How Many People Have *You* Boinked?

[Matthew Chmiel]

So after the truth that was discovered from my infamous thread right here (http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=364790&perpage=40&pagenumber=1), the girl that I had the hots for has basically been deemed a "slut" as she has slept with over thirty people in the past five years. Keep in mind, she's only sixteen (hey, I'm eighteen and that's legal here in Vegas) and already is in double digits.

So when I was thinking about it, how many people have most people actually slept with?

My count: 3.

[Creek Rat]

Originally posted by Matthew Chmiel
the girl that I had the hots for has basically been deemed a "slut" as she has slept with over thirty people in the past five years.


"Deemed?" More like certified!

[TomOpus]

I'm in the 10-20 range.

I wanna know who boinked twikoff :D

[muggins]

Error: Attempt to divide by zero results in NULL pointer value

[Venom]

Originally posted by Matthew Chmiel
So after the truth that was discovered from my infamous thread right here (http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=364790&perpage=40&pagenumber=1), the girl that I had the hots for has basically been deemed a "slut" as she has slept with over thirty people in the past five years. Keep in mind, she's only sixteen (hey, I'm eighteen and that's legal here in Vegas) and already is in double digits.

So when I was thinking about it, how many people have most people actually slept with?

My count: 3.


it could be 4 right now


wuss :)

[Forum Troll]

My amazing count: 0

Waiting until I get married. It's a personal and religious decision.

[spainlinx0]

10, although more if I counted some chicks as 2. :)

[madcougar]

Originally posted by Forum Troll
My amazing count: 0

Waiting until I get married. It's a personal and religious decision.

This is a serious question and not a jack ass calling out, but you're abstaining from sex until you get married for religious reasons but you check out adult boards?

[brizz]

:hscratch:

my thoughts exactly!

[ChrisHicks]

I lost count after I turned 17. I've been married for a few yrs. now so that number is now counting backwards.

[joefrog91]

My count: 50


I had my first at the age of 18 and got married last year at the age of 34. I was fortunate enough to have met some really nice girls, experimental lesbians and some wild swingers during that time.

[mookiemeister]

Originally posted by Forum Troll
My amazing count: 0

Waiting until I get married. It's a personal and religious decision.

My count is also zero. But unlike you, it's not for personal or religious reason. I think I'm just too unattractive for a girl to be interested in me.

[mookiemeister]

Originally posted by madcougar
This is a serious question and not a jack ass calling out, but you're abstaining from sex until you get married for religious reasons but you check out adult boards?

There is a big difference between having sex before marriage versus watching someone having sex without being married.

[waporvare]

More than all of the answers combined so far. randyc has been on record as being with even more women.

[schlitz100]

around 30-35

[mikehunt]

fixed

More than all of the answers combined so far. randyc has been on record as being with even more <s>women</s> melons.

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[criptik28]

Originally posted by TomOpus
I wanna know who boinked twikoff :D

cwikoff? :)

[lewisb73]

Its somewhere between 25 and 30... but thats where it will always stay as I am now married

[criptik28]

Wow, some of you people in here are damn_lucky. :up:

[LurkerDan]

the 10-20 range...

[Big Quasimodo]

I have a hard time reading the responses that suggest a *range* (unless the exact number is being witheld for some unknown "modesty" purpose).

I have gone over each of my 25 in my head many a night when I had trouble "sleeping". I could still recall each of the women (some less fondly than others :eek: ), and even the "close calls" and "passed on its" ;) . Hell, I can remember every girl who's bare breasts I have touched.

What's with you guys that don't know your number? Blackouts? Not sure you really got it in? :lol:

[So_Cal_SAHM]

According to my husband I would answer 1

But.......if I were answering I would have to say 5

[Abranut]

I've been sexually active for about 11 years and I'm averaging a new partner every year (although there have been a lot in the past year). I hope to maintain that streak. :)

[mugwump]

Yikes, I really have no idea. And I don't mean that to sound flippant. I didn't have sex during high school because I saw far too many of my classmates knocked-up which scared me witless. Then I went off to college in the Big Easy (New Orleans) and, well, things got a bit out of control. Many nights I can't remember who I was with or what exactly transpired. I would have to say somewhere between 20 and 30 during that two-year stretch.

