Something I don't understand (BJ)

[Ranger]

Yeah, yeah, I know, b/c of the sensation part but...

Is it me or doesn't a blowjob seem nasty? I mean why would a woman (or man) put a **** in her/his mouth. I suppose if she uses mouthwash afterwards, its okay....

It also seems selfish for the 'receiver' to just have all the 'fun'. It just doesn't seem right....

[kansai999]

Ranger,

Don't you like to receive the deed?

[Mopower]

BJ's aren't nasty, now whats nasty is after you cum and she swallows then she expects you to kiss her and go on with things....... :yack:

[NYC Bi Cpl]

Well, what about just kissing? Do you have any idea how many germs are in the human mouth?

[Ranger]

Originally posted by Mopower
BJ's aren't nasty, now whats nasty is after you cum and she swallows then she expects you to kiss her and go on with things....... :yack:

And you know she will. :lol:

I just think that the woman blowing would feel like she's *gasps* being used.

But I'm sure that women in general would never do something like this.

[Mopower]

Originally posted by NYC Bi Cpl
Well, what about just kissing? Do you have any idea how many germs are in the human mouth?

Its not about germs, its about eating your own cum.

[Ranger]

Originally posted by NYC Bi Cpl
Well, what about just kissing? Do you have any idea how many germs are in the human mouth?

esp. after doing a BJ! rotfl

[Mopower]

Originally posted by Ranger


And you know she will. :lol:

I just think that the woman blowing would feel like she's *gasps* being used.

But I'm sure that women in general would never do something like this.


I know how you feel, I don't really like to get them because I think i'm just using the girl, I don't know. It doesn't feel right. Now if shes an all out slut, let her do what she wants. But I just felt bad with girls I've really cared about. Made them stop infact. I don't know, maybe we're just weird. Now going down on the girl, just makes me feel like I'm giving her what she wants. I know its the same thing, but it feels different.

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by Ranger
Is it me or doesn't a blowjob seem nasty?

Its just you

[mikehunt]

well I keep my dick clean so I don't think a woman would mind

[TheGuy]

My question is how does one start? Does a chick just get up one morning and say to herself "I'm going to start sucking dick today and swallow some cum"?

[Zodo]

How old are you guys, that's what I'm wondering?

Also, have any of you EVER gotten any?

I don't think you'd be asking these questions if you're above a certain age and have had sex before.

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Ranger
Is it me or doesn't a blowjob seem nasty? I mean why would a woman (or man) put a **** in her/his mouth. I suppose if she uses mouthwash afterwards, its okay....

It also seems selfish for the 'receiver' to just have all the 'fun'. It just doesn't seem right....
:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

[ziggy]

Most of the girls I've been with enjoyed doing it (or at least they told me they did)....Typically I didn't even have to ask. And I don't go out with slutty girls.....scratch that, I don't usually go out with slutty girls.

I don't think that there's anything nasty about it...as long as the girl doesn't try to snowball me, everything is fine.

[Ranger]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

:up: Precisely what I was thinking. I have asked some women about this and they all thought it was gross and would never do that and would definitely slap the hell out the guy of he asked.

Zodo, I'm 20 and in college, need I say more?

I guess I'm just old-fashioned and believe in 'sharing the joy with a woman'. sorry if some of you think I'm weird for caring about the woman....

[Saxofonix]

Similarly to Ziggy, most women I've known got off on giving blowjobs. Some said beforehand they won't swallow and some said they want to stop just before I climax, but a lot of them got off on the entire procedure, incl swallowing.

I guess it all depends on personal preference.

As for the complaints that a woman might want to kiss you after she has given you a blowjob to the 'end' .. just deal with it .. it's not the end of the world .. in fact, it can be quite an erotic experience in its own right.

I must also add, that the people who go eeeeeewy at these ideas, are the ones with problems and silly preconceived ideas. Just chill and enjoy sex already. sheesh.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

Awwww, but it just takes a few minutes. ;) Wouldn't you give a few minutes to make someone happy?

Some women like the power the act gives them or so I've been told. Most of the women I've known have offered it and I've never brought it up (maybe the pun was intended) on my own. It still surprises when they offer to do it.

I've also heard more girls talk about doing BJ's in the last few years.

[isamu]

It's anything but overrated. Infact, I consider it part of the deed. With that said, I enjoy giving oral pleasure to a woman just as much as I enjoy receiving it.

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Ranger
I guess I'm just old-fashioned and believe in 'sharing the joy with a woman'. sorry if some of you think I'm weird for caring about the woman....

Ha! Don't appologize for that. That attitude is going to get you the women that guys with another attitude won't. ;)


Some women like the power the act gives them or so I've been told.
Power? It seems subservient to me....

[Ranger]

WhoGirl... I was giving a sarcastic apology. :)

Lemme give you guys some more insight into this. Bill Clinton and Monica Lewisky! You got to admit that Bill didn't give a damn about Monica, he was always looking out for himself and didn't care about her. Think about that.

But, I guess some people just have different 'tastes'.

[Munchos]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

:hscratch:

So because a woman wants to please her man, that is very sickening?? How about if I want to please my woman by doing the dishes or the laundry? Would that also be sickening too?? I know the two aren't the same, but I hate to do both of those things, but to please my gf, I do them.

And I can't imagine a female saying they don't like to have any oral action. Oral messages are probably the most sexually caring form of sex that a guy can offer. And any guy who says they don't like to do it, ... well they probably say they don't masterbate either -wink-

I believe oral sex should be included in any reationship. And why would you not want to please a person that you care about?

Just my .02

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by WhoGirl




Power? It seems subservient to me....

I could see that, but some say they feel empowered knowing how much uhh, power, they hold over a man at that moment. In a pleasing way, I mean.

I know I've felt sorta powerful at the moment I make a girl writh in XTC via oral and multi-digital connections.

[wiz]

Well, maybe it's just me but the BJ is not the one thing I look forward to. Sure it's ok, but I'd rather get on with having sex with her, or allow me to please her. The BJ just doesn't do anything for me really, and I've never orgasm'd from on either, even though I've been with some really talented women...go figure.

[dtcarson]

Munchos:
And why would you not want to please a person that you care about?

My thoughts exactly. Certainly there is a line to be drawn at the 'what I do for him/her that I don't want to', and once that line is drawn, it should be respected by the other party.
This fits well into 2 of the 3 C's of a relationship:
Communication:
I do/don't like that; I hate that; I had a bad experience, so if I do that, I will be traumatized. Okay dear, I fully understand. etc.
and
Compromise:
Well, while I don't get a lot out of this *whatever*, you do. It makes you happy, which in turn makes me happy. And you do things for me that I know you don't particularly 'like'.
Those two things are 90% of what make a relationship work.
Like Buford says, some women enjoy the sense of power it can give. Yes, I think the women [or the giver, at least] does retain a good portion of power. 2 things: first, usually the receiver really likes it. Being able to do something that someone else really likes gives you power. Secondly, and perhaps more animalistic, think about it: you have one of my favorite organs between your teeth. That is quite a powerful position.
And, WhoGirl, yes, some men enjoy it because they think it gives *them* power. 'Look what I got her doing!' I also agree with you; the girl who randomly gives them out to be 'accepted' is a disappointment and a sad excuse for a woman. I knew someone like that in college; I found out too late that I wasn't the 'only one', or even the 'one right now', and what I thought was special, was basically her way of finding a place to crash at night. Especially with my current neighbour and future roommate....that made for some interesting late night chats. Once I distanced myself, I found it kinda humourous, and pathetic, watching her bounce from bed to bed.
Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks; different people get different levels and types of enjoyment out of it.
And if you 'think' about sex too much, well, isn't it all kinda 'gross'? I mean, who was the first man who decided to put this thing there? And why did the woman let him? The point, I think, is to have fun, enjoy each other's company, and try to make each other happy.

[tommyp007]

jesus....blowjobs are fantastic! what planet are you guys from?

[belboz]

Oral sex is great. It's just one of many different things that is gratifying to do with another human being in an intimate environment.

I think any conceptions about it being subservient or manipulative are entirely in people's heads. If you're giving head and in your mind you think it's empowering, then that's what it is. If you you think you're being submissive, then that's what it is too. What other people think of it shouldn't matter in the least.

And it may be just me, but as I've gotten a bit older and more experienced, I've noticed that my inhibitions about "icky" things has lessened considerably. To me, it's sort of like food. I could certainly live the rest of my life very happily just on meat and potatoes, but it's so much more interesting and fun when you get some nice sushi once in a while ;).

[Jackskeleton]

Funny how you folks see oral sex as sick, then you just go on with the sexual act for the rest of the way. some may say the act itself is disgusting. who knows.

but one thing, the human mouth is no where even near the range of clean.

I agree with Belboz, as you get older, your idea of what is Icky becomes lessened a great deal. Oh well. afraid people still have cooties.

[Ranger]

Ah...
Okay, your arguments are:
1. As you get older, your ideas of what's 'icky' lessens.
Are you saying that this is your idea of maturity? Please...
2. Its a great sensation. Yes, it is but it should be 'shared'.
3. Its not nasty. :rolleyes: I can't believe some of you guys think this. Let me make it clear. Mouth- for eating, drinking, talking, kissing (normal kissing!) and breathing. Sexual organs-for sex and going to the bathroom.
4. It makes the woman feel powerful. Well, then she has a 'problem'. Gimme a minute to get my psychology book.

