How long do you last?

[tomp]

I have a situation regarding lasting. Most of the times, I come very fast (I use the plastic all the times) w/i 30 sec to 1 minute. However, occasionally, I can last a few minutes and she gets a good orgasm. I was not being able to figure out what triggers that event. Now my question is what do you think about me? Should I check with a doctor? Is it embarrassing to see a doctor on this issue? Anybody has any experience?

Tom

[Corleone]

How often do you jerk off?

[Big Quasimodo]

Drink alcohol.

Seriously, how much sex have you had (number of years, number of times)?

[tomp]

I am 34. Having sex for the last 7 years (ya, thats right). Did musterbate a lot and tried to hurry during the event. Now, do sex about 2-3 times a week.

[Toofpaste]

usually by mysef, i last a good 6 minutes. with her, a good 2 and half minutes.

when drunk, usually 13 minutes by mysef, and an unbelievable 27 minutes with her.

why do i last longer when i'm drunk? especially doggystyle?

[boston george]

Originally posted by tomp
I have a situation regarding lasting. Most of the times, I come very fast (I use the plastic all the times) w/i 30 sec to 1 minute. However, occasionally, I can last a few minutes and she gets a good orgasm. I was not being able to figure out what triggers that event. Now my question is what do you think about me? Should I check with a doctor? Is it embarrassing to see a doctor on this issue? Anybody has any experience?

Tom

She has a good orgasm after a few minutes? I need to find me a girl that can come that fast:).

Seriously though I agree with the alcohol thing. Works like a charm. Just don't get too sloshed and try and stick it in her ass.

[joefrog91]

I remember reading an article that stated if you teach yourself to cum quickly when masterbating as a child, you'l become a premature ejaculator as an adult.

[seven]

Originally posted by joefrog91
I remember reading an article that stated if you teach yourself to cum quickly when masterbating as a child, you'l become a premature ejaculator as an adult.

I read the same thing when I was a teenager. It said that people usually try to do it quickly for fear of being caught and that trains you to be quick.

That's part of why I always tried more for control and doing "experiments" to see how long I could last.

Of course, I still haven't tried with anyone else, so I don't know if it worked or not. I'm guessing that may be a whole different ballgame though.

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[Himerus]

I was told I cannot answer this question. Supposedly you won't believe me. For me, anywhere between 5 minutes and 90 minutes - those are the numbers my girlfriend gave.

[Skank]

Don't really know how long I've lasted (probably around 60-90 minutes) and the fastest has been 11 minutes (only know that from the counter on the DVD player!).

[broadwayblue]

you obviously need more practice. you can learn by yourself or with your gf. learn how close you can get to the point of no return and then back off. keep doing this until you have excellent control. also, doing your kegels couldn't hurt.

[krkuhl]

*backs slowly out of the thread*

seriously, a few minutes?!?!? regardless how embarrassing it is for you to go see a doctor, it would be well worth it! imagine how embarrassing it would be for your girl to be talking to her friends and her telling them that you only last a few minutes. and trust, us girls talk and very explicitly. if it takes longer for my fingernails to dry than it does for sex, i am going to be real disappointed in more ways than one.

[finbogg]

Originally posted by broadwayblue
you obviously need more practice. you can learn by yourself or with your gf. learn how close you can get to the point of no return and then back off. keep doing this until you have excellent control. also, doing your kegels couldn't hurt.

This is great advice. The best thing to do is learn to change you pace or position as you get close to cumming. If you know how to predict when you get close it's easy to know when to slow down or stop. Take yourself up to the edge then back off and work it up again. Plus women love when you vary the speed.

I've learned to be able to go basically as long as I want this way. I usually get tired and then decide that it's time to be done. Plus this way you can make sure she gets hers first then you can get yours.

As a final solution, come once then when your up and ready for a second time, you'll last forever. Whether or not you do this will probably depend on how long it takes inbetween "rounds".

[Makaveli]

I've found the best and easiest way to acheive longevity is to cum once quickly (usually takes a couple of minutes) then spend the next few minutes recovering so i can get hard again. the next time around i'll last ten times as long before i cum. add it all up (foreplay, sex, cum, foreplay, sex) and i come away looking like superman for having had sex for close to an hour while many guys give up after 45 secs

[einTier]

The best thing for me has been experimenting during masturbation. Bring yourself to the brink, then force yourself to back off. Practice at making it last longer, rather than just "getting the job done".

Honestly, I can usually last as long as I want it to last. I let the wife have her fun and tell me when it's time for me to have mine. Once I get into that mode, it usually only takes a minute or two. I know that many of you don't believe that, but it's seriously all mental. You just have to tell yourself when it's time to go. If you have extreme control, you can actually have an orgasm without ejaculating.

The first buildup is the key. You've got to realize it's coming, and stop it well before that point. By practicing during masturbation, you can start to recognise where that is. If you can stop the first buildup to orgasm, the rest are easy.

[Deftones]

Originally posted by krkuhl
*backs slowly out of the thread*

seriously, a few minutes?!?!? regardless how embarrassing it is for you to go see a doctor, it would be well worth it! imagine how embarrassing it would be for your girl to be talking to her friends and her telling them that you only last a few minutes. and trust, us girls talk and very explicitly. if it takes longer for my fingernails to dry than it does for sex, i am going to be real disappointed in more ways than one.

:lol:

I don't know quite how to respond to this. Biologically, sex wasn't intended for recreation. It was for reproduction. Time it took to ejaculate was irrelevant. Now that ****ing for sport has become common place, people on both sides expect unrealistic things that our bodies were not designed to do. Like people who posted above me stated, you can train your body to hold out longer.

I think the quicker I come, the better. That way I don't miss any more of SportsCenter.

[dvdan]

before wife ... 3 - 5 minute range .... w/ wife ... as long as needed. Some nights it's 30 minutes or so and other nights it's 1 minute. Depends on how long my wife needs me to go. I have great control with her.