Then I decided to fly straight for awhile and didn't have sex again for over a year until I met my future wife so it's been one partner for the last 15 years now.

[kdubby]

Don't forget to factor in the 'rule of 3'. For guys you have to divide the number by 3 and girls multiply it by 3.

[schlitz100]

Originally posted by Big Quasimodo
I have a hard time reading the responses that suggest a *range* (unless the exact number is being witheld for some unknown "modesty" purpose).

I have gone over each of my 25 in my head many a night when I had trouble "sleeping". I could still recall each of the women (some less fondly than others :eek: ), and even the "close calls" and "passed on its" ;) . Hell, I can remember every girl who's bare breasts I have touched.

What's with you guys that don't know your number? Blackouts? Not sure you really got it in? :lol:
i guess it's because i don't do anything physically (notching the ole bedpost) or mentally (recalling them frequently) to keep track of the number. I'm a more live in the present type person. If i had to sit and think about it i could prob come up with a solid number but i know i would forget some of them...

[AGuyNamedMike]

I'm like BQ in that I remember at least something about each and every woman with whom I've been intimate.

24, the last being my wife.

[Tarantino]

I remember the girls that I've slept with (8), but not everyone that I've fooled around with. Since I split with my last ex, my number for each has gone up substantially.

[costanza]

lucky number seven for me

[Charlie Goose]

About 20, and I remember at least the first names on all of them, and most of the circumstances.

[Maxwell Smart]

Originally posted by mookiemeister
My count is also zero. But unlike you, it's not for personal or religious reason. I think I'm just too unattractive for a girl to be interested in me.

That and U live in Pearland, TX I can't imagine the selection is to great out there.

[Maxwell Smart]

5 for me, and the newest 1 being the hottest, real hot....yeah..... :hump:

[Debaser]

Wow don't I feel like an ugly mofo now. Less than two and it's not for religious or moral reasons.

-reaches for bottle of Jack Daniels-

[criptik28]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
According to my husband I would answer 1

But.......if I were answering I would have to say 5

Really? :confused: I can understand if you went from 5 --> 3, or 5 --> 2, but tricking him and saying he was your first... :confused:

Or am I missing something here?

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by criptik28
Really? :confused: I can understand if you went from 5 --> 3, or 5 --> 2, but tricking him and saying he was your first... :confused:

Or am I missing something here?

He thinks he is the only one I've been with and actually he was my first. He just doesn't know about the others I've had since.

[tommyp007]

9

[JimRochester]

Over 30. I'm a little older than many of the folks on this board plus I grew up in the 70's and early 80's before diseases made people a little more careful. Twice I had 4 new partners within 24 hours. Twice I banged a girl who came to the door selling magazine subscriptions. When I had my apartment, the rule was any of my friends who wanted to use the aprtment had to bring a girl for me as well. That was cool, got some action and didn't even have to buy the drinks.

[Quake1028]

1, and I hope it stays that way forever :).

[Tarantino]

Originally posted by Quake1028
1, and I hope it stays that way forever :).

Your hand's not going anywhere.

[Heat]

I'd be curious to see what RandyC answers (different time, different lifestyle than what we are used to now).

But for me, I was a very slow starter (lost my virginity in my 4th year of college), but things picked up quickly. My count is ~ 14 (including a couple of relationships that lasted over a year) which reached a screaching halt when I hit 27 and met my now wife.

For you young guys out there who aren't getting any, take a look at yourself. Don't be too fat or too thin, iron your clothes when you go out (especially your shirts), learn how to talk to complete strangers, and don't appear that you need to find somebody to go out with (women avoid desperate men). You must project confidence, practice it.

And remember, it's much better to ask a girl out and to be turned down than to remember her in the future and wonder what would have happened if you had the balls to ask her out. Play the numbers game, I found that maybe three out of ten girls that I would ask out would actually go out with me, and I met some great girls this way.

[Debaser]

Thanks for the advice. To the high scorers out there how do looks factor in? Are y'all pretty good looking guys?

Thanks.

[scottall]

Originally posted by Debaser
Thanks for the advice. To the high scorers out there how do looks factor in? Are y'all pretty good looking guys?

Thanks.
I am a sexy bastard, but you can't taste my sweet fruit.

[POWERBOMB]

Less than 5 total, BUT I'm not including coochie that was paid for.