[Jepthah]

I have never been with a woman who didn't willingly want to please me that way--I never asked. If the truth was that they hated it, they were damn good liars.

I suppose some people just don't like it, but I think they're missing out on a lot of pleasure.

In the biblical sense, oral is considered a degenerate act--which is pretty clear proof to me that the bible is wrong about some things. :lol:

[Jack Straw]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more. Don't sugar coat it, tell us how you really feel.

[isamu]

I think it's safe to say Ranger is a virgin. It's as obvious as the sun being hot.

[Deftones]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

So what you are saying is if a guy offered oral to you, you'd accept fully knowing that you wouldn't reciprocate?

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Deftones17


So what you are saying is if a guy offered oral to you, you'd accept fully knowing that you wouldn't reciprocate?

No. I would not. It wouldn't be fair.

[Deftones]

Originally posted by WhoGirl


No. I would not. It wouldn't be fair.

Ok, my other question is you think that all women's vaginas smell like potpourri and taste like lollipops? For as bad as you think it is for guys, it equally bad, if not worse for a guy to go down on a woman. Our genitalia is external. Your's is internal. There is alot less that could be wrong w/ a guy than could be w/ a woman down there.

With that said, I enjoy that part of sex. I have absolutely no problem giving oral sex to a woman. But, if she doesn't reciprocate, then it's cut off.

[Shimmer35]

Here is something I don't understand, why is this thread making me :yack:

Probably because I am so upset that I can't believe that someone actually thinks this way. I've heard it all ;)

Oh well, off to get a BJ. To each his own I guess :D

[Big Quasimodo]

Originally posted by Deftones17


So what you are saying is if a guy offered oral to you, you'd accept fully knowing that you wouldn't reciprocate?

Dude, I've gotten head from plenty of chicks that I wouldn't go down on with your mouth! For precisely the same reasons that you allude to in your follow-up post.

What is this, high school? If someone wants to go down on me, I'm assuming that's their choice, not some implied reciprocal commitment. All's fair in love, war, and head.... :lol:

Plus, in Whogirl's case, what if it's one of the myriad respondents who avow that they'd rather give than receive anyway? Why should she deprive them?

I guess I am old school (and old)...in my day, most guys didn't brag about giving chicks head. It was one place where it was better to recieve than to give. :jawdrop:

[Jackskeleton]

Originally posted by Shimmer35
Here is something I don't understand, why is this thread making me :yack:

Probably because I am so upset that I can't believe that someone actually thinks this way. I've heard it all ;)

Oh well, off to get a BJ. To each his own I guess :D


So damn true.

Back a few years ago when I was in Highschool, I had a friend who was asian, a very geeky (A shock, me hanging around with dorks!) In any case, flipping around his chipped cable box at home we come across the local porn channel. 2 seconds into them showing a close up of the female sex organs he says:


"Oh dude, thats gross, what is that thing? Ewwww dude, how could you put your thing into one of those.. Ewww dude. thats gross!"


I never understood why he felt that it was gross. I guss something could be said about that and different people's take on stuff. I'm sure if you were to see your ass hole in the mirror you would wonder what the hell is going on there! simply because you don't see it every day and the such.

In any case, I really don't see how people could see oral sex on both parts as "sick" or disgusting. Hey, do you know whats on someone's hand when they hold yours. Millions and millions of germs. infact, the male penis might infact be cleaner then your hands simply because it is not touching everything all day long.

[belboz]

Originally posted by Ranger
Ah...
Okay, your arguments are:
1. As you get older, your ideas of what's 'icky' lessens.
Are you saying that this is your idea of maturity? Please...


Maturity is a lot of things, of which sexuality is but one. Of course, there's no direct relationship that says the freakier you get, the more mature you are. Everyone has boundaries within which they are comfortable. Let's just say that as time goes on people's boundaries change.


2. Its a great sensation. Yes, it is but it should be 'shared'.


That's why god invented 69'ing. Seriously though, it's too narrow to simply look at any one act and judge the balance of a relationship from that. You have to look at in context with the overall give and take that exists in every relationship. Whether it's oral sex, cooking, massages, or whatever; one person in a relationship is always doing things for the other. As long as it all goes both ways, then it seems perfectly healthy to me.


3. Its not nasty. :rolleyes: I can't believe some of you guys think this. Let me make it clear. Mouth- for eating, drinking, talking, kissing (normal kissing!) and breathing. Sexual organs-for sex and going to the bathroom.


You may feel that way, but evidently a lot of people in our society wouldn't agree with you. The only real rules about how we should use the various parts of our bodies are the ones that we make for ourselves. You've got yours, I've got mine.


4. It makes the woman feel powerful. Well, then she has a 'problem'. Gimme a minute to get my psychology book.

I can't see how you can judge a person based on one fact. Certainly there are instances when a person who gives oral sex is doing so for the wrong reasons. But there, I'd say that you're confusing the problem with the symptom.

[costanza187]

oh come on...it isnt THAT bad...brushin the teeth...gargle...no problem

[costanza187]

not something I would want to do on a daily basis

[Ranger]

Originally posted by belboz
Maturity is a lot of things, of which sexuality is but one. Of course, there's no direct relationship that says the freakier you get, the more mature you are. Everyone has boundaries within which they are comfortable. Let's just say that as time goes on people's boundaries change.

I believe that it is called being more open to other activities as you explore some more. But my point is that usually the early instinct is that oral sex is not the way to go. Peer pressue seems to open up people's boundaries, which is not good. It is sad to see how some people just abandon their standards.



That's why god invented 69'ing. Seriously though, it's too narrow to simply look at any one act and judge the balance of a relationship from that. You have to look at in context with the overall give and take that exists in every relationship. Whether it's oral sex, cooking, massages, or whatever; one person in a relationship is always doing things for the other. As long as it all goes both ways, then it seems perfectly healthy to me.

But isn't oral sex going a bit too far to please someone? This is what's wrong here, a woman shouldn't have to feel that it is all part of a 'giving' relationship. In reality, it is a lowly position for a woman to be in,on her knees sucking a cock. The man would be in the higher position, and getting all the sensation. Sex isn't meant to be this way. It is simply a man and a woman having intercourse, sharing their pleasure.



You may feel that way, but evidently a lot of people in our society wouldn't agree with you. The only real rules about how we should use the various parts of our bodies are the ones that we make for ourselves. You've got yours, I've got mine.

I find that hard to believe that the majority of society thinks that oral sex is all part of a relationship. I believe that the Clinton scandal has made oral sex much more popular, but most people fail to see how selfish Clinton was being. Some media lie MTV and other teen magazines seems to glorify oral sex and deem it as 'the cool thing to do' which has become a negative influence on young people esp. girls.


I can't see how you can judge a person based on one fact. Certainly there are instances when a person who gives oral sex is doing so for the wrong reasons. But there, I'd say that you're confusing the problem with the symptom.

Where does it end if a person feels that she/he needs to feel more powerful? It can cause some damage in the relationship. A relationship is about equality, not about being in control or gaining power.

[just_al]

My wife and I LOVE giving and receiving oral sex. My wife tells me how much it turns her on to hear me moan and writhe on the bed as she is doing it. Me, I love going down on my wife. It's just totally amazing to have your partner wrapped around your finger (or tongue) and know you are giving them such pleasure.

Oral sex is good! Yaayyyyy oral sex!

[Jepthah]

Originally posted by Ranger

I find that hard to believe that the majority of society thinks that oral sex is all part of a relationship.

-eek- Time for you to wake up, son. :lol:

Poll after poll shows that the majority of Americans of all sexual orientations, ages and states of relationship practice and enjoy oral sex.

Why do you think all those anti-sodomy laws in certain states are receiving court challenges on a semi-regular basis?

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by Ranger
I believe that the Clinton scandal has made oral sex much more popular.

I think not. Its always been popular.

I've never heard of someone analyzing oral sex so much as you do! :lol:

[Ranger]

Originally posted by MJKTool

I've never heard of someone analyzing oral sex so much as you do! :lol:

rotfl:lol:

belboz had made a case against my post so I felt that I had to respond with more details. :D

"What is the popular thing to do isn't always the right thing to do."

[Shimmer35]

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
Hey, do you know whats on someone's hand when they hold yours. Millions and millions of germs. infact, the male penis might infact be cleaner then your hands simply because it is not touching everything all day long.

It all depends, some people are very "active"

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[hotaru_san]

it's been my experience that if you really care about someone then there is nothing gross about it
and if you're going to have sex afterwards than you wouldn't have to deal with tasting much of anything

if you intend to spend your life with someone then you'll have to deal with their germs in some way and if have kids you'll have to deal with diapers, snot, and kinds of other ickiness
I'd certainly rather give a bj than change a nasty diaper -wink-
(although I don't think bjs are icky or nasty)

[Jackskeleton]

Do what the machine tells you..


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[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Deftones17
Ok, my other question is you think that all women's vaginas smell like potpourri and taste like lollipops? For as bad as you think it is for guys, it equally bad, if not worse for a guy to go down on a woman. Our genitalia is external. Your's is internal. There is alot less that could be wrong w/ a guy than could be w/ a woman down there.
Men's genitalia is external and women's is internal?!? Wow, thanks for that lesson in sex ed!

No. I don't think that all women's vaginas are like what you described above. Hell, did I even imply that? I thought I made it clear with "..nor do I expect him to do it" because I know I sure as hell wouldn't want to eat p***y. Yech.

