Any ladies dump a guy because of their member?

[big whoppa]

Like the title reads, any women here dump a guy just because their penis was too small? Be honest here.

No, this has nothing to do with me. Just curious. :)

[innocentfreak]

A girl I used to know told me several times she made excuses up why she would have to leave if the guy was smaller than expected.

[mhg83]

Like the title reads, any women here dump a guy just because their penis was too small? Be honest here.

No, this has nothing to do with me. Just curious. :)

How many inches does she consider "Small"? I'm about seven inches. Is that considered average size for her?

[macyandbrad]

Hi,,, this is Macy. No, I never dumped a guy because of his member.... it was more of a combination thing. The wang..plus being a boring person... but never the reason just because the guy is small.

[big whoppa]

How many inches does she consider "Small"? I'm about seven inches. Is that considered average size for her?

I think most people would agree 5-6 inches and maybe 7 to be about average. Anything below that would be considered small.

[Rockmjd23]

But this is the internet, where the average penis is 11 inches.

[Parcher]

Yes, everyone on the internet is a fitness model, well hung, richer than Gordon Gekko, and he doesn't even try.

[innocentfreak]

How many inches does she consider "Small"? I'm about seven inches. Is that considered average size for her?

No idea as I haven't talked to her in years.

[Feneant]

If a woman dumps a guy because he is smaller than she thinks, she is a trashy skank and probably loose enough to fall in. Regular women should still get pleasure unless the guy is abnormally small.

[krkuhl]

never dumped a guy for a small penis, but did avoid sleeping with one because of it. eventually, we stopped dating about 1 month afterwards. was it directly because of his penis? technically, no, but if the sex had been fantastic, i may have hung around for a few more months...

and, before people make comments about being a trashy skank, whore, slut, or falling in, they need to consider the size of the girl in general. i am 6ft 2 with wide hips, so i imagine things downstairs may be bigger than a 4 foot 5 asian girl. the smallest penis i had sex with WAS the worst sex, and he was only the 2nd person i had ever had sex with. sure, size had something to do with it, but he also sucked in bed--finished way too quickly, bad at foreplay, etc. bigger dicks had had the same problem with time. foreplay, etc but still had good sex.

i chalk penis size up to this analogy... not all good basketball players are tall. not all tall people are good at basketball. but, it is much easier to be a good basketball player IF you ARE tall.

people may sugar coat things, but sex is very important in a relationship. sure, the sex will fade with time, and there had better be something else there, but i could never marry someone who sucked in bed. period. does a small penis=bad sex? not entirely, but you better have some other moves in your bag....

[big whoppa]

Thanks for your candor and input, krkuhl.

[WCChiCubsFan]

....i chalk penis size up to this analogy... not all good basketball players are tall. not all tall people are good at basketball. but, it is much easier to be a good basketball player IF you ARE tall......
And yet what seems like the majority of articles written on the subject relay how many of the guys with larger then average penises are terrible lovers because they think just because they are large nothing else matters.

[krkuhl]

WCChiCubsFan--I honestly havent had enough sex with different penises to be an expert here, but i do hear that many men dont do enough foreplay in general, including those with big dicks. i would think that people who are scared they wont be able to please a woman with their penis size would be more prone to better/longer foreplay to ensure the woman was satisfied, but honestly, just having a big penis is extremely inadequate in most cases. who knows what men think? :shrug:

[ChiTownAbs, Inc]

WCChiCubsFan--I honestly havent had enough sex with different penises to be an expert here,

liar

[DaveCole]

*looks down*

Sigh, no wonder they never stick around very long.

[polietilen]

*looks down*

Sigh, no wonder they never stick around very long.
:up: Ditto, and the main reason why I don't hang much around Adult Forum. And after all the kind insight krkuhl gave to us...

[big whoppa]

Some woman might never admit to it unless it's to their girlfriends. Any other woman want to share?

[Nick Danger]

I don't think anyone named Big Whoppa has anything to worry about.

[big whoppa]

I don't think anyone named Big Whoppa has anything to worry about.

Sometimes, a screenname is just a screenname. :D

[krkuhl]

*looks down*

Sigh, no wonder they never stick around very long.

dont count yourself out yet boys! one of my best sexual partners had the 2nd smallest penis. but, in his defense, he could certainly use what he had!

as for the guy with the small penis, i really do mean small--i couldnt see the head with my hand wrapped around it. and, although i am a tall lady, i dont have monstrous hands. however, he is married to a very tiny vietnamese lady who thinks he is the best lover, which just goes to prove "to each their own". one of my best friends and i argue over the perfect penis--she prefers long and thin while i prefer short and thick. it all depends on your anatomy and what you like. chances are that unless you are abnormally small (like 4 inches or so), you are adequate for sex. and, if you are that small, learn to use other tools! one of the best things i had the small penis was to put his finger on top of his dick to make it girth-ier, which felt fantastic!

