex object only.

[Soup Nazi]

Originally posted by zuffy
I think it's wrong and degrading. I would love her too much to think of her as a sex object only.

We're talking beforehand ...

[hotaru_san]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If I really liked the guy than I would probably be flattered. -smile-

[gcribbs]

Originally posted by hotaru_san
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If I really liked the guy than I would probably be flattered. -smile-

I do not think most women would be flattered-

You did what with some cheap lotion and tissue while thinking of me :( Is the response I would expect if they were told.

That is why you never tell anyone about Fight....
Sorry wrong movie right idea :)

[hotaru_san]

Originally posted by gcribbs


I do not think most women would be flattered-

You did what with some cheap lotion and tissue while thinking of me :( Is the response I would expect if they were told.

That is why you never tell anyone about Fight....
Sorry wrong movie right idea :)

If you're going to tell the girl then don't tell her until it becomes a pretty serious relationship.

I don't understand why girls would get too upset...if they don't want their guys to think about other girls when they masturbate then who are they supposed to think about? :p

but if the girl never finds out then I don't see why it matters at all

[phantom_azazel]

hey rewind i seen your sig at hardforum

[RewindTheMovie]

Originally posted by phantom_azazel
hey rewind i seen your sig at hardforum

yep

[icondude]

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[suziq999]

I don't see anything wrong with it.

[RewindTheMovie]

Well... I guess I'm the only one that thinks its degrading...

[Trelach24]

I don't think it's degrading but I will say that there have been a couple chicks that I REALLY liked who I couldn't think of in that way. I didn't even want to. It was weird.

Normally when I see a hot chick I put her in the mental rolodex for later :D

[fmian]

If a chick told me that she has masturbated while thinking of me I'd take it as a BIG compliment.
Then I'd go home and jerk off over it.

[Penny Lane]

I don't think it's degrading at all. In fact, I think it's quite flattering and it even turns me on. Just because you are sexually attracted to someone doesn't mean that you are ONLY sexually attracted to them with no other feelings involved. Take it as a compliment and shake it for 'em. ;)

I'm pretty masturbatory-minded myself. :blush:

[RewindTheMovie]

Well, that makes me feel a lot better :)

[Lethal Nemesis]

Nothing wrong with it. Just keep it to yourself. If you want to tell the other person about it, wait a while first.

[RewindTheMovie]

I would never tell anybody about this. I would never ever admit that i masturbate directly to my peers, maybe a best friend, but not to the public.

[Bushdog]

Originally posted by gcribbs


I do not think most women would be flattered-
I couldn't disagree with you more.

People want to be perceived as attractive and sexual. A partner to be who is so taken by a girl that they *ahem* express their attraction through their five fingers is paying the girl a compliment, IMHO.

I want girls to like me for who I am inside, but you'd better damn well believe I want any girl who dates me to find me attractive and sexually appealing, too.

[RewindTheMovie]

Originally posted by Bushdog
.....attraction through their five fingers is paying the girl a compliment........

you use five fingers!!?

[Quake1028]

I use 13.

[Cool Kitten]

There's nothing wrong with it IMO. If you're not involved with her you might want to keep it to youself, but if you do get involved- i don't see why you wouldn't tell her.
I'd find the fact that my SO is so turned on by me that he's getting off to the thoughts of me incredibly arousing. After all, i'd have a serious problem with him masturbating to the thoughts of some random chick on the street.
http://www.homestead.com/McHawkson/files/coolkitten.gif

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by RewindTheMovie
I would never tell anybody about this. I would never ever admit that i masturbate directly to my peers, maybe a best friend, but not to the public. hmmmm.....repressed much? :)
http://www.homestead.com/McHawkson/files/coolkitten.gif

[Mr. Salty]

I think it's probably OK as long as you aren't standing outside her house or place of employment when you're doing it.

[Saxofonix]

Originally posted by RewindTheMovie
Do you think that thinking of a girl that you might someday go out with while you are masturbating is wrong? Degrading? I think it is.... anybody else?

