View Full Version : What makes someone "good in bed"?
You hear this all the time. "He's good in bed" or "she wasn't good in bed". I've never used this to describe any sexual encounter -- but I've really never thought about it.
Jim in Cincy
06-13-2002, 06:19 AM
Simple; Doing what they other person wants you to do is what makes you "good in bed".
Original Desmond
06-13-2002, 06:32 AM
the ability to recognise your partner's needs and the skill to fulfull them.
jw2299
06-13-2002, 06:52 AM
willingness to please thier partner is what makes someone good in bed IMO.
schlitz100
06-13-2002, 07:06 AM
Originally posted by jw2299
willingness to please thier partner is what makes someone good in bed IMO.
willingness plus ability.
Big Quasimodo
06-13-2002, 07:44 AM
Willingness to spill out onto the floor! :lol:
Seriously - I would say a sense of playfulness and a willingness to experiment are essential. That sense of playfulness thing is key!
Save Ferris
06-13-2002, 07:57 AM
any comments from the ladies?
Actually, I think it's simply sexual energy. If the partner is into it, he/she will be good in bed.
Original Desmond
06-13-2002, 12:39 PM
Originally posted by Boot
Actually, I think it's simply sexual energy. If the partner is into it, he/she will be good in bed.
maybe for a girl this might be more the case, but cmon, a guy is always into it! that doesn't mean he's good
He's not good if he doesn't last a decent length of time
He's not good if he doesn't know how to move it around and work it
He could have heaps of sexual energy and not be good in bed
Patman
06-13-2002, 01:13 PM
Anal, lots of anal. :) JK.
Cool Kitten
06-13-2002, 02:00 PM
Willingness to please your partner and take extra time to make sure he/she is happy...Treating sex like the fun it is....Not being afraid to try new stuff...Being able to communicate with your partner.
Did i miss anything? :)
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saoirse
06-13-2002, 02:48 PM
Helping her achieve a minimum of 3 orgasms >90% of the time.
wm lopez
06-13-2002, 03:22 PM
As long as she does everything I ask.
it don't matter if she doesn't cum.
Just don't say no.
harpo787
06-13-2002, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by Cool Kitten
Willingness to please your partner and take extra time to make sure he/she is happy...Treating sex like the fun it is....Not being afraid to try new stuff...Being able to communicate with your partner.
Did i miss anything? :)
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Mandatory "pics?" request inserted here. -wink-
SBatL8y
06-13-2002, 04:27 PM
CK is right, communication is important. Being able to talk about it makes the person or yourself feel better about the situation. And you need to be comfortable with the other person. One time I think I said something along the lines about it feeling good, or something like that. And the guy was all "why did you say that?" I was like "Uh, cause it felt good." It made me uncomfortable that he didn't like it when I made a sound or said something. Has anyone else been in that situation?
Also, I disagree about being good in bed means you're willing to try anything to satisfy the other person. Some things I'm just not comfortable with, and if he disagrees, it's gonna' make the situation turn bad or be weird.
jim_mailman1962
06-13-2002, 08:26 PM
As long as they're willing for me to do something to them or them to do something to me. I must say they're good in bed. And as long as the guy is hot or my type. Like my guy, Jim.
happycamper
06-13-2002, 10:04 PM
You have to have communication. It helps to be uninhibited. You have to both be in the mood. You have to be patient and have some self control. You have to be gentle when it calls for it or agressive at other times. It's all dependent on each person and reading/knowing signs and signals that your partner is putting out there.
Save Ferris
06-14-2002, 07:57 AM
Originally posted by happycamper
You have to be patient and have some self control. You have to be gentle when it calls for it or agressive at other times. It's all dependent on each person and reading/knowing signs and signals that your partner is putting out there.
WOW a woman comparing sex to BASEBALL!
who'da thunk it?
focker
06-14-2002, 08:47 AM
Originally posted by wm lopez
As long as she does everything I ask.
it don't matter if she doesn't cum.
Just don't say no. Your partner might be good in bed, but it sounds like you're terrible. ;)
Betho
06-14-2002, 10:36 PM
It takes creativity and communication. Sex always sucks at first cuz you don't know what each other likes.. but when you take the time to learn it, then it gets better.
I'd say creativity, adventure, and consideration.
The Cow
06-14-2002, 11:01 PM
For the scoreboard...
It's the amount of "good sounds" that are heard...
(the "oh yes". "oh god", "yes, yes, yes", etc - you get the idea)
:D
Mr Maxwell House
06-16-2002, 01:13 PM
be patient and be thorough
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