Blow Job / Anal Play

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Do you like to have your ass played with during a blow job? Besides the basic licking it and sticking your finger in there what else can I do? How will I know if the guy is enjoying it? We have not discussed the anal with a blow job before so I will be surprising him with it. Is that good or bad?

[joltaddict]

Just as a rule of thumb a finger in the ass isnt something you want to suprise somebody with.

[PixyJunket]

I don't go in the out door and I don't expect her to either.

[WillieTheShakes]

Originally posted by joltaddict
Just as a rule of thumb a finger in the ass isnt something you want to suprise somebody with.

I beg to differ...

[scottall]

It's never happened to me, so I have no frame of reference. However, if you are looking up at me while you are sucking my dick, then you could probably fist me and I would enjoy it. I love when a woman stares up at me with my dick in her mouth. OK, maybe not a whole fist.

[LurkerDan]

Originally posted by joltaddict
Just as a rule of thumb a finger in the ass isnt something you want to suprise somebody with. I agree.

If he enjoys the finger at other times, I can't imagine he wouldn't during a blow job. If you don't know if he enjoys the finger, it's not a hard thing to ask during foreplay, as your hand gets close.

[schlitz100]

first lick, then touch, then probe, then get the strap-on

if you breach his level of comfort, he'll let you know.

i personally don't like anything past touching and let any girl know who tries to deflower me.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by PixyJunket
I don't go in the out door and I don't expect her to either.

Don't knock it until you try it.......some of us like getting it in the back door. :D

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by schlitz100
first lick, then touch, then probe, then get the strap-on

if you breach his level of comfort, he'll let you know.

i personally don't like anything past touching and let any girl know who tries to deflower me.

Good advice.......thanks!!

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by LurkerDan
I agree.

If he enjoys the finger at other times, I can't imagine he wouldn't during a blow job. If you don't know if he enjoys the finger, it's not a hard thing to ask during foreplay, as your hand gets close.

He has never had my finger so I thought during a blow job would be a good start. Asking during foreplay is a good idea. :)

[costanza187]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Besides the basic licking it and sticking your finger in there what else can I do?



Be sure you do those in the correct order! :eek:



Seriously... I couldnt imagine sticking my finger in anybody's hiney. or vice versa

[JimRochester]

First time a girl did that to me I popped immediately. Surprised us both.

[costanza187]

Originally posted by JimRochester
First time a girl did that to me I popped immediately. Surprised us both.


popped or pooped?

[PixyJunket]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Don't knock it until you try it.......some of us like getting it in the back door. :D I understand that.. but.. but.. poopoo. :( Ew!

[joshd2012]

https://www.delicatedesigns4u.com/images/R694.gif

[LurkerDan]

Originally posted by costanza187
Seriously... I couldnt imagine sticking my finger in anybody's hiney. or vice versa I love the reaction that some women give me when I use my finger back there. If you're not doing it, you're not giving them all that they want.

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by JimRochester
First time a girl did that to me I popped immediately. Surprised us both.

She hit your prostate.

I had a gay guy tell me that hitting the prostate is what makes anal sex great.

[Jack Straw]

Man, I love this thread -smile-

[Giles]

slowly insert, than shove the whole hand in... wowzer!

[BigPete]

If anything goes in, you're going out. Period.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Looks like we have a few guys who are uptight about their asses. :lol:

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Jack Straw
Man, I love this thread -smile-

It's probably a good thing we don't run into each other considering we live in the same city. ;)

[Giles]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Looks like we have a few guys who are uptight about their asses. :lol:

I asscociate the words: 'uptight' and 'unclean' one and the same here :D

[CaseyB]

I like ass play. My ex girlfriend wanted to reciprocate and started licking and then put her finger in. I couldn't use the bathroom for a few days after that. A little too much information I'm giving tonight. :)

So_Cal_SAHM is the hottest. There's not limits. I like that. :)

[Jackskeleton]

Originally posted by joltaddict
Just as a rule of thumb a finger in the ass isnt something you want to suprise somebody with.

NOFX?

[bigsoos]

"Sorry Mr. Burns. Sure I'm flattered, maybe a lil curious. But, I don't go for any of these back door shinanigans."

[costanza187]

I am still hung up on the gross factor.... The idea of putting the same fingers I use to pick up french fries, and pick my nose...


would it be a turnoff to wear rubber gloves to bed?

[bmello]

Originally posted by costanza187
I am still hung up on the gross factor.... The idea of putting the same fingers I use to pick up french fries

You know your french fries eventually come out of your ass.