[kgrogers1979]

I must be one ugly mother******. I am 25 years old, and still a virgin. I have no religion, so I am not saving myself for marriage or anything like that. I have never even been on a date before. Girls must look at me and puke. I can't believe some of you have had 15-30 partners.

[Debaser]

Pics?

:)

I feel you brother.

[sarafina]

I've slept with 7 guys and 4 girls.

I look good, not beautiful but good and could have had more, (a girl who is not extremely fat or extremely ugly could almost always get a guy in a bar for a one night, much more easier than for a guy... I think...)

I've been with my first boyfriend for 8 years and the second one for 4 years (still together)... And I'm only 25.

All the other one were one night experiment, or just a couple of weeks, nothing serious.

Here's a picture of me, if you wonder what I look like:
http://pages.videotron.com/sarafina/sara4.jpg

[Graftenberg]

Only one for me and that was under false pretenses.

[Julie Walker]

I am 23 and a virgin at the moment.

Not saving myself for religious reasons or any of that crap. Just trying to avoid one nighters with people I don't know...and so far have not met anyone.

I do have a few options though,if I get the nerve to ask them out sometime. I have this hot,sexy,totally gorgeous female friend,who seems to like me,but so far all my female friends,want to be friends only. But it turns out,she lied to me about her age(told me she was 17,when she was really 14 1/2 or 15 yikes!) a few years ago when we met...,and her friend told me she only does that for people she likes,hint hint. Don't worry..she is 18 now;)

Then I ran into a girl on here from Iowa(few hour drive,not bad),who would really like to meet me. Sadly I just found out she is in college in Virginia,so probably won't get to see her for awhile as I can't afford travel right now. She is totally hot,horny..and a virgin(for now). So there is one chance,if I get to see her sometime.

Other than that,not much luck...,but you never know...and yes I do show confidence and all that,but still damn tough to actually find someone wanting more than only a one night stand.

[Canadian Bacon]

Originally posted by Forum Troll
My amazing count: 0

Waiting until I get married. It's a personal and religious decision. same her, I wanna save myself for the right girl. If you count Ms Rosey then the answer to your question is 1 :(



PS this is by far the WORST usage of twikoff in a poll , EVER!!!!!!!!!!!

[AGuyNamedMike]

Originally posted by Debaser
Thanks for the advice. To the high scorers out there how do looks factor in? Are y'all pretty good looking guys?

Thanks.

I've never thought so. Most of the women who were gracious enough to share themselves with me told me they liked: my smile, my legs, my intense eyes, my charm, my funny and casual manner, my strong hands, my confidence, etc. Looking back at pictures I'd grudgingly admit at times in my life I passed for handsome, but not much more than the next average joe. Heat gave the best advice. Like he said, clean yourself up a bit (not too much, though, you don't want to be labelled a metrosexual, j/k). Make more friends and go out and do fun stuff with them. Be at ease with yourself. Find something you are pretty good at and practice until you excel at it. You might not impress anyone, but you will gain plenty of self-esteem and the confidence you exude will have the women all over you.

[Tarantino]

Originally posted by Debaser
Thanks for the advice. To the high scorers out there how do looks factor in? Are y'all pretty good looking guys?

Thanks.

http://i.myspace.com/44/57/1697544/10855529_m.jpg

I'm not terribly good looking, the confidence factor has a lot to do with it. Also just having a good all around attitude and being a fun person to be around. I've had 8 partners (morals have kept my number under 10, there have been many a night where I've chosen not to take advantage of a drunk girl who would have regretted it in the morning) - it's all about the way you carry yourself.

[TomOpus]

Boy, the majority have voted between virgin - 5.

With 16 partners, I feel like a slut. :)

Anyhoo, as for advice... I'm not good-looking but I'm a gentleman, non-judgemental, a good listener and I bring the funny (women really do love to laugh).

[caipirina]

now i feel ashamed to quote my total ... (and I am happily married now and my wife knows that magic number) .. and i am in no way the 'model type' .. and i actually think it could have been more ...

but my numbr is higher than anything in tjhis thread so far ..