I think Ranger said it best:
Mouth- for eating, drinking, talking, kissing (normal kissing!) and breathing. Sexual organs-for sex and going to the bathroom.
Hey. Different strokes for different folks. So on and so on it's scooby dooby dooby. If that's what does it for you, more power to ya. That just isn't my thing though. The act itself is great enough for me.


Now let me ask you a question. If things were reversed and women had penises, would you suck it to please them?

[belboz]

Now let me ask you a question. If things were reversed and women had penises, would you suck it to please them?

rotfl rotfl rotfl rotfl

[Jackskeleton]

Originally posted by WhoGirl
Now let me ask you a question. If things were reversed and women had penises, would you suck it to please them?


Now the real question would be, If men had tits, would you chicks be gawking at them instead of looking at my eyes when talking to me? Damn it!!?


I think it's pretty strange to make that comperison, because if the roles were reverse, and both had each others sex organs, I don't see why there would be any difference.

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
Now the real question would be, If men had tits, would you chicks be gawking at them instead of looking at my eyes when talking to me? Damn it!!?


I think it's pretty strange to make that comperison, because if the roles were reverse, and both had each others sex organs, I don't see why there would be any difference.

................I'm sorry. Were you saying something?



Strange comparision? Yes it is, I guess. But there would be a difference, and there is a point behind my asking that. Now, would you answer the question instead of diverting the issue? ;)

[Ranger]

Originally posted by WhoGirl
................I'm sorry. Were you saying something?



Strange comparision? Yes it is, I guess. But there would be a difference, and there is a point behind my asking that. Now, would you answer the question instead of diverting the issue? ;)

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Now that's a great comeback! rotfl

[ziggy]

Originally posted by WhoGirl
................I'm sorry. Were you saying something?



Strange comparision? Yes it is, I guess. But there would be a difference, and there is a point behind my asking that. Now, would you answer the question instead of diverting the issue? ;)

I gotta go with Jack on this one, the analogy doesn't make much sense....if chicks had dicks, they'd be guys.

If you mean, if we were girls would we suck dick? I think the answer is yes, though the first guy to cum in my mouth would become a unick (sp).

[tygloalex]

OK, I want diverted from the question. If Chicks had penises and a had a vagina, would I suck it? Hell yeah. I'm not gay, but I would do whatever it takes to please someone. Hell now I'm a dirty frigin freak anyway. I discovered I could make my wife come by licking her ass. Do I lick her ass? Yes, all the time. She gets off on it. If she got off by taking a s*** in my mouth, would I do it? Hell yeah. Don't make such a big deal out of it. All a chick has a do is open her mouth, make an "O" face and bob up and down. All I have to do it spread the sandwich and lick the top for a little while. Do I get off on it? Sometimes I frigin come from !

So, yes, in a world where chicks have penises, I'm a dirty c***sucker :)

[ziggy]

Whoa, I wouldn't quite go that far, tygloalex. Nobodies crapping in my mouth even if it gives her a screaming, howling, body-racking orgasm every time.

[mrkent]

Originally posted by WhoGirl
:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

It's funny how a "BJ" is gross. I mean, did you think about when a guy goes down on a chick? Do you know what comes out of there? There are the monthly's, then there are the other stuff that I don't want to get into. The last time I checked, GIRLS are HARD TO PLEASE!!!! How many chicks really get a trip just by having sex? Almost all the articles I've read, and EVEN from MY GIRLFRIEND... they all said that they don't achieve orgasms from sex ALL THE TIME. My girl got more from me going down on her then when we just have a quickie or sex.

GIVE SOME, GET SOME. If you give a darn about the one you CARE most about, every inch of their body is sexy to you. I want to please my girl with everything that I've got and I'm sure that she wants to have the same for me.

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by isamu
:jawdrop: :yack:

http://home.earthlink.net/~zephyr1972/_uimages/dance.gif


Janet Reno eats crap already. F*** her.

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by ziggy
Whoa, I wouldn't quite go that far, tygloalex. Nobodies crapping in my mouth even if it gives her a screaming, howling, body-racking orgasm every time.

That's you, not me. My father used to say that he'd crawl on his knees through broken glass to smell the exhaust of the truck that took a hot chick's panties to the cleaners.

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by mrkent
It's funny how a "BJ" is gross. I mean, did you think about when a guy goes down on a chick? Do you know what comes out of there? There are the monthly's, then there are the other stuff that I don't want to get into. The last time I checked, GIRLS are HARD TO PLEASE!!!! How many chicks really get a trip just by having sex? Almost all the articles I've read, and EVEN from MY GIRLFRIEND... they all said that they don't achieve orgasms from sex ALL THE TIME. My girl got more from me going down on her then when we just have a quickie or sex.

GIVE SOME, GET SOME. If you give a darn about the one you CARE most about, every inch of their body is sexy to you. I want to please my girl with everything that I've got and I'm sure that she wants to have the same for me.

No, I NEVER thought about what happens when a GUY GOES DOWN on a CHICK or the physical mechanics of the VAGINA. Nor did I ALREADY point this out in a PREVIOUS POST. I am an IMBECILE who does not THINK OF SUCH things. I love to POST WITHOUT THINKING of all possibilities first because thinking sucks. I also don't READ EVERY POST in a thread to see if such things had already been DISCUSSED. DOH DEE DOH time to go shove SCISSORS up my NOSE to kill more brain cells!

And FOR THE RECORD, I am one of the CHICKS that really gets a TRIP just from sex. From the studies I have READ most chicks have problems orgasming through SEX because they can't relax enough during the act, they haven't FOUND an erogenous place THERE, or don't speak up to a guy to TELL THEM what and where feels good. That's why they might seem HARD TO PLEASE!!!

[WhoGirl]

Alright. Who is the funny mod who changed my name? Hmmm?

[Ranger]

Originally posted by Won'tGirl
Alright. Who is the funny mod who changed my name? Hmmm?

I bet it was Blake! :o

[Gunshy]

Originally posted by tygloalex
That's you, not me. My father used to say that he'd crawl on his knees through broken glass to smell the exhaust of the truck that took a hot chick's panties to the cleaners.

rotfl

that little anectdote just made my day!

-Gunshy

[Jackskeleton]

So the question is if chicks had dicks and men had pussies, would I as a male suck a female dick

(Wow, this sounds totally wrong) But the answer is yes, I would suck dick

(Who ever quotes that ANYWHERE will die a very slow and painful death)

It's part of sex. yes, oral sex is part of sex. There really is no differnce who does it, as long as it is getting done by someone. I would go down a girl happily. I don't see anything gross from it even though every thing that it goes through and releases on a monthly cycle.

It's part of oral sex. part of foreplay. and hell, thats something that should be taken advantage of as much as possible.

[Three Day Delay]

This is what I get for ignoring the mature forum too long rotfl rotfl rotfl

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by Won'tGirl
Now let me ask you a question. If things were reversed and women had penises, would you suck it to please them?

I'm inclined to think that the percentages of people who enjoy giving and receiving oral sex would remain the same.

Lots of guys say that cocks are gross, nasty things because they are afraid to say anything else. But really, if we thought our genitals were so revolting, would so many of us happily see our women sucking on them? No. Absolutely not.

Guys, take something truly disgusting and dirty- like a tubesock filled with feces, and imagine that (somehow) your nervous system would be overloaded with pleasure sensations if your girlfriend sucked on this thing. Would you want her to suck on it? Of course not.

Despite what some females might believe, men do have consideration for what their partner is going through. Most guys would not get off on receiving oral sex if it was clear to us that the woman giving it was not enjoying herself.

Whogirl, I'm glad to see you defending your position- by coming into a thread like this and declaring that oral sex is disgusting, you were begging for responses that would be (to say the least) incredulous. I only hope that you weren't looking for validation of some kind. It's good to see that you aren't taking anything back... it takes guts to stand by your opinions. But I won't be the first to say it, and I won't be the last: You are in a very small minority.


I have a very important question that I would love for either Whogirl or Ranger to answer, since they are the reigning experts on what different body parts are "made for" or what those parts are "supposed to do". I'm sure that one of them can answer this question to my complete satisfaction, since they agree with such certainty on exactly what the mouth is made for doing, and what the genitals are made for doing:

What are hands made for doing?

I'll be waiting for the definitive list of functions that hands are suited to. Take your time. Meanwhile, if you want an easier question, how about telling me what the "proper" functions of the human breast are?

[Deftones]

Originally posted by Won'tGirl
Men's genitalia is external and women's is internal?!? Wow, thanks for that lesson in sex ed!

You're welcome.

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Won'tGirl

Now let me ask you a question. If things were reversed and women had penises, would you suck it to please them?

but Jules told me to stop sucking your cock :p

and knew that this was the thread that inspired your name change as soon as i saw it :lol:

[El Scorcho]

i CANT read your DAMN POST with all the FRICKIN CAPITAL letters STREWN about!!

Anyway, ladies (and guys) get over yourselves and get your mouth down there and start suckin/lickin. Sometimes you just do things in life you're not too fond of in order to make others happy.

[Ranger]

Well, Five Cent Deposit, since WhoGirl probably emailing all the mods a strong email.

I'll go first. first, that is still a weak response.. Hands are hands.. they're for writing, throwing, typing, steering a car wheel, holding a s/o's hand, I could go on but I'm not going to waste my time writing the millions of normal uses of the hands. Then to others with different 'standards', hands are for handjobs, picking their nose, masturbating, etc.