I don't see why thinking of someone in sexual terms would be degrading. What is so wrong even about objectifying someone sexually ?? Maybe you equate sexual = bad ??

[RewindTheMovie]

man...... well, i guess the verdict is "no it's not a bad thing"

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by RewindTheMovie
man...... well, i guess the verdict is "no it's not a bad thing" i think the verdict is - go for it :D
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[Trelach24]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
i think the verdict is - go for it :D


Okay!

I need a new pic of you though. :eek:

[Lethal Nemesis]

Originally posted by Mr. Salty
I think it's probably OK as long as you aren't standing outside her house or place of employment when you're doing it.
You hear that, phammy!? Stay off my front lawn! :p

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by LethaL Nemesis

You hear that, phammy!? Stay off my front lawn! :p

hey...i used the back door (wait, that didn't come out right)

[Cool Kitten]

Originally posted by Trelach24
I need a new pic of you though. :eek: no you don't , since you stand no chance of ever looking at me in real life let alone sampling the goods :D
http://www.homestead.com/McHawkson/files/coolkitten.gif

[jw2299]

Originally posted by Mr. Salty
I think it's probably OK as long as you aren't standing outside her house or place of employment when you're doing it.

Oh, so your not supposed to do it in public! OK. That's a good tip, thanks! :D

[postnataldrip]

it's a deeper passion, not her physical looks, which stimulates me. so, no, i feel no guilt about it.

[Lethal Nemesis]

Originally posted by D.Phamished


hey...i used the back door (wait, that didn't come out right)
No wonder it's all loose and banged up. :mad:

[RewindTheMovie]

haha

[happycamper]

Another chick here who thinks that there's nothing wrong with it. It is very flattering to know of all things to whack off to that they choose to think about me.

Bushdog was right in the comment about women wanting to feel sexy and desireable. And that just confirms it for me.

[RewindTheMovie]

wow!

[Venom]

Originally posted by fmian
If a chick told me that she has masturbated while thinking of me I'd take it as a BIG compliment.
Then I'd go home and jerk off over it.

lol


i don't think there is anything wrong with it, or that it is degrading. but thinking about, i recall that i haven't. not really sure why. for one, i don't like using my imagination, atleast fabricating something. i need an actual visual memory if i need to use my mind. maybe i don't want to create a false standard or expectation?

[icondude]

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[icondude]

Originally posted by Mr. Salty
I think it's probably OK as long as you aren't standing outside her house or place of employment when you're doing it.

Don't do it along a bike trail either:
http://www.thedenverchannel.com/sh/news/stories/nat-news-130181320020313-120303.html

[RewindTheMovie]

omg... that's cruel !! RODNEY KING!!!!! RODNEY KING!!!

[Betho]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
There's nothing wrong with it IMO. If you're not involved with her you might want to keep it to youself, but if you do get involved- i don't see why you wouldn't tell her.
I'd find the fact that my SO is so turned on by me that he's getting off to the thoughts of me incredibly arousing. After all, i'd have a serious problem with him masturbating to the thoughts of some random chick on the street.
http://www.homestead.com/McHawkson/files/coolkitten.gif

I completely agree. How would that be degrading?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Mr. Salty
I think it's probably OK as long as you aren't standing outside her house or place of employment when you're doing it.

What are you doing in the Mature forum? Would Private Roy approve?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
no you don't , since you stand no chance of ever looking at me in real life let alone sampling the goods :D
http://www.homestead.com/McHawkson/files/coolkitten.gif

I have this fantasy that I lure CK in the shower

http://home.pacbell.net/rds33/best_photos/cat_and_shower_head.jpg

after she's good and moist we retire to the bedroom.

http://home.pacbell.net/rds33/best_photos/sleeping_cats.jpg

[Mr. Salty]

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
What are you doing in the Mature forum? Would Private Roy approve?

I usually just come here to find the coupons for the best deal on the "Cum Swapping Sluts" DVDs. And if you don't tell Private Roy, I won't.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Mr. Salty


I usually just come here to find the coupons for the best deal on the "Cum Swapping Sluts" DVDs. And if you don't tell Private Roy, I won't.

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