[TomOpus]

If you have long nails, just be extra careful and don't get too wild. You don't want to have to lend him a sanitary pad...

[PixyJunket]

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
NOFX? Dang. Old school.

[Tarantino]

My gf loves it in the back door. ;)

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Well I had the chance but I didn't do it. I think I chickened out and just stuck to what I was good at. :lol: I will talk to him about it before we hook up again.

[emanon]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Well I had the chance but I didn't do it.

Well, I suppose...if you really need someone to take one for the team...

[JamesBrian]

some free advice, worth every penny:
Start by massaging behind the sack (in the taint area) with increasing pressure. You'll be massaging the prostate area from the outside without dipping your finger into the chocolate frosting. Moving the skin around will stretch the back door and stimulate the nerve endings down there. It will also give him a heads up to keep himself clean down there. Next time move your fingers a bit further and tickle the anus and see what happens. A french kiss down there at the right time can drive a man crazy enough so that a fingertip won't be unwelcome. (Don't tell me none of you guys have ever cleaned yourself in a shower). then go from there. Actually, at times i have been able to orgasm simply from an intense french kiss in that area, but i've been married for a long time and its kind of a dim memory now.

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by Tarantino
My gf loves it in the back door. ;)

and from your Dirk Diggler tool no less!





My wife was the first to touch me in that area. Although she's never inserted anything (fingers, cucumbers, etc.) I have noticed that a light touch there is not counterproductive.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by JamesBrian
some free advice, worth every penny:
Start by massaging behind the sack (in the taint area) with increasing pressure. You'll be massaging the prostate area from the outside without dipping your finger into the chocolate frosting. Moving the skin around will stretch the back door and stimulate the nerve endings down there. It will also give him a heads up to keep himself clean down there. Next time move your fingers a bit further and tickle the anus and see what happens. A french kiss down there at the right time can drive a man crazy enough so that a fingertip won't be unwelcome. (Don't tell me none of you guys have ever cleaned yourself in a shower). then go from there. Actually, at times i have been able to orgasm simply from an intense french kiss in that area, but i've been married for a long time and its kind of a dim memory now.

Thank you very much for that reply. I will keep that in mind :)

One question though.......french kissing the anus......you mean sticking your tongue in there right?

[JamesBrian]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Thank you very much for that reply. I will keep that in mind :)

One question though.......french kissing the anus......you mean sticking your tongue in there right?
The natural reaction will be for the muscle to close and tighten, and the nerve endings are mostly external anyway. So initially, even Gene Simmons would have a problem french kissing Shannon Tweed's back door until she had relaxed for a bit. You wouldn't want a tongue jammed down your mouth on the first kiss, would you? So go slow here too, the tickling will be maddening enough. Geez, i'm starting to sound like that old bag on the Oxygen channel. :)

[joltaddict]

You watch the Oxygen channel? :lol:

[Josh-da-man]

Apropos of nothing....

I'm watching "Weapons of Ass Destruction" the other day. The DVD contains some "Extra Sex" in the supplements.

In this one bit, Jules Jordan has a string of anal beads up Trinity's ass, and he's pulling them out.

As he gets to the third and final bead, he says something to the effect of "This is going to be messy," and you can see him picking up a towel.

The guy holding the camera moves the camera to her face while JJ removes the beads. In the background, you can kind of see him holding the beads in the towel.

So we can assume that this girl just took a big sloppy shit in the living room of what appeared to be a pretty nice house.

Just thought I'd share.

[PerpleNerple]

I enjoy it occasionally, but my girlfriend takes things real slow. She always starts with gentle massaging first. So_Cal, maybe you should just start with touching/rubbing the first few times to make sure he's comfortable with it. I know on a few past girlfriends they didn't want to do anything of that nature, but if you take time and ease them into it, anythings possible.

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by Josh-da-man
Apropos of nothing....

I'm watching "Weapons of Ass Destruction" the other day. The DVD contains some "Extra Sex" in the supplements.

In this one bit, Jules Jordan has a string of anal beads up Trinity's ass, and he's pulling them out.

As he gets to the third and final bead, he says something to the effect of "This is going to be messy," and you can see him picking up a towel.

The guy holding the camera moves the camera to her face while JJ removes the beads. In the background, you can kind of see him holding the beads in the towel.

So we can assume that this girl just took a big sloppy shit in the living room of what appeared to be a pretty nice house.

Just thought I'd share.