Now, as for the woman's breasts.. c'mon, do you need an explanation? :rolleyes:

Now, I am getting tired here since it is like :brickwl: with you guys. I guess I can conclude that some people just have their own standards.

[belboz]

Okay, so Ty and Jack have gone on the record as cockgobblers. Anyone else? :D

LOL @ the name change. I believe only admins can change names, but it wouldn't be Geoff or Blade, and you'd think Randy or X would know better... :)

Won'tGirl, I hope you're not getting peeved about this. I don't think any of us are trying to belittle you or your viewpoint. If you choose not to indulge in oral sex, that's certainly your prerogative and we wouldn't ask you to justify it. We are, however, interested in discussing it.

This all reminds me of an old joke:

A guy's walking along the road when he sees an old man with a sign that reads "Frog for sale, $500." Puzzled, the guy stops and asks the old man, "Why would I pay $500 for a frog?"

The old man replies, "Because this frog has been trained to give the best blow jobs in the world. I can see that you're skeptical, so if you want, you can try it once for free."

The guy thinks about it and decides he's got nothing to lose, so he takes the frog behind some bushes and sure enough, it gives him the best blowjob he's ever had. So he pays the old man and hurries home.

Later that day, when the guy's wife returns home, she finds her husband in the kichen making a big mess. Pots and pans are strewn about and he's holding the frog and some cookbooks.

"What the heck are you doing?" she asks.

"Well," he replies, "if I can teach this thing to cook, your ass is out of here."

[Buford T Pusser]

Won'tGirl is back to WhoGirl and life goes on.

[WhoGirl]

Originally posted by Five Cent Deposit
Whogirl, I'm glad to see you defending your position- by coming into a thread like this and declaring that oral sex is disgusting, you were begging for responses that would be (to say the least) incredulous. I only hope that you weren't looking for validation of some kind. It's good to see that you aren't taking anything back... it takes guts to stand by your opinions. But I won't be the first to say it, and I won't be the last: You are in a very small minority.

Thanks....
I know I'm in the minority, or at least in the minority that would admit to not liking it. But, I don't care. I wasn't looking for validation. I wasn't looking for kind responses. Hell, I wasn't looking for anything but to shed my two cents on the issue.
As for your question, I'll get to that later.

WhoGirl, I hope you're not getting peeved about this. I don't think any of us are trying to belittle you or your viewpoint. If you choose not to indulge in oral sex, that's certainly your prerogative and we wouldn't ask you to justify it. We are, however, interested in discussing it.

Naw, I'm not getting peeved. I will justify it a little bit for the hell of it.
I don't like it. It made me feel sick while doing it, to the point of vomiting. Now, if I could tolerate it maybe (a very stressed maybe) I would do it, but I can't. It's not just unpleasant, it makes me physically sick.
I've never had a boyfriend complain that I don't, either. I explain the situation, they've understood. Hell, if a guy did seriously complain or try to push me to do it, their ass would be out the door. End of story.

[Jackskeleton]

and for the record, Five Cent, can you remove the quotes from your sig. I doubt the mod's at dvd talk want you to put the word dick in a sig when you post outside of mature.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
and for the record, Five Cent, can you remove the quotes from your sig. I doubt the mod's at dvd talk want you to put the word dick in a sig when you post outside of mature.

I'm sure he's correct that most of your sig won't fly if seen outside of Mature.

FiveCentDeposit's sig:

Cool Kitten: you fake poop?
hotaru-san: No. Save Ferris said pooping can be emotional and asked if fake orgasms were emotional- I was just turning the question around.
tygloalex: ...in a world where chicks have penises, I'm a dirty c***sucker
Jackskeleton: ...yes, I would suck dick (Who ever quotes that ANYWHERE will die a very slow and painful death)

Cook Kitten's quote might be okay. hotaru-san quote questionable. Tygloalex-no way Jackskeleton: that one would be fine if you just substitute **** for dick.

Right Jack? http://www.volition.com/chat/images/wink.gif

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by Ranger
"What is the popular thing to do isn't always the right thing to do."

Are you implying that those who engage in oral sex are doing something "wrong"??

[Jackskeleton]

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
I'm sure he's correct that most of your sig won't fly if seen outside of Mature.

FiveCentDeposit's sig:

Cool Kitten: you fake poop?
hotaru-san: No. Save Ferris said pooping can be emotional and asked if fake orgasms were emotional- I was just turning the question around.
tygloalex: ...in a world where chicks have penises, I'm a dirty c***sucker
Jackskeleton: ...yes, I would suck dick (Who ever quotes that ANYWHERE will die a very slow and painful death)

Cook Kitten's quote might be okay. hotaru-san quote questionable. Tygloalex-no way Jackskeleton: that one would be fine if you just substitute **** for dick.

Right Jack? http://www.volition.com/chat/images/wink.gif

well then you get into the issue of him meeting a slow and painful death.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
well then you get into the issue of him meeting a slow and painful death.

Truedat, but I figured he was into that sort of thing!

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by belboz
Okay, so Ty and Jack have gone on the record as cockgobblers. Anyone else? :D



Me and Jack are proud cockgobblers. :lol: Well, I mean not with each other though. I mean, cuz I'm not gay, but you know I thought about it, a little bit, well, dammit, let me get to the point, what are you doing next week Jack?:lol:

[tygloalex]

Go ahead quote me, I don't give a damn.

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by WhoGirl

I don't like it. It made me feel sick while doing it, to the point of vomiting. Now, if I could tolerate it maybe (a very stressed maybe) I would do it, but I can't. It's not just unpleasant, it makes me physically sick.


don't worry...gag reflexes are normal. i had that feeling a few times, and it definately was not pleasant, and so i understand.

i don't think that it's really that unsanitary, and if it really is, why would a woman allow a man to put an unsanitary thing in their vagina (and the same goes for a man)?

of course, it's not like i have a chance in hell of getting a bj anyways, so i guess in the end, it doesn't really matter :(

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by D.Phlowbee
don't worry...gag reflexes are normal. i had that feeling a few times, and it definately was not pleasant, and so i understand.


You had a dick in your mouth?

[darkessenz]

Yeah, yeah, I know, b/c of the sensation part but...

Is it me or doesn't a blowjob seem nasty? I mean why would a woman (or man) put a **** in her/his mouth. I suppose if she uses mouthwash afterwards, its okay....

It also seems selfish for the 'receiver' to just have all the 'fun'. It just doesn't seem right....




Would you refuse a massage because it gives pleasure only to the receiver in an intimate way? You seem to have a very negative and selfish view of sexuality.

A person's dedication of time to a partner for their pleasure is one of the most intimate and satisfying aspects of love and love-making. Saying that mutual pleasure is the only acceptual form of sexuality is pretty ridiculous.

To call giving oral sex "nasty" is a completely subjective and personal opinion unsubstantiated by scientific fact. If you feel that using a public restroom is nasty, feel free to avoid using these public restrooms but don't tell us that we aren't "right" for doing so.

Society conditions kids with the idea that sexual organs are "dirty,' and uses this to control the individual's sexuality. Oral sex flaunts these artificial restraints and provides tremendous pleasure for the receiver and the opportunity to give this tremendous pleasure for the giver.

Lighten up man and enjoy life.

[tygloalex]

Unsanitary is such a cop-out. Every frigin thing is unsanitary. I work at a restaurant and y'all would probably frigin puke if you saw what happens to the food you eat. We don't do anything on purpose like spittin or pissin on it or whatever, but let me tell you, restaurants are rushed bad and that burger or burrito you put in your mouth is probably 10 times worse than a puntang.

[Big Quasimodo]

It seems as if the many are arguing with the few who have disclosed their "perception" that oral is not to their liking.

What's the point? Do you think you can change someone's feelings by arguing logic?

If someone has tried it, and doesn't like it, or if someone doesn't want to try it because the concept seems aversive, what's the goal of attacking their viewpoint?

To each his own. I wouldn't break up with a woman who didn't give me head, but I would be sad when I thought about it. :D

P.S. I have been with more than a couple of women who didn't like oral. Said they were too sensitive. Course, maybe it was me.....

[Ranger]

Ahh... seems like I'll never have the last word in this thread. :brickwl:

I know that WhoGirl and I are not the only ones here that has this opinion about oral sex. I am sure there are many others who share our opinion.

That's is what we think, don't tell us to 'lighten up' or 'don't you care about your partner?' Its called 'Peer Pressure'.

I didn't mean to imply that I was judging you by your lifestyle.

I have been trying to explain it over and over in this thread. My main point is that a **** (clean or not) does NOT belong in a human being's mouth!

But fine, do whatever works for you.

[tygloalex]

Ranger, have you ever gotten a blowjob? It feels like a perfectly shaped vagina. And I can't speak for everyone, but every woman I've ever been loves to do it. I love to do it for them more. It's not dirty. I have some reservations about anal sex, but I do it for my wife. That dildo hurts my ass sometimes, but screw it, shes getting off on it.

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by Ranger
I'll go first. first, that is still a weak response.. Hands are hands.. they're for writing, throwing, typing, steering a car wheel, holding a s/o's hand, I could go on but I'm not going to waste my time writing the millions of normal uses of the hands. Then to others with different 'standards', hands are for handjobs, picking their nose, masturbating, etc.