I very much respect the people who 'keep' it for the right girl ... I took my time too .. i started with 18 .. which was old for the people I hung out with

One word to the virgins: sex is overrated.. don;t get too excited about it and d not feel bad about being a virgin ... a good jerk off is better that any date rape ..

what a fun poll

[zuffy]

Originally posted by caipirina
One word to the virgins: sex is overrated.. don;t get too excited about it and d not feel bad about being a virgin ... a good jerk off is better that any date rape ..

Ditto

[Bill Geiger]

Total number is 6, didn't start until I was 18 I guess. The first time I wish I didn't.. big time regret but oh well... I believe most of us have those. But since the age of 18, my relationships have been long. I am currently in a 4 year relationship with no end in sight (thankfully). I am proud of my number even though no one else believes it.

[Bill Geiger]

Originally posted by JimRochester
Over 30. I'm a little older than many of the folks on this board plus I grew up in the 70's and early 80's before diseases made people a little more careful. Twice I had 4 new partners within 24 hours. Twice I banged a girl who came to the door selling magazine subscriptions. When I had my apartment, the rule was any of my friends who wanted to use the aprtment had to bring a girl for me as well. That was cool, got some action and didn't even have to buy the drinks.

Look where it got you.... all the fun you had and you still get sued!

[pi]

Sex with 10-20, Most of them in my first 2 years of college. I had a long term GF for a couple years in HS, so that kept me at 2. I cut loose in college, but was pretty picky about who I slept with. (I would hook up with alot of people, but somehow I thought getting a BJ was totally different from sex...eh, whatever. ;) )
I am/was decently attractive, but it was all about the additude. I will be the first to admit I have dated/slept with girls way out of my league. (Models, strippers, etc)

I'm not exactly sure of the number because there were some drunk/high fuzzy times. I ran into this girl recently at a party and she made some comment about sleeping together, and I was like, 'I don't think we ever did'....and I was wrong..oops.

-pedagogue

[FM]

All of you with high counts - were any of those people that you truly cared about? If so, how did you get beyond the memories and regrets to care about someone else?

Not judging - just having a problem with this myself. My number is very low, but I'm still having problems; maybe that is the problem - I haven't done enough to just not care any more.

[Matthew Chmiel]

Twice I banged a girl who came to the door selling magazine subscriptions.
Did you bang the AVON lady while you were at it? ;)

were any of those people that you truly cared about? If so, how did you get beyond the memories and regrets to care about someone else?
Well I don't have a "high count," but I cared about the first girl I had sex with, as she was my girlfriend at the time. Sadly in our case, the sex ruined the relationship. We should've waited longer, but oh well. Things happen for a reason...

The second girl was a good friend of mine (not anymore through). She was over my house one day after school and she was looking at my laptop and discovered my stash of porn. She started watching it and told me that she hasn't had sex in a while. Next thing you know, both our clothes are off and we're in my bed getting hot and heavy. Of course it was only a one time thing, but it was damn good. :)

The third girl was a friend of a friend (who I keep in touch via e-mail now and then since she lives in a different state currently) who I had contacts with. She called me one day and asked if I wanted to do something with her. I jokingly said that she should come to my house and have sex with me, but she said, "I'd love too." And she was serious. And you know me, I can't pass up sex... yeah... but anyway, that was my one night stand with her. ;)

I've never hooked up with a random stranger as of yet, just girls I have been friends with or were currently dating.

[pi]

Originally posted by FM
All of you with high counts - were any of those people that you truly cared about? If so, how did you get beyond the memories and regrets to care about someone else?

Not judging - just having a problem with this myself. My number is very low, but I'm still having problems; maybe that is the problem - I haven't done enough to just not care any more.

There is a big difference between having sex for fun, and having sex with someone you love. Some people can't seperate the two, and to them sex=love.

In my case I've had sex with both people I loved and people that were fun. Many times people's first experiences are with people they 'love', which starts the association of sex=love, especially for females. (Cue social ideas of the double standard of sex for men and women.)

As for memories and regrets, those are residuals of a relationship, and not specifically of the sex. If you are having issues with it, it is most likely because you associate sex with a 'connection' and/or intamacy that you hold sacred. If you lose that connection (intamacy and sex), then you pull back from both. You are harboring some unresolved issues, so when you sort them out, the sex shouldn't be such an issue.

