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BigPete
12-28-2002, 07:58 PM
No need to fill in a back story or explain it ... just a plain and simple question. If you volunteer a little oral action, how much effort are you expecting to put into it?
BigPete
12-29-2002, 08:03 AM
:(

So far, it appears that stamina is a bad thing ...
Jack Straw
12-29-2002, 12:41 PM
I could ask the same question for intercourse also.
BigPete
12-29-2002, 04:05 PM
Originally posted by Jack Straw
I could ask the same question for intercourse also.

But then I don't think they'd be complaining if the guy could hold on all night.
John Sy
12-29-2002, 07:59 PM
I honestly don't know how you expect any self-respecting woman to answer your question...
spainlinx0
12-29-2002, 08:55 PM
Originally posted by John Sy
I honestly don't know how you expect any self-respecting woman to answer your question...

I don't know it's not like your going up to a random girl in a bar, what's so bad about answering that kind of question on a pretty anonymous message board?
isamu
12-29-2002, 09:24 PM
This poll was already done and something like 90% of the women here said at least an hour, and then they swallow. Then I remember them kinda regretting ever admitting it here so good luck...
spainlinx0
12-29-2002, 09:52 PM
Originally posted by isamu
This poll was already done and something like 90% of the women here said at least an hour, and then they swallow. Then I remember them kinda regretting ever admitting it here so good luck...

Why did they regret it?
isamu
12-29-2002, 09:57 PM
beats me...

ask them...
lordzeppelin
12-29-2002, 10:01 PM
what I hate is when they stop right in the middle of it, and then get pissed when you're pissed that they stopped. yet turn it around to when I'm gong down on her and I stop, and it's okay if she's pissed...
MJKTool
12-29-2002, 10:52 PM
Originally posted by isamu
beats me...

ask them...

errr...I think thats what he IS doing
BigPete
12-30-2002, 04:48 AM
Originally posted by John Sy
I honestly don't know how you expect any self-respecting woman to answer your question...

I don't ... that's why I posted a poll. I have no inteterst in who or why, I was just curious what the expectation was. And you know they all have an opinion. Particularly because depending on the girl, you can get quite an extreme reaction when their endurance (time) limit passes. From anger to apathy to a flood of tears, all if they assume that no climax means you aren't enjoying it. And then you have to tell them just how fantastic it is and compliment them (all done with complete honesty) and ask with your sweetest posible voice to bear with you for another 10, 15, XX min. If they agree and go the distance, the result is usually so spectacular that future outings are met with much less disregard.

I imagine that for most, this is of particular concern on a first or second date, as no one knows what to expect. Even a 30 second guy is going to hold onto it for dear life to try to impress her ... and she'll be doing her best to make him a 20 second guy. Someone has to "win" the battle of the wills. But no one will argue over a few extra seconds. It's when you're approaching the hour mark and you have to decide whether to just let go and there it is or to hold out for the big one and risk having her walk off before it's done.

Many girls enjoy (love) providing oral satisfaction to their guys. The question is simply, at which point does it stop being as fun.
krkuhl
12-30-2002, 06:27 PM
*kr steps up to the plate*

i find it odd that i am the first one to answer this, but here goes...
it really depends on the purpose of the BJ. if it is a BJ given as a "um no sex tonight dear" or as a quickie before sex to make the second orgasm take longer, then the girl will want it over as quick as possible. if it is part of foreplay and the actual cuming is not the goal, then the time varies--five minutes here, 5 minutes there, etc but usually not more than 10 minutes at one sitting. and lastly, it depends on who is giving them. if someone likes giving them, they will get disappointed if it lasts too short of a time--they want time to play and pull all their tricks out of their bag. the best way to tell is when the girl continually goes fast for awhile or if she uses her hand waaaay more than her mouth--that is a girl's clue to "hey, my lips are numb and may not be able to cover my teeth for much longer" so it is best to attempt to finish up asap

but to answer the question personally, i prefer anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes at a time.
joltaddict
12-30-2002, 07:21 PM
The 5 that voted an hour+ are gay guys. Even money.
Buford T Pusser
12-30-2002, 11:04 PM
the five comment: :lol:
D.Pham00
12-31-2002, 12:31 AM
Originally posted by joltaddict
The 5 that voted an hour+ are gay guys. Even money.

are you talking from personal experience?
Bust
12-31-2002, 05:47 AM
I'm sure it also depends on what they charge, per hour.
joeblow69
12-31-2002, 02:56 PM
Originally posted by joltaddict
The 5 that voted an hour+ are gay guys. Even money.

I sure as hell didn't vote hour+.

Hey, I'd love to do it for an hour, but honestly, my jaw gets real sore after about 15 minutes, so if I haven't gotten the prize by then, I usually move on to something else.