HAHAHAHAH. hold on a second... AAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA. wait, I think I can get myself under control... WAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHHA.

Okay, now that that is out of my system... my response is "weak"??? No- my post was calculated to draw exactly the response that you gave it. It served its purpose.

"Hands are hands" is no way to open up with a couterpoint, youngster. Cocks are cocks, are they not? Mouths are mouths. We could go on like this indefinitely. You suggest that hands have millions of "normal uses", but that you simply don't have the time to list them all. I'm guessing you believe that you can think of all of these "normal" uses, right? I mean, you could think of them if you tried hard enough and had the time to "waste". Come on, man. I'm more curious about your ideas of what would be an "abnormal use"- handjobs, nosepicking, masturbating etc.? The fact that you talk about people having different standars, but put the word standards in quotation marks while using a bold for your earlier use of the word normal, show where your colors are, bro. I'd guess that anyone whose 'standards' are different from yours are not normal in your opinion... which I am beginning to think is less than humble. I'd been under the impression that you posted this thread out of simple curiosity, but the more you post in it, the more evident it is that you have an absolutely closed mind.

Originally posted by Ranger
Now, as for the woman's breasts.. c'mon, do you need an explanation? :rolleyes:

Well, you seemed to think that we needed an explanation of the proper uses of the mouth. I am sure that I wasn't the only one who learned something from it. I'm still waiting for a deeper analysis of what the accepted method of kissing that you alluded to is. Don't roll your eyes at ME, pal. You asked for this.

Originally posted by Ranger
Now, I am getting tired here since it is like :brickwl: with you guys. I guess I can conclude that some people just have their own standards.

Yes, that is a safe conclusion to make. I'm sure that you'd made that conclusion prior to starting this thread, so I'll be the first to ask- Why did you start this thread exactly?

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by Ranger
I have been trying to explain it over and over in this thread. My main point is that a **** (clean or not) does NOT belong in a human being's mouth!

Ranger, we know what your main point is. But being that you haven't stated the criteria you use for making that judgement, what are we supposed to think?

Five Cent Deposit: Hey Jack, this guy says that a cock does NOT belong in a human being's mouth! Dude... that sucks!

Jackskeleton: well you know actually I guess it doesn't suck. :p:p wait, this DOES suck, just not in that cool way! :(

tygloalex: Wait, guys, he didn't say anything about a dog's mouth!! Yay!!!

Ranger, what the HELL are you talking about? I know what your conclusion is, but what is your argument? I know you have some strong feelings about this, and I'd like to see you articulate them more fully. Seriously. Show me how you reached this conclusion. Because hey, if we're allowed to make up the rules as we go along, can't I just say "My main point is that a **** (clean or not) does INDEED belong in a human being's mouth!" or hell, I can say "My main point is that a Snickers bar (clean or not) does NOT belong in a human being's mouth!". My earlier point about our hands, and how we use them, is meant to illustrate that until we as a species stop thinking of new things to use our hands on, we can never come up with a finite list of their uses. To try to list the right and wrong ways to use our mouths is foolish. BTW, I noticed you left whistling off your list, bub.

Human nature IS all about making up the rules as we go along- we have that divine freedom of intelligence and imagination. If we can think of it, we can do it. So you have every right, within that freedom, to decide that you will never experience a blowjob. But you are choosing to think of oral sex as "wrong" because you perceive it as somehow harmful. Nobody here would disagree with you if you said that blowjobs are bad if they are upsetting to the individuals in the relationship, or upsetting to the relationship itself. But there are people who *like* giving and receiving them. As long as there are people with varying preferences, and as long as noone is being hurt, why make blanket statements about what is right and wrong?

[Jackskeleton]

Man, I take it he has never had a blow job or else he would be thinking different. :p

they may seem unnatural, but hey, sex in itself seems odd to those that first act or see it.

as for those who say it's gross.. eh, you have your own tolorance, and man, you don't know what your missing. :p

[Khan]

Ranger, this thread will not go away until you let it. My advice - keep quiet. You're never going to win this one.

Saying what you think is fine but calling it 'peer pressure' when the majority disagrees with you is a copout. So far as I can see nobody is pressuring you to do anything except stop lecturing about other people about what they shouldn't be doing with their private parts.

Man. This one time, at band camp...

[waporvare]

Oral sex is more about pleasing your SO by any means possible. Some people enjoy pleasing their SO's more than others.

Whogirl if you don't like it and don't care if you receive it then you've never truly experienced it. With the right person, with the proper skills, the "ikyness" of it is quickly forgotten.

[JimRochester]

Why are brides always smiling?
















They know they've given their last blowjob

[suziq999]

I know this is going to make me super popular here at DVDtalk... BUT,

I LOVE going down on a guy. Most men can't even freaking move when you're giving them head because it feels *so* damn good. Why wouldn't you want to do that to someone you love or care about? Its such an ego boost, and so much fun to please your partner.

And its not dirty or gross. Jeez as long as he showers every day, his fingers are probably dirtier than his dick. I mean really, pee is sterile anyways... and though cum isn't exactly something I would dine on regularly, its not that bad.

I am personally amazed that there is a male out there that doesn't think getting a BJ is the best thing in the universe.


And just FWIW, I love guys going down on me too, so ;p

[PerpleNerple]

Well, I've read enough to know that I would've never thought that so many people would oppose such a wonderful thing. I loved getting head before I ever got it, and I went through the last 32 years of my life not being able to cum from it. I have asked a girl or two in my time to give me head, but only after they've done it before on a seperate occasion. No woman that I've ever come across didn't give head, and the one I got now loves to give it, she has actually begged me to cum in her mouth. It took months of her trying, but I eventually made it, and she was never happier, now she makes me cum in her mouth on a regular basis. I do the same for her also, in fact someone had mentioned something about being empowered while giving head. I rather think of it as the opposite, I love it when my woman pins me down and sits on my face, she is so hot. But she's the one who uses the power, she forcing me to eat her, and I love it. And I am also of the opinion that she likes to be the submissive when giving also, she definitely seems to enjoy it more when I pin her down and shove my dick in her mouth, cause when I go to get off of her she pulls me back down on her and forces me into her mouth again, she sometimes grabs my ass and makes me phuck her face. I can see the power being traded off in both ways though, when she finally made me cum for the first time, she started doing it almost daily, you should've seen the smiles that crossed her face when I would blow my load, it was like sheer accomplishment on her part, and it was. The power can go both ways, regardless of what position you're in. Oral sex is great!

[PerpleNerple]

Originally posted by suziq999
I am personally amazed that there is a male out there that doesn't think getting a BJ is the best thing in the universe.

Best thing in the universe? No
Second best thing in the Universe? Yes
Best thing in the universe is: Going down on a woman!

Yaaaaaaaay, Suziq999!

Booooooooo, Whogirl!

J/k

[ravan]

Gotta love this fantasyland thread!! :lol:

[ravan]

Originally posted by Deftones17
smell like potpourri

You looked that up didnt you? :o

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by MJKTool
You had a dick in your mouth?

hey...how do you think i get all these favors from the mods?

ok, seriously, i'll never seriously say, oh "i enjoy sucking and blowing other men". that's just not something i'm into.

the dentist had to mold my teeth once for the retainer, and some of the goo dripped into my throat. i felt real sick, and almost threw up.

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by D.Phlowbee
ok, seriously, i'll never seriously say, oh "i enjoy sucking and blowing other men". that's just not something i'm into.



...no seriously...i believe you buddy -wink-

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by MJKTool
...no seriously...i believe you buddy -wink-

well, i'm glad you do, since i'm a very serious person :p

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by suziq999
I know this is going to make me super popular here at DVDtalk... BUT,

I LOVE going down on a guy. Most men can't even freaking move when you're giving them head because it feels *so* damn good. Why wouldn't you want to do that to someone you love or care about? Its such an ego boost, and so much fun to please your partner.

And its not dirty or gross. Jeez as long as he showers every day, his fingers are probably dirtier than his dick. I mean really, pee is sterile anyways... and though cum isn't exactly something I would dine on regularly, its not that bad.

I am personally amazed that there is a male out there that doesn't think getting a BJ is the best thing in the universe.


And just FWIW, I love guys going down on me too, so ;p


How you doing???

[suziq999]

Originally posted by tygloalex
How you doing???

:eyebrow:

[happycamper]

Damn...I wish I would have looked in here sooner.

The first couple times that I went down on a guy were awful. I hated it. I thought it was gross. All of the above baloney. I was also VERY young at the time. As I've gotten older, giving them became more enjoyable to me...as well as broadening my other sexual experiences as well. I've always been open-minded when it comes to stuff like this. It kinda became somewhat of a challenge to me to make sure that I was getting my guy off...and then it was a question of how fast I could get them off.

Now that I'm older, I can honestly say that I love going down on a guy. And it's not so much for the challenge anymore rather than for pleasing my partner in any way that he wants (within the boundaries of what I want and are willing to do). It's all about being close with someone and sharing each other and intimacy. And that doesn't just come with BJ's...it's EVERYTHING. But with my experience, I'm comfortable enough with myself to open up to my partner and possibly even explore new and exciting situations/scenarios that 10 or even 5 years ago, I may not have had the nerve to.

To each his own, but your SO's are missing out on the whole experience of sharing yourselves with each other. I hope you guys share your 'distaste' for these acts before getting too involved with someone.