:lol:

I doubt she took a shit there. Sometimes simply going too far in the ass will result in shit on the penetrating object. Any guy with a decent sized penis who's done anal has had it happen at least once in his life.

I've always wondered how much that happens on porn shoots. I see these mpegs of girls gettin' nailed in the ass on the Net and you never see any shit. Of course they go with the best shots.

I also assumed they had the girls do enemas before anal scenes so that wouldn't happen

I would...

[So_Cal_SAHM]

I can only speak of my personal experience on this one. I have never done an enema before anal sex and I've never had any shit on either myself or my partner.

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
I can only speak of my personal experience on this one. I have never done an enema before anal sex and I've never had any shit on either myself or my partner.


You weren't there when "HE" hit "once". :lol:

Lucky U.

[Tarantino]

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
and from your Dirk Diggler tool no less!


;)

[costanza187]

Originally posted by JamesBrian
A french kiss down there at the right time can drive a man crazy


Kiss your mother with that mouth?

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Giantrobo
You weren't there when "HE" hit "once". :lol:

Lucky U.

I must have lost my sarcastic humor today because I have no idea what you are saying. :confused:

[BlasTech Industries CEO]

"Any guy with a decent sized penis who's done anal has had it happen at least once in his life."

"You weren't there when "HE" hit "once".

Lucky U. "

I think he's saying "he" hit his once with someone 'else'

[Roto]

First check to see if he has a bidet installed in his bathroom. If so, then game on! :D

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by BlasTech Industries CEO
"Any guy with a decent sized penis who's done anal has had it happen at least once in his life."

"You weren't there when "HE" hit "once".

Lucky U. "

I think he's saying "he" hit his once with someone 'else'

Thanks for the clarification on that one :)

[SterinatU]

I love anal and I love giving my baby a nice prostate massage.

[joshd2012]

Originally posted by SterinatU
I love anal and I love giving my baby a nice prostate massage.

Oh... that is so sig material. Who is claiming it?

[AndyCapps]

If he's willing to experiment enough, you can always go for the (skinny) vibrator and lots of lube. There's something magical about giving someone full control of your body.

[happycamper]

I think that most guys are afraid to even think about any back door play, however, if they had it done to them in the heat of passion with a woman, they'd find that they like it.

[Jack Straw]

Speaking as one of many hairy and probably stinky guys down there, I say that if you're lucky enough to find any woman that would have anything to do with that area of your body, you should by all means take advantage of it.:up:

[suziq999]

Ok, maybe I'm uptight, but I don't want anybody digging around in my backdoor or going in anybody else's back door. The front door is just fine, thank you.

no pun intended. :p

[brizz]

as a happily married man, I can most assuredly say that anyone who has the gumption to set aside th societal stigma of it all and let their woman in there then they won't be disappointed. Men's *******s have the same nerve endings as women's....if it feels good for you so_cal, it should for him too....as jackstraw and happycamper mentioned, once you go 'back', you'll never regret it....

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by brizz
as a happily married man, I can most assuredly say that anyone who has the gumption to set aside th societal stigma of it all and let their woman in there then they won't be disappointed. Men's *******s have the same nerve endings as women's....if it feels good for you so_cal, it should for him too....as jackstraw and happycamper mentioned, once you go 'back', you'll never regret it....


Why am I NOT shocked you take it in the ass brizz? :lol:

[Toad]

I'm interested to know how/if the pleasure of anal is anywhere near as good as vaginal. So Cal?

To answer your question, I'm lucky enough to have the area grazed from time to time, and I dig.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Toad
I'm interested to know how/if the pleasure of anal is anywhere near as good as vaginal. So Cal?

For me there is a very different sensation between anal and vaginal. I enjoy each equally as much. I guess it mostly comes down to the mood my partner and I are in that determines which we do.

Sometimes with anal you just have to be in a nastier mood ;)

[costanza187]

Originally posted by suziq999
Ok, maybe I'm uptight, but I don't want anybody digging around in my backdoor or going in anybody else's back door. The front door is just fine, thank you.

no pun intended. :p


Finally somebody agrees with me! We should start an ANTI-BUTT BOTHERING BRIGADE

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by costanza187
Finally somebody agrees with me! We should start an ANTI-BUTT BOTHERING BRIGADE


Ahhh, maybe you should stick that brigade up your ass. Ooops. Sorry for that suggestion. You don't go that way. :)

[Suprmallet]

Well, I'd be up for it, if I didn't have Chron's disease. It makes that area...delicate.