Sometimes people just need to go have meaningless sex, other times that just complicates things further. I know when I break up with someone I tend to take some time to sort things out, then I go out and have 'fun'......but it is different for each person. I am still in my mid-20's, so I don't expect for most girls I meet to be 'serious' material, which is why I keep it more social until I find someone who fits what I"m looking for.

-pedagogue

[BizRodian]

One - I met my girlfriend when I was 15, and we're still together nearly a decade later...

Sometime I feel regret that I probably will never get to try out some other girls... but then I just realise I KNOW I'd regret leaving my girlfriend or ruining our relationship just to have some more sex.

[pi]

Never under-estimate the power of random sex with many beautiful women. :)

Ok...if you are in a loving relationship then it probably isn't worth it.

-pedagogue

[JimRochester]

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Twice I banged a girl who came to the door selling magazine subscriptions.
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True story- the first one I was talking to and the next thing I know we were in my bedroom going at it.

The second one made me take her out first, which consisted of meeting at her hotel and drinking, then doing it.


Back then knowing someone less than 30 minutes before you banged them was not unusual. What was unusual was that I did it without drugs. Allot of friends scored allot of girls by giving them coke. I had to do it the old fashioned way. Talk fast, ask quick, if they said no, move on to the next one.

[Quake1028]

Originally posted by BizRodian
One - I met my girlfriend when I was 15, and we're still together nearly a decade later...

Sometime I feel regret that I probably will never get to try out some other girls... but then I just realise I KNOW I'd regret leaving my girlfriend or ruining our relationship just to have some more sex.

:up: Exact same with me, except I have been with my girl since I was 16. 25 now :).

[caipirina]

Originally posted by FM
All of you with high counts - were any of those people that you truly cared about? If so, how did you get beyond the memories and regrets to care about someone else?



while i sometimes feel bad that my # is pretty high ... I always recall that I was at least 'good friends' with most of the girls I was with .. and usually it was not a drunken 1 night thing .. there was mostly a second try to find out that this is not really it ..

Ever boinked a girl, it was her first time and the a bit later you find out that she settled permanently over to the all girl department? :)

[ajmack716]

not enough!

[Da Thrilla]

0! :(

[Tarantino]

Hey, if I lived in Minnesota I'd probably be at 0 as well...by choice ;)

[Canadian Bacon]

Originally posted by Tarantino
Hey, if I lived in Minnesota I'd probably be at 0 as well...by choice ;) :lol:

[Nick Danger]

Originally posted by Tarantino
Hey, if I lived in Minnesota I'd probably be at 0 as well...by choice ;)

^^^^^^^

Doesn't like blonde chicks.

[pi]

Originally posted by caipirina
while i sometimes feel bad that my # is pretty high ... I always recall that I was at least 'good friends' with most of the girls I was with .. and usually it was not a drunken 1 night thing .. there was mostly a second try to find out that this is not really it ..

Ever boinked a girl, it was her first time and the a bit later you find out that she settled permanently over to the all girl department? :)

I was kind of like this. I never f***** a girl I didn't at least know decently well. (name, where she was from, etc) The second part about drunken nights...that is where the path splits....drunken nights are simply the catalyst for the fun.

No to the 2nd part...but I've had fun with more than a few bi-sexual girls. (Thank you experimenting in college!) Though I have slept with some girls who batted for the other team, but came back for a quick inter-league game.

-pedagogue

[Maxwell Smart]

You should cum to Texas, the women down here are unvbelievable.

[shizawn]

20. Mostly in high school, and college years. And my early days with IRC I was really good at hooking up with random girls. I even had one from fly out all the way from Greece. :)

Lately though, I've been in a dry spell. So much so that I couldn't score in a women's prison with a fistful of pardons.

[ClemsonDevil]

Just 1 from an ex. 3 years of fun, but since then a dry spell that I hope gets better shortly.

[Da Thrilla]

Originally posted by Tarantino
Hey, if I lived in Minnesota I'd probably be at 0 as well...by choice ;)

You'd be suprised at all the hot ass here...:drool:

[El Scorcho]

I've banged 7 hot chicks. Which is more than a lot of people here that make fun of my height. Suck on it, virgins. ;)

[Da Thrilla]

Originally posted by El Scorcho
Suck on it, virgins. ;)

:(

[Tarantino]

Originally posted by Da Thrilla
You'd be suprised at all the hot ass here...:drool:

So step up to the plate and start swinging, slugger.