[mr. longshanks]

Happy camper, do you drive a white mitsubishi diamante? I think I saw you on my way to work (in Mission Viejo). If not, you have a twin that you do not know about.

[happycamper]

Nope. Blue piece o' sh|t Honda Civic.

And if I have a twin that I don't know about, I wouldn't be able to tell you, would I? ;)

[mr. longshanks]

damn, knowing now that you like giving bjs, it would of been like a celebrity sighting! j/k

[JimRochester]

Originally posted by suziq999
I know this is going to make me super popular here at DVDtalk... BUT,

I LOVE going down on a guy. Most men can't even freaking move when you're giving them head because it feels *so* damn good. Why wouldn't you want to do that to someone you love or care about? Its such an ego boost, and so much fun to please your partner.

And its not dirty or gross. Jeez as long as he showers every day, his fingers are probably dirtier than his dick. I mean really, pee is sterile anyways... and though cum isn't exactly something I would dine on regularly, its not that bad.

I am personally amazed that there is a male out there that doesn't think getting a BJ is the best thing in the universe.


And just FWIW, I love guys going down on me too, so ;p




Remember when I invited you over for dinner with the family when you visit Rochester? I just changed my mind, the family won't be there ;) :eyebrow:

[teddydogg]

Originally posted by Deftones17
I have absolutely no problem giving oral sex to a woman. But, if she doesn't reciprocate, then it's cut off.

:jawdrop: That seems a little harsh doesn't it? ;)

[lesterlong]

Originally posted by tygloalex
OK, I want diverted from the question. If Chicks had penises and a had a vagina, would I suck it? Hell yeah. I'm not gay, but I would do whatever it takes to please someone. Hell now I'm a dirty frigin freak anyway. I discovered I could make my wife come by licking her ass. Do I lick her ass? Yes, all the time. She gets off on it. If she got off by taking a s*** in my mouth, would I do it? Hell yeah. Don't make such a big deal out of it. All a chick has a do is open her mouth, make an "O" face and bob up and down. All I have to do it spread the sandwich and lick the top for a little while. Do I get off on it? Sometimes I frigin come from !

So, yes, in a world where chicks have penises, I'm a dirty c***sucker :)

I want this as my quote!

[teddydogg]

Originally posted by Ranger

It also seems selfish for the 'receiver' to just have all the 'fun'. It just doesn't seem right....

What if you are not pleasing that woman by having just regular sex doesn't that seem a little selfish? I mean not all women orgasm all the time so if you are not pleasing her it would be the same thing?
My friend has always said about his wife that after they do it once she becomes a little wider and so having sex with her is not that fun the second time around so he pleasures he other ways. He always says it is like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. :lol: That still makes me laugh everytime I hear that.

[SBatL8y]

Now, I might be in the worse boat then. I've only given oral sex to one guy, and been given oral sex by the same guy. I sort of liked giving it, but being so inexperienced, I was not completely comfortable. Now, being GIVEN oral sex was nice, but I actually enjoyed the giving more than the receiving. I think maybe he was just not good at it. I've always orgasmed from sex, but never from oral. The guy I am seeing now wants me to give him oral, and I have no problem with that. I just wish they taught a class on it or something. :( I would like to be really REALLY good at it. Would it be bad to ask one of my guy friends to be my teacher? :D

[MJKTool]

Originally posted by SBatL8y
I would like to be really REALLY good at it. Would it be bad to ask one of my guy friends to be my teacher? :D

Wanna be best friends!?

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by happycamper

I can honestly say that I love going down on a guy.

that almost made it into my sig :p

[Buford T Pusser]

Anyone remember Liz Phair?

http://www-scf.usc.edu/~thier/Pics/liz.jpg

http://www.liz-phair.com/images/liz06.jpg

http://www.liz-phair.com/images/liz19.jpg

In her album review, every critic quoted her song, "Flower".



Flower

Every time I see your face I get all wet between my legs
Every time you pass me by I heave a sigh of pain
(Over voice)
Every time I see your face I think of things not pure and chaste
I want to **** you like a dog
I'll take you home and make you like it
Everything you ever wanted
Everything you ever thought of
Is everything I'll do to you
I'll **** you and your girlfriend, too
Your face reminds me of a flower
Kind of like you're underwater
Hair's too long and in your eyes
Your lips a perfect "suck me" size
You act like you're fourteen years old
Everything you say is so obnoxious, funny, rude and mean
I want to be your blowjob queen
You're probably shy and introspective
That's not part of my objective
I just want your fresh, young jimmy
Jamming, slamming, ramming in me
Everytime I see you face I think of things not pure and chaste
I want to **** you like a dog
I'll take you home and make you like it
Everything you ever wanted
Everything you ever thought of
Is everything I'll do to you
I'll **** you till your dick is blue
Everytime

[BigPete]

Originally posted by SBatL8y
Would it be bad to ask one of my guy friends to be my teacher? :D

My advice for all girls out there: don't ever let this thought cross your mind. Don't ever say something like this in front of a guy you might be interested in. If you tell him you've never done it before and ask for his help, it'll blow his mind. If you let on that you suck a lot of dicks and asked another guy to help so you could be good for him, he'd probably walk. Getting a girlfriend to teach you with a dildo, however = ok. Watching porn for technique = ok. I repeat, letting on that you do this a lot or mentioning that you've done it before = major faux pas.

It's really easy to be very good ... and you don't have to swallow, taking the shot in the mouth has the same effect. Just, under no circumstances should you ever give a guy a reason to picture you with someone else's package in your mouth.

[isamu]

I'll second that

[belboz]

Originally posted by BigPete
Just, under no circumstances should you ever give a guy a reason to picture you with someone else's package in your mouth.

37!?!? In a row?


:D Sorry, that was pretty much obligatory.

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by belboz
37!?!? In a row?


:D Sorry, that was pretty much obligatory.

Try not to suck any d*ck on your way through the parking lot.

[SBatL8y]

I wasn't saying I've given a lot of oral sex. That's not what I meant. I just want to be good at it. I guess I feel the way a lot of girls feel. We ENJOY giving a man pleasure.

I just have a lot of guy friends who practically score each girl that gives them head. So I am sure it's not THAT easy to be GOOD at it.

Any guy here have a few pointers? ;)

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by SBatL8y
I...I am sure it's not THAT easy to be GOOD at it.

Any guy here have a few pointers? ;)

I think BigPete said above that it is really easy to be good... don't know if I agree with that. What I can say is that many women are not good at it. Perhaps it isn't hard to improve, but enough women seem clueless that I think it is safe to say that it isn't an innate skill for most.

As far as pointers, well... there aren't any *ahem* hard and fast rules (pun NOT intended. subtext NOT intended) that dictate the "best" way to do it. Every guy has different preferences. But there are definitely some guidelines that apply 99% of the time. There are actually some fantastic files/pages on the web with advice, written by people with far more experience than you'll ever need. These few have been kind enough to try to distill the countless man-hours of tireless research in the field into easily understood non-scientific FAQs and walkthroughs for the novices out there. Funny thing is, the best known guide to blowjobs on the net was written by a gay man, who has the perspective of giver AND receiver and thus can probably offer the best advice available. I'll see if I can scare up the link for you.

[Five Cent Deposit]

Here's a helpful link. I can't believe this place is still around after all these years- I remember checking out "Boner's Shacklet" at Bianca's Smut Shack way back in '95, I think. Just click the link and then scrool down to the section on Oral Sex- "Boner" provides links to more helpful websites than you'll ever need. :)



Boner's collection of Sex Resources on the net (http://members.bianca.com/shacklet/Boner)

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by SBatL8y
I wasn't saying I've given a lot of oral sex. That's not what I meant. I just want to be good at it. I guess I feel the way a lot of girls feel. We ENJOY giving a man pleasure.

I just have a lot of guy friends who practically score each girl that gives them head. So I am sure it's not THAT easy to be GOOD at it.

Any guy here have a few pointers? ;)

I have a pointer. Uh, wait, is that right?

[Buford T Pusser]

I've had several that weren't that good at it. It's up to the suckee to tell the sucker what he wants.

[happycamper]

It just takes lots of practice. Lots of watching porn. And lots of experience. You'll get better over time. You gotta know what they like. I'm pretty modest for the most part, but I do pride myself on giving a good BJ.

[Nick Danger]

Originally posted by SBatL8y
I wasn't saying I've given a lot of oral sex. That's not what I meant. I just want to be good at it. I guess I feel the way a lot of girls feel. We ENJOY giving a man pleasure.

I just have a lot of guy friends who practically score each girl that gives them head. So I am sure it's not THAT easy to be GOOD at it.

Any guy here have a few pointers? ;)

When in doubt, always do a search at Sexuality.org.

http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/ghaos.html

Enjoyment counts for a lot. No man is going to like it if you put on a yuck face, no matter how skillful you are.

[suziq999]

Originally posted by JimRochester
Remember when I invited you over for dinner with the family when you visit Rochester? I just changed my mind, the family won't be there ;) :eyebrow:

Hey! When did you do that? I'll have to dig up that thread somewhere...

By the way guys, a little hint, do NOT grab the woman's head and thrust as hard as you can. This is probably what scares more women away from oral than anything else. You can verbally give her hints, but her head is not to be slammed around...

And also don't eat too much parsley.