However, no matter what, I think you should do an enema before anal sex, just as a courtesy. Just because you haven't had someone pull out covered in poo before doesn't mean it won't ever happen.

Also, talking to someone who used to work at a sex store the other day, and she said that men should always ALWAYS wear a condom during anal sex, otherwise you risk bacteria shooting back into your penis, and giving you a bladder infection, which are apparently even more painful for guys than for girls.

End of the lecture.

[Tarantino]

Yes, use a condom.

Most girls say that vaginal is better than anal, but as SoCal said, it's a different feeling, for sure.

Anal = :thumbsup:

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
For me there is a very different sensation between anal and vaginal. I enjoy each equally as much. I guess it mostly comes down to the mood my partner and I are in that determines which we do.

Sometimes with anal you just have to be in a nastier mood ;)


I've heard that women who are blessed with multiple orgasms tend to enjoy anal more than women who don't.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Giantrobo
I've heard that women who are blessed with multiple orgasms tend to enjoy anal more than women who don't.

If only that were true with me :(

[kicker_of_elves]

This thread reminded me of an interview with Tenacious D, i felt it was time to share it so here it is... Enjoy

Q: Of all the objects you may have inserted in your rectum, which was the most enjoyable?
MJPARLIER, RICHMOND, VIRGINIA

GASS: I’m kind of weird about my b-hole. It feels like nothing should go in there. I’m not anal retentive, I’m anal expulsive. When I was a child, I wanted to shit and show it to you. I don’t want things stuck in there.
BLACK: When I was a kid, I put Cocoa Puffs in the crack of my ass for comedy. I was 6 or 7 years old, and I thought Cocoa Puffs in the butt was about the funniest thing that could possibly happen. But since then, the only thing that has gone in there was my finger, one time. Well, OK — two times.
GASS: I met this chick one time, and — this is always a bad thing — she was raving about her blow jobs. She was like, “I am the best. I am so good you don’t even want to try it.” And then she starts doing it, and of course it’s kind of lame. But then she starts putting her finger around my butthole.…
BLACK: Uh-oh.…
GASS: That was her big thing, like, the trump card of why she was so great. I was like, “No, I’m not that guy — aaaargh! — no, don’t get in there!”



:)

[starman13]

hi, I am new here...27yr old male. this topic is one of great interest. I am a big fan of my girlfriend playing with my ass when giving me a BJ. She has done it now about 4 times, each time it has been great. 1 finger and sometimes 2. I am not gay or even Bi, but have always been into the sensation of anal, is that strange? I have had a couple toys and loved it, would love to talk more about it indeed and see if I am the only strange one

[NickAdonidus]

Originally posted by costanza187
popped or pooped?

OH.. its popped!!! Apparently your rather conservative when it comes to sex. From your statements I have read, you must be a little afraid of your sexuality as well.

Just a thought.

[Buford T Pusser]

Good luck!

THE MALE HOT SPOT — MASSAGING THE PROSTATE
Dear Alice,

I have a question that I don't think you have addressed before (hope it's not too kinky). I am interested in learning the technique for doing a prostate massage. My partner enjoys being anally stimulated and I am sure this would be a "winner" for us. I just need to know the proper way to do it.


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Dear Reader,

While anal play may be considered kinky and somewhat taboo, it's a sexual practice that more than a few men and women, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy. In men, this potent pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside their anal canal. The prostate's primary function, however, is to aid in reproduction. It does this by secreting a fluid into semen before ejaculation occurs, helping with sperm mobility and prolonging the life of the sperm once it leaves the penis.

Before anal play, it can be helpful for your partner to urinate and/or have a bowel movement before you begin. You can cut and file smooth your fingernails as well, so that there are no rough or jagged edges. Relaxation is also important, minimizing or preventing the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and setting the stage for pleasure. Some people relax by taking a warm bath. Others begin by sensuously massaging their partner's body, slowly leading to the butt and inner thighs, using or adding massage oil or lubricant. For safer anal play, you can wear a latex glove with a dab of water-based lubricant on it.

When you are both ready, you can begin massaging your partner's prostate externally. Using your index and middle fingertips, you can touch, rub, stroke, or press his perineum (the area of skin from underneath his testicles to his anus), trying various sensations and pressures. Using your other hand, you can stroke other parts of his body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so encourage your partner to communicate with you about what feels good to him.

