How long do you last?

[Altimus Prime]

I just read about how a drug, dapoxetine, is being studied that treats premature ejaculation, supposedly extending a man's intercourse time from 55 seconds to three minutes.

Three minutes still seems awfully short to me.

Which got me wondering - How long do most guys last?

[AGuyNamedMike]

For me it depends on on many factors, but an average session might find me taking between 10 and 15 minutes from insertion to climax. If it's a special night and we are making a big production out of it, it could be an hour or more, but there is a whole lot of stuff going on in there, including restful moments. I have my quickie moments, too, but then that's vital for a quickie. Oh, btw, I'm 37, married, overweight, and fairly experienced.

[Another Secret User]

3 minutes? Good lord, what am I, Superman? Show me a guy who can last 3 minutes and I'll show you a guy who doesn't believe that first guy... or something. ;)

[Giantrobo]

If I look straight ahead at the headboard or wall I can last a long time. However, if I look down at her big bouncing boobs, soft belly, healthy thighs or if I look to the side and see her sexy legs and feet in the air...I'm done. :lol:

[brizz]

depends completely on position and situation. i'm married with child so the quickie is definately a necessary part of our routine, and that can be a minute or two. otherwise, it's probably in the 5-8 minute range of real actual fucking. 2-5 if it's doggy style or anal - the visual factor shortens those dramatically, but how can you not look? ;)

[TomOpus]

Just think of Bea and I'm good for an hour....

http://img.theatermania.com/images/show/img/013420img1.jpg

[tommyp007]

Til I'm done.......:)

[LivingINClip]

Uhm.

When I was younger, 16 - 20, I could go for an hour easy. Now that I'm in a stable relationship, having sex with the same person, I'd say..oh around five - 10 mintues of actual fucking. That's if I look straight at the head board and don't think about it. Now, if I do that, well, three mintues and I'm done. It also depends on position, if she's on top, I can go quite awhile. If I'm on top or behind and controlling the pace, well, I lack self control!

[waporvare]

Longest 8 hours, just once after a back injury and I was numb from the waist down.
Average 1 hour.

[Bandoman]

Three thrusts.


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Minutes! I meant minutes!

[chente]

I don't remember

[johnglass]

I don't like to brag, but I have been told "Those were the best 27 seconds of my life" before.

[beckman307]

If I look straight ahead at the headboard or wall I can last a long time. However, if I look down at her big bouncing boobs, soft belly, healthy thighs or if I look to side and see her sexy legs and feet in the air...I'm done. :lol:

I made it to thighs...

[greg9x]

Varies... new woman i'm usually a bit more excited and don't last as long... say 5 minutes (has been less at times) have gone for ~hour but that's just too much and usually praying for orgasm by then... Usually take care of the woman first so I don't have to worry about that and just try to enjoy.

[brizz]

Longest 8 hours, just once after a back injury and I was numb from the waist down.
Average 1 hour.
:lol: rotfl :lol:

funniest thing i've seen all day! :lol:

[Heat]

Reminds me of a girl in a class I was taking (with my girlfriend, now wife, so I couldn't hit on the other girl of course) who was complaining to another girl that she can't find a guy who can last more than 10 minutes.

For me, normally, 15 or 20 minutes, basically as long as my wife wants. When I was younger and dating somebody who could also last, I would go for 45 minutes or an hour.

[circes]

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.

[Trelach24]

I seem to have a required "warm up period" that lasts about 10 minutes from when I get hard. For a million dollars I probably couldn't finish within 10 minutes. Of course, if there's other stimulation before insertion for 10 minutes, then I'm ready to bust at any time.

[Rockmjd23]

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.
Who says we want to go longer? I feel sorry for you if it takes all day to get satisfied :lol:

[Deftones]

I'm a 2 pump dump type of guy. :lol:

Seriously though, depends on if there's foreplay involved. If there is, i'm usually going about 5 minutes or so. W/o I can usually go 15 minutes or so. If there's drinking involved, I could go for hours. :lol:

[Giantrobo]

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.


AND you women have 25 different kinds of orgasms AND you live longer.

But men still get paid more on average for the same amount of work and socially you're not allowed to fart when the urge hits you when others are around. :lol:

it all balances out....

[Giantrobo]

Reminds me of a girl in a class I was taking (with my girlfriend, now wife, so I couldn't hit on the other girl of course) who was complaining to another girl that she can't find a guy who can last more than 10 minutes.

For me, normally, 15 or 20 minutes, basically as long as my wife wants. When I was younger and dating somebody who could also last, I would go for 45 minutes or an hour.


I was listening to this morning show here in LA, the one with Danny Bonaducci and that loud ass blonde on Star 98. Anyway, she was saying how she takes it as a HUGE compliment when a guy can't last that long. She felt that it was his way of saying "you made me so hot and you made me feel so good I couldn't hold it back".


I guess I can see her point to some degree.

[dvdmovie1]

15 min-30 min.

[Longhungsilver]

im all over the fuckin map.. Sum days i am praying for an orgasm after an hour of doing it..Other days I barely finish her off then i pop. So sumtimes an hour and sumtimes 5-10mins or less. And I will admit theres that rare occaisoin where its im in, and im done hhaha. Im hoping for the happy medium half hour one day.. I only see my girlfriend on weekends for the most part... so I find when i beat my meat during the week say once a day I last longer on weekends... If I dont do anything all week I last a wonderful 1 minute at sex lol

[The Bus]

With my ex as long as I wanted. I thought it meant I was a stud but she was terrible in bed.

Now I'm down to a "normal" 3-5 minutes, at best, although I will admit I suffer from Giantrobo syndrome often. This is all at the end of maybe an hour or so of general activity.

[greg9x]

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.