[Cool Kitten]

well, i'm late for the discussion :)
i have nothing aganst giving head- while i certainly don't get off on that i don't find it disgusting in any way. Plus it gets my guy off, so all is cool.
As for guys who hate giving oral- how would you feel if your girl said she can't stand the taste of your dick in her mouth? Pretty put out i suspect.
Sex is a two-way street, you have to give as good as you get.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Cool Kitten
well, i'm late for the discussion :)
i have nothing aganst giving head- while i certainly don't get off on that i don't find it disgusting in any way. Plus it gets my guy off, so all is cool.
As for guys who hate giving oral- how would you feel if your girl said she can't stand the taste of your dick in her mouth? Pretty put out i suspect.
Sex is a two-way street, you have to give as good as you get.

Thanks for sharing. :)

[ctyankee]

Originally posted by Mopower
BJ's aren't nasty, now whats nasty is after you cum and she swallows then she expects you to kiss her and go on with things....... :yack:

No ... what is nasty is that she doesn't swallow and wants to give you a kiss ...

[Thunderball]

Originally posted by suziq999
I know this is going to make me super popular here at DVDtalk... BUT,

I LOVE going down on a guy. Most men can't even freaking move when you're giving them head because it feels *so* damn good. Why wouldn't you want to do that to someone you love or care about? Its such an ego boost, and so much fun to please your partner.

And its not dirty or gross. Jeez as long as he showers every day, his fingers are probably dirtier than his dick. I mean really, pee is sterile anyways... and though cum isn't exactly something I would dine on regularly, its not that bad.

I am personally amazed that there is a male out there that doesn't think getting a BJ is the best thing in the universe.


And just FWIW, I love guys going down on me too, so ;p

:p did I mention you're my new favorite poster? :)

But seriously, Ranger, I now wonder about you..... how could you NOT enjoy it....

by chance, were you brought up in a very strict household that never spoke of sex?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Thunderball


But seriously, Ranger, I now wonder about you..... how could you NOT enjoy it....

by chance, were you brought up in a very strict household that never spoke of sex?

Good point Dr. TBall.

There must be something in your past to cause this affliction. Sometimes a banana's not just a banana.

Possibly you walked in on your parents when you were a child and it's buried in your subconscious?

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by ctyankee
No ... what is nasty is that she doesn't swallow and wants to give you a kiss ...

It's your own come.

[ctyankee]

Originally posted by tygloalex
It's your own come.

It's also your own ear wax, own piss, own snot, etc. so what's your point .......

[happycamper]

Originally posted by tygloalex
It's your own come.

Exactly!

[suziq999]

That's why I have mouthwash in the bathroom. Better for me, better for him.

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by ctyankee
It's spelled cum, I'm guessing that school didn't start yet in your district or you wouldn't be home yet ......

You've got to be kidding- if anyone here sounds like they are still in middle-school, it's you. What an incredibly idiotic thing to say to someone. Where did Ty ask to be put down so rudely... at the least, he deserves better than your juvenile response. And, by the way- it is not spelled cum by those whose daily reading includes literature with higher aspirations than the bathroom stall door or the letters section of Swank magazine. The "cum" spelling originated in cheap porn and has spread wide enough to be somewhat acceptable as an alternative to the norm. People used the word "come" to mean orgasm, and to refer to ejaculated semen, LONG before you, I and Larry Flynt were born. It doesn't hurt to know a little bit about etymology before you start correcting people's word usage.

[Buford T Pusser]

http://www.theforumisdown.com/uploadfiles/0802/roadkill.gif

[Thunderball]

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
Good point Dr. TBall.

There must be something in your past to cause this affliction. Sometimes a banana's not just a banana.

Possibly you walked in on your parents when you were a child and it's buried in your subconscious?

Thanks Nurse Buford

[ctyankee]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Five Cent Deposit
snip ... And, by the way- it is not spelled cum by those whose daily reading includes literature with higher aspirations than the bathroom stall door or the letters section of Swank magazine.

Unlike yourself, I don't know Swank magazine nor that they have a letter section ...

The "cum" spelling originated in cheap porn and has spread wide enough to be somewhat acceptable as an alternative to the norm. People used the word "come" to mean orgasm, and to refer to ejaculated semen, LONG before you, I and Larry Flynt were born.

So, one slang term for semen is better than another one eh? I agree, Random House Unabridge English Dictionary cites 62 uses for the word "come." It cites only one use for the word "cum" (meaning semen (noun) although certainly "cum" is being used as a verb too. So take your pick, "come" with 62 possible meanings or "cum" with two meanings.

The age/history of a word is meaningless. New words are created every day, while "old" words drop off the map ...

It doesn't hurt to know a little bit about etymology before you start correcting people's word usage.

I do stand corrected on this point - I was wrong.

[Five Cent Deposit]

Originally posted by ctyankee
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Five Cent Deposit
snip ... And, by the way- it is not spelled cum by those whose daily reading includes literature with higher aspirations than the bathroom stall door or the letters section of Swank magazine.

Unlike yourself, I don't know Swank magazine nor that they have a letter section ...

The "cum" spelling originated in cheap porn and has spread wide enough to be somewhat acceptable as an alternative to the norm. People used the word "come" to mean orgasm, and to refer to ejaculated semen, LONG before you, I and Larry Flynt were born.

So, one slang term for semen is better than another one eh? I agree, Random House Unabridge English Dictionary cites 62 uses for the word "come." It cites only one use for the word "cum" (meaning semen (noun) although certainly "cum" is being used as a verb too. So take your pick, "come" with 62 possible meanings or "cum" with two meanings.

The age/history of a word is meaningless. New words are created every day, while "old" words drop off the map ...

It doesn't hurt to know a little bit about etymology before you start correcting people's word usage.

I do stand corrected on this point - I was wrong.

Aw, let's kiss and make up. I promise I won't have the taste of come/cum in my mouth... :D

I referenced Swank magazine because it is ultra sleazy... I think the last time I looked at one was when I was 13 or so. I can't remember if they *do* have a letters section, but obviously you understood my point. :thumbsup:

I'm impressed that you took the time to check with a dictionary, and I agree that a word's newness does not invalidate its meaning. I do, however take exeption to your comment that the history of a word is meaningless. I studied linguistics in college and hey, I could be biased, but few scholars of the arts and social sciences will take your position on this one. Etymology is rich with meaning and relevance. I'm surprised that cum is listed in Random House! This does support the idea that it has become an accepted alternative through widespread usage. The only thing you were wrong about it the "correctness" vs' "incorrectness" of its use when weighed against the traditional come. I would suggest that the using come to mean orgasm/ejaculate is NOT, however, slang... whereas with cum, indications for classifying it as slang do perhaps exist. Enough about that... I've been criticized in the past for killing threads by turning them into liguistic debates.

I'll add, as an apology, that I was as harsh toward you as you were toward Ty, and for that I am sorry. Ty is one of those "innocents" that have no fear about posting whatever is on his mind... I appreciate his candor more than anything else about him. I didn't want to see him stifled by what I felt was a personal attack. Of course, I should reserve judgement, and chances are that he won't give a shite about any of this. I just got angry. Big props to you for returning and not falling down the spiral with me into an evermore bitter exchange.

Peace? Peace.

[Five Cent Deposit]

:lol: Buford, what is that thing? I'm guessing it is aimed at me, but can you forgive me for being dense and explain?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Thunderball
Thanks Nurse Buford

That's Head Nurse to you!

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Five Cent Deposit
:lol: Buford, what is that thing? I'm guessing it is aimed at me, but can you forgive me for being dense and explain?

I was trying to say that your response rendered him to be roadkill!

But now I see this icon for you two.

http://www.volition.com/chat/images/kissing.gif

As you mentioned, no cum/come breath for the likes of you!

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
I was trying to say that your response rendered him to be roadkill!

But now I see this icon for you two.

http://www.volition.com/chat/images/kissing.gif

As you mentioned, no cum/come breath for the likes of you!

Don't forget http://www.volition.com/chat/images/brush.gif

[einTier]

Man, I wish I had found this thread earlier.

I'll admit, when I was about six (yes, that's right), I found one of my dad's porno magazines, and inside was a cartoon of a guy licking a girl's vagina. In my six year old brain, my first thought was "my God, that's nasty, why would anyone want to do that?" Of course, a few years before that, I couldn't imagine why someone would want to do anything with their sexual organs than pee.

I don't remember when I loosened up, but I know I was going down on girls in high school, and the first time I had a girl go down on me, I thought it was the greatest thing ever. As I've gotten older, I've learned two things: one, sex is what you make of it, and two, the less uptight you are about it, the greater chance you're going to have a good time.

Do I think of my wife as being dominated when she goes down on me? Not usually. Though, we might be doing some role-playing (and I don't mean the D&D kind), and depending on the role, I might well be dominating her. But then again, it's all agreed upon beforehand, and she can always use the "safe word" to say "I don't want to do that -- and I mean it", so who's really wielding the power? When I go down on her, it might simply be about pleasing her, and I might get off on that as much as she does. Then again, I might just enjoy the fact that she's having a good time. A good time being had by my partner does not nessessarily mean that I have to be having a good time as well -- or that I'm not just because she isn't directly stimulating me.