As your partner begins to enjoy the sensations, using water-based lube, gradually insert your finger(s) into his anus. You may both need to experiment with various positions that allow for easy access. In the meantime, you can begin with him lying on his back. Insert your finger(s) about an inch or so, and when your partner is comfortable, move your finger(s) in an upward motion along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue — this is the prostate. Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a "come here" motion, as if you were asking someone to move closer to you so that you could whisper a secret. Use your finger pad(s) on the tip(s) of your finger(s) to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail(s). Ask him what feels good and how he wants to be touched. While you are touching your partner in this way, you can ask if he wants more or less pressure, or slower or faster strokes. You can also ask him if he wants you to touch his penis, testicles, or perineum simultaneously. Some men like oral sex or kissing at the same time, too.

Be aware that receiving anal stimulation may cause feelings of having to go to the bathroom. More often than not, this is just a "feeling" that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to. If your partner indeed does find pleasure from this experience, it might set him over the edge if you rhythmically or irregularly press on his prostate gland before or during ejaculation. It is even possible for men to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone.

Hopefully, you'll hit the jackpot with this rectal rub. At a minimum, you will be learning together, trusting each other, and having a new experience. For more information, you can refer to Jack Morin's book, Anal Pleasure and Health.

[Jack Straw]

http://www.theforumisdown.com/uploadfiles/1203/anal pleasure.jpg

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Call me immature, I don't care. How'd you like to see someone reading this in public? Sounds like a fun weekend endevour for me to go on to see the looks I'd get, particularly from the ladies.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Jack Straw
http://www.theforumisdown.com/uploadfiles/1203/anal pleasure.jpg

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Call me immature, I don't care. How'd you like to see someone reading this in public? Sounds like a fun weekend endevour for me to go on to see the looks I'd get, particularly from the ladies.

Thanks for the heads up......I will be staying clear of the Borders Books here in Simi this weekend. ;)

And don't worry.......I would never call you immature :lol:

[Buford T Pusser]

Are you paying Jack to bump your threads. :p

I thought my helpful post killed this one.

[devilshalo]

Originally posted by joshd2012
https://www.delicatedesigns4u.com/images/R694.gif

http://www.theforumisdown.com/uploadfiles/1203/emergency_exit_only.jpg

[criptik28]

rotfl

[achau9598]

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1573440280.01.LZZZZZZZ.gif

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/157344121X.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

I bought the top one for my wife. Needless to say she never bothered to read it, and it now holds about an inch of dust underneath our bed :(

So_Cal - want to talk to my wife and set her straight for me? ;)

[RUN-DvdMC]

Alright, I'll say it then.......pics?

[Buford T Pusser]

From the Teen Testimonials at this site:

http://www.technicalvirgin.com/


http://www.infinitydog.com/technicalvirgin/images/02_male.jpg

JEREMY T., Holyoke, MA
I have to admit, when I first suggested anal sex to my girlfriend, she looked at me like I was crazy. I offered to double-wrap, use plenty of AstroGlide, but she was still totally freaked over the idea of it. Then she made a deal with me: If I'd bend over for her strap-on, she'd bend over for me. We take turns taking it up the poop chute, and now we finally feel like our relationship is fully equal.

[scottall]

None of my relationships will ever be that equal.

[scroll2b]

Originally posted by joltaddict
Just as a rule of thumb a finger in the ass isnt something you want to suprise somebody with.

rotfl

[GizmoDVD]

Oh my god! That Teen Testimonials things is to damn funny.

"REBECCA K., Great Falls, MT
I know what you're thinking: "Anal sex?! Gross! No way!" But it's so cool! My boyfriends get totally turned on by watching me lube up, and I don't worry anymore about getting pregnant. And anal is definitely the fast track to the "in" crowd: Ever since I started taking it anal, I've been way popular at school!"

[JoeyOhhhh]

Originally posted by GizmoDVD
Oh my god! That Teen Testimonials things is to damn funny.

"REBECCA K., Great Falls, MT
I know what you're thinking: "Anal sex?! Gross! No way!" But it's so cool! My boyfriends get totally turned on by watching me lube up, and I don't worry anymore about getting pregnant. And anal is definitely the fast track to the "in" crowd: Ever since I started taking it anal, I've been way popular at school!" Sounds like Rebecca K from Great Falls is the city whore.

[scottall]

Originally posted by JoeyOhhhh
Sounds like Rebecca K from Great Falls is the city whore.
At least she still has her virginity.

[JoeyOhhhh]

Originally posted by scottall
At least she still has her virginity. Damn legal technicalities!

[jarsim]

From the FAQ:

"Can you tell me where/how to get anal sex?"
"No."

This idea of the technicality of virginity and its commericals have proven themselves completely useless.