Damn women !! Other night went for ~ hour+, she'd cum about 6 times... i'm dehydrated, sweating, arms giving out, dead... finally finish and she says she'd like to go a couple more hours if I wanted !!! -rolleyes- That's why I don't feel bad if you only get 3 minutes (which actually is supposed to be the average).

[Altimus Prime]

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.

That's the impression I get from my gf. Like the Energizer bunny. Keeps going and going and going and going...

So, when you're a man, you wonder - how long is too brief? But, despite a woman's ability to "go all day," is it possible for an intercourse session to last too long???

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

Is there a time span that's "just right"???

[Matthew Chmiel]

When I've had sex before, the shortest I've lasted was 20 minutes (the last girl I used to sleep with). This included "foreplay" before hand.

The longest I've lasted was 45 minutes (a one night stand in March of 2004), this included no "foreplay." It was pretty much pants down and "I'M IN!"

[brizz]

That's the impression I get from my gf. Like the Energizer bunny. Keeps going and going and going and going...

So, when you're a man, you wonder - how long is too brief? But, despite a woman's ability to "go all day," is it possible for an intercourse session to last too long???

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

Is there a time span that's "just right"???

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North :lol: I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....

[KDforever]

Just think of Bea and I'm done right away!

http://img.theatermania.com/images/show/img/013420img1.jpg

Wow, I had no idea, Tom. ;)

[Altimus Prime]

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North :lol: I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....

Porn probably does so much harm in royally screwing up what we think sex should be like. Gives us so many false impressions and expectations. Porn should be viewed as no more 'real' than other fictitous films.

[Giantrobo]

Porn probably does so much harm in royally screwing up what we think sex should be like. Gives us so many false impressions and expectations. Porn should be viewed as no more 'real' than other fictitous films.


I totally agree. It's nearly impossible for the average person to live up to what's featured in porn.

[Giantrobo]

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North :lol: I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....


A quick male could also sneak in and get his DNA deposited in hopes of displacing the previous semen deposit. Supposedly this is why the Penis head has the shape it does. They speculate that it's function was to act as a "plunger" that worked out the previous semen while it was being pushed in and pulled out of the female thus allowing his sperm a better chance or getting an egg.

Plus, and I've heard this from Sex Specialists and Doctors, among the many things men can't relate to in terms of women's sexuality is their ability to still have satisfaction after sex even if they ddin't have an orgasm. Men can't understand this. We feel Orgasm = satisfaction and there's no other way around it. Women are so wonderfully and often frustratingly complex our male brains are just can't understand all that makes them tick....or cum for that matter.

[crankyman]

last? i'm married.

[circes]

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

this is totally true,even though we can go like bunnies,it doesn't mean that most of the time 5-10 minutes is just right.my personal opinion is that once i have gotten a couple of orgasms and my husband is satisfied,it's good to just cuddle up and go to sleep,and if it took 2 minutes to get there,then the sooner we get to nap.

[Baron Of Hell]

Depends on what we are doing. I never cum from oral no matter how long or who is doing it. Me pounding away I guess 15 minutes maybe. Yep I had the two pumps thing happen. Never had the come before getting in happen to me. Also had the hours long session that you start wishing it would go off. My girl kept asking me if I cum yet. Annoying as hell.

[Giantrobo]

this is totally true,even though we can go like bunnies,it doesn't mean that most of the time 5-10 minutes is just right.my personal opinion is that once i have gotten a couple of orgasms and my husband is satisfied,it's good to just cuddle up and go to sleep,and if it took 2 minutes to get there,then the sooner we get to nap.


This may be true for certain segment of the female population but they sure do a great job of keeping it a government secret. :lol: I wonder how many of their lovers know this because they've been told? Men won't know this unless women tell them.

[Giantrobo]

I never cum from oral


Yeah, it often takes a long time for me to cum while getting oral too. However, if we're doing "69" then I can cum pretty quick. Having a woman's beautiful bottom in my face is hot. :drool:


i know...TMI. :lol:

[TomOpus]

Wow, I had no idea, Tom. ;)Bea gets a lot of "love" on this board.

[bill_n_opus]

Back in the early days ... it was tough to last. Too excited I guess. I had to literally call time out.

Now, I can last much longer, even more so with a condom. I'm married btw.

[LivingINClip]

My girlfriend totally loses the mood the WHOLE act lasts over thirty mintues. It's bada-bam-bada-bing.
Works for me.

[Wanderer1133]

I've always been able to mentally remove myself when I get close so I have pretty good control. I've always felt the 15 minute range is best (I went an hour once and realized that's just crazy).

I'm not huge (just above what the "normal" range is) but my current g/f says anything over 5 minutes gets uncomfortable and anything over 10 she gets sore. So I make sure thru oral and toys she cums at least 5 times and then it's "my time" and I last until I cum (I try to make sure it's not more than 10 minutes).

[mookiemeister]

I have a related question...

Do guys last longer inside a woman or if they relief with their own hand?

[brizz]

oh, i can rub one out in a minute easily....but its at least twice that inside a woman ;)

[debbert]

Before Zoloft.....up to ten minutes

While taking Zoloft....FOREVER (if at all)....let's see, my last session was about 45 minutes, and although it felt great, nothing came of it. BLAH

[happycamper]

Im in the 'hurry up already' camp most of the time. It was one thing when I was younger, but marathon sex just does not do it for me anymore. After I have 5, maybe 6 orgasms, Im done. I lose all energy and momentum and thats usually when he wants me to be on top. All I wanna do is roll over, cool off, drink a gallon of water and have a smoke.

When theres alkeehol involved, I could care less. Five minutes or five hours...doesnt matter. Theres usually much more foreplay and exploration going on under the influence.