Now, I know that everyone's got their "freaky" threshold. WhoGirl and Ranger are one end, and tygloalex is on the other. Now, I'm not going to anally pleasure my wife, but that's because I can't get over the fact that there's a lot of bad bacteria floating down there -- and that's a medical fact. I don't like anal sex for the same reason. However, if my wife liked anal, and wanted it from me, I could certainly get into long enough to pleasure her in that manner. It wouldn't be the most enjoyable thing for me, but we wouldn't have to do it every time we were intimate either. If she wanted me to give her a rimjob, I'm sure we could work out something where we could deal with that. Maybe I'd use a dam, or maybe we'd only do it after we'd had a nice long shower with plenty of scrubbing, or maybe it would be just for very special occaisions. I don't know. My wife doesn't seem to like either, and we've never had to cross that bridge because I don't want it.

If no oral is your threshold, then I sincerely hope that you find a partner that feels the way you do. I would be very upset if my future partner didn't want to pleasure me orally -- and not because I want "a woman on her knees sucking my cock", because I happen to find the act pleasurable, and it's not like "on your knees, b****" is the only way for a woman to give head. For me, I've found the less uptight I've been about sex, and the more I've experimented, the more enjoyable sex has been for me. That's not to say that everything I've experienced has been pleasurable -- being snowballed isn't something I'll ever request -- but I can't say that any of it was even half as bad as I thought it was going to be.

To the girls that have guys who won't kiss you after they've come in your mouth, I hope you'll find more considerate guys in the future. Tasting your own come doesn't make you gay, and it won't make you sick, and you probably won't even taste it if all you're doing is kissing her afterward. And, if you do, you just asked the girl to swallow it down, isn't it a bit unreasonable to ask her to eat/drink/taste something that you yourself won't taste?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by einTier
Man, I wish I had found this thread earlier.

I'll admit, when I was about six (yes, that's right), I found one of my dad's porno magazines, and inside was a cartoon of a guy licking a girl's vagina. In my six year old brain, my first thought was "my God, that's nasty, why would anyone want to do that?" Of course, a few years before that, I couldn't imagine why someone would want to do anything with their sexual organs than pee.

I don't remember when I loosened up, but I know I was going down on girls in high school, and the first time I had a girl go down on me, I thought it was the greatest thing ever. As I've gotten older, I've learned two things: one, sex is what you make of it, and two, the less uptight you are about it, the greater chance you're going to have a good time.

Do I think of my wife as being dominated when she goes down on me? Not usually. Though, we might be doing some role-playing (and I don't mean the D&D kind), and depending on the role, I might well be dominating her. But then again, it's all agreed upon beforehand, and she can always use the "safe word" to say "I don't want to do that -- and I mean it", so who's really wielding the power? When I go down on her, it might simply be about pleasing her, and I might get off on that as much as she does. Then again, I might just enjoy the fact that she's having a good time. A good time being had by my partner does not nessessarily mean that I have to be having a good time as well -- or that I'm not just because she isn't directly stimulating me.

Now, I know that everyone's got their "freaky" threshold. WhoGirl and Ranger are one end, and tygloalex is on the other. Now, I'm not going to anally pleasure my wife, but that's because I can't get over the fact that there's a lot of bad bacteria floating down there -- and that's a medical fact. I don't like anal sex for the same reason. However, if my wife liked anal, and wanted it from me, I could certainly get into long enough to pleasure her in that manner. It wouldn't be the most enjoyable thing for me, but we wouldn't have to do it every time we were intimate either. If she wanted me to give her a rimjob, I'm sure we could work out something where we could deal with that. Maybe I'd use a dam, or maybe we'd only do it after we'd had a nice long shower with plenty of scrubbing, or maybe it would be just for very special occaisions. I don't know. My wife doesn't seem to like either, and we've never had to cross that bridge because I don't want it.

If no oral is your threshold, then I sincerely hope that you find a partner that feels the way you do. I would be very upset if my future partner didn't want to pleasure me orally -- and not because I want "a woman on her knees sucking my cock", because I happen to find the act pleasurable, and it's not like "on your knees, b****" is the only way for a woman to give head. For me, I've found the less uptight I've been about sex, and the more I've experimented, the more enjoyable sex has been for me. That's not to say that everything I've experienced has been pleasurable -- being snowballed isn't something I'll ever request -- but I can't say that any of it was even half as bad as I thought it was going to be.

To the girls that have guys who won't kiss you after they've come in your mouth, I hope you'll find more considerate guys in the future. Tasting your own come doesn't make you gay, and it won't make you sick, and you probably won't even taste it if all you're doing is kissing her afterward. And, if you do, you just asked the girl to swallow it down, isn't it a bit unreasonable to ask her to eat/drink/taste something that you yourself won't taste?


http://www.volition.com/chat/images/applause.gif

[isamu]

umm what he said

[Betho]

Originally posted by WhoGirl
:lol:
Ahh...if only more men would think like this.

I'm gonna be brutally honest here, since you probably haven't gotten the full scoop from a female.

It is nasty. It doesn't matter how clean it is.

Okay. Imagine you're eating a popsicle, except the popsicle is all salty and warm, and rather than chocolate or fruit juice slowly melting in your mouth it's salty egg whites. I don't think I need to explain what ejaculation is like....

Sound erotic and fun? Yeah, I didn't think so. So next time you're bugging a chick about going down on you, just imagine what I just described and have some friggin' sympathy if she says 'no.' It's not exactly the most joyous of things to do. At least in my opinion.

I don't do it, nor do I expect a guy to do the same for me. It blows my mind (no pun intended) that some chicks get off on it, or enjoy it. To me, it's just f'ing gross. Absolutely sickening. But, some chicks I know will do it just to 'please their man', or to get a guy to like them. That sickens me even more.

I would like to make a point of saying not all women feel like this. In fact, most women I know DONT feel that way, myself included.

Oral sex is intimate, fun, and YES, some of us women ACTUALLY enjoy it.

The whole "eww gross" thing is juvenile.

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Betho
I would like to make a point of saying not all women feel like this. In fact, most women I know DONT feel that way, myself included.

Oral sex is intimate, fun, and YES, some of us women ACTUALLY enjoy it.

The whole "eww gross" thing is juvenile.

well, i wouldn't say so...everyone just has their own opinion. what is gross to someone is enjoyable to others. in some countries, eating dogs is a delicasy(sp?), but if you do it here, then you would be looked down upon. (god, i hope icondude doesn't read this thread)

[tygloalex]

Originally posted by einTier
Man, I wish I had found this thread earlier.

I'll admit, when I was about six (yes, that's right), I found one of my dad's porno magazines, and inside was a cartoon of a guy licking a girl's vagina. In my six year old brain, my first thought was "my God, that's nasty, why would anyone want to do that?" Of course, a few years before that, I couldn't imagine why someone would want to do anything with their sexual organs than pee.

I don't remember when I loosened up, but I know I was going down on girls in high school, and the first time I had a girl go down on me, I thought it was the greatest thing ever. As I've gotten older, I've learned two things: one, sex is what you make of it, and two, the less uptight you are about it, the greater chance you're going to have a good time.

Do I think of my wife as being dominated when she goes down on me? Not usually. Though, we might be doing some role-playing (and I don't mean the D&D kind), and depending on the role, I might well be dominating her. But then again, it's all agreed upon beforehand, and she can always use the "safe word" to say "I don't want to do that -- and I mean it", so who's really wielding the power? When I go down on her, it might simply be about pleasing her, and I might get off on that as much as she does. Then again, I might just enjoy the fact that she's having a good time. A good time being had by my partner does not nessessarily mean that I have to be having a good time as well -- or that I'm not just because she isn't directly stimulating me.

Now, I know that everyone's got their "freaky" threshold. WhoGirl and Ranger are one end, and tygloalex is on the other. Now, I'm not going to anally pleasure my wife, but that's because I can't get over the fact that there's a lot of bad bacteria floating down there -- and that's a medical fact. I don't like anal sex for the same reason. However, if my wife liked anal, and wanted it from me, I could certainly get into long enough to pleasure her in that manner. It wouldn't be the most enjoyable thing for me, but we wouldn't have to do it every time we were intimate either. If she wanted me to give her a rimjob, I'm sure we could work out something where we could deal with that. Maybe I'd use a dam, or maybe we'd only do it after we'd had a nice long shower with plenty of scrubbing, or maybe it would be just for very special occaisions. I don't know. My wife doesn't seem to like either, and we've never had to cross that bridge because I don't want it.

If no oral is your threshold, then I sincerely hope that you find a partner that feels the way you do. I would be very upset if my future partner didn't want to pleasure me orally -- and not because I want "a woman on her knees sucking my cock", because I happen to find the act pleasurable, and it's not like "on your knees, b****" is the only way for a woman to give head. For me, I've found the less uptight I've been about sex, and the more I've experimented, the more enjoyable sex has been for me. That's not to say that everything I've experienced has been pleasurable -- being snowballed isn't something I'll ever request -- but I can't say that any of it was even half as bad as I thought it was going to be.

To the girls that have guys who won't kiss you after they've come in your mouth, I hope you'll find more considerate guys in the future. Tasting your own come doesn't make you gay, and it won't make you sick, and you probably won't even taste it if all you're doing is kissing her afterward. And, if you do, you just asked the girl to swallow it down, isn't it a bit unreasonable to ask her to eat/drink/taste something that you yourself won't taste?


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[Aghama]

I'll suck cock too.

[D.Pham00]

Originally posted by Aghama
I'll suck cock too.

Who's cock?

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by D.Phlowbee
Who's cock?

Spelling police lesson: The proper use would be "Whose cock?" unless you mean "Who is cock?" since Who's is a contraction of Who is. None of this relates to a person with the word Who in their user name.

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