[So_Cal_SAHM]

My answer would be no.........I divorced my husband because he didn't go down on me not because he has a small penis :D

[big whoppa]

My answer would be no.........I divorced my husband because he didn't go down on me not because he has a small penis :D

That couldn't have been the only reason. :)

[Giantrobo]

My answer would be no.........I divorced my husband because he didn't go down on me not because he has a small penis :D

Tee hee. You were on my mind today.

[CreamyGoodness]

never dumped a guy for a small penis, but did avoid sleeping with one because of it. eventually, we stopped dating about 1 month afterwards. was it directly because of his penis? technically, no, but if the sex had been fantastic, i may have hung around for a few more months...

and, before people make comments about being a trashy skank, whore, slut, or falling in, they need to consider the size of the girl in general. i am 6ft 2 with wide hips, so i imagine things downstairs may be bigger than a 4 foot 5 asian girl.

http://img256.imageshack.us/img256/1103/larrybigvvg0.jpg

[Al_Tahoe]

I don't think anyone named Big Whoppa has anything to worry about.Maybe he just eats at Burger King a lot?

[Unclejosh]

ok, I will be completely honest I am average.

My soon to be ex-wife cheated on me numerous times during our 10 year marriage with her high school boyfriend with a huge dick...she claims to this day that I am the best overall lover she has had and I even read some correspondence with this guy where she does say that, so I don't think she is just saying it to make me feel better. But she also said she just needs to be f*ucked by a BIG dick now. She told me that even though I am the best she has had at oral and using my hands, she needs to be filled completely and I just don't have the goods.

We are divorcing now and this was the main reason although not the only one. We have 3 kids who now have to shuttle back and forth on weekends and are now both financially ruined, facing foreclosure and bankruptcy all so she could nail guys with huge cocks.

So yes there are ladies who will do this...as a result I have lost all desire for sex with another person. Hell I don't even masturbate much anymore. It will come back with time, but right now I don't even care.

[Freddie]

ok, I will be completely honest I am average.

My soon to be ex-wife cheated on me numerous times during our 10 year marriage with her high school boyfriend with a huge dick...she claims to this day that I am the best overall lover she has had and I even read some correspondence with this guy where she does say that, so I don't think she is just saying it to make me feel better. But she also said she just needs to be f*ucked by a BIG dick now. She told me that even though I am the best she has had at oral and using my hands, she needs to be filled completely and I just don't have the goods.

We are divorcing now and this was the main reason although not the only one. We have 3 kids who now have to shuttle back and forth on weekends and are now both financially ruined, facing foreclosure and bankruptcy all so she could nail guys with huge cocks.


That is fucked up !!! I hope you come out on top. Granted I'm sure there are bigger things going on between you two but her putting the kids thru all of this just because your not hung like a horse is just shit. Tell her to get one of those dildo made from one of those super hung pornstars. This is as stupid as when a man throws away his whole marriage , house ,etc and puts kids thru this kind of thing just to fuck a younger hottie. Some things are just not worth giving up no matter how much you want it. Sorry for the rant.
So yes there are ladies who will do this...as a result I have lost all desire for sex with another person. Hell I don't even masturbate much anymore. It will come back with time, but right now I don't even care.

[Freddie]

Thats really fucked up. I'm sure there are bigger issues here between you two but still if shes willing to give up everything and make the kids go thru all of this BS because your not hung like a horse then she goes in the same category as those fucknut old men that throw away long marriages , houses , putting kids thru unnescessary shit to fuck a 20 yrear old piece of ass. Tell her to get a dildo molded from one of those super hung porn stars.

[Unclejosh]

We had some of them. Since our separation she has slept with over 20 guys none of whose dick was less than huge...she posts ads for it on craigslist and makes them send a pic first.

She says for 10 years she was denied so now she is making up for lost time.

There were other issues, but they actually all stemmed from this basic thing. She was pissed at me for being average, but wouldnt tell me, just ignored me and treated me like crap, so i got more and more depressed until one day it was too much. She said if i was huge we would still be together as she would have worked her ass off to be a good wife and treat me well. Instead she viewed me as less of a man who didnt deserve her respect.

[big whoppa]

We had some of them. Since our separation she has slept with over 20 guys none of whose dick was less than huge...she posts ads for it on craigslist and makes them send a pic first.

She says for 10 years she was denied so now she is making up for lost time.

There were other issues, but they actually all stemmed from this basic thing. She was pissed at me for being average, but wouldnt tell me, just ignored me and treated me like crap, so i got more and more depressed until one day it was too much. She said if i was huge we would still be together as she would have worked her ass off to be a good wife and treat me well. Instead she viewed me as less of a man who didnt deserve her respect.

God, that's tough! Sorry you've had to go through that. Since she's gone through so many men, she sounds like she was going to cheat no matter what size dick you have.

I'd love to hear someone's reason for divorce to be "cock wasn't huge" instead of irreconcilable differences.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Tee hee. You were on my mind today.

Aww.......how sweet ;)

(I still secretly think about you as well)

[NORML54601]

My answer would be no.........I divorced my husband because he didn't go down on me not because he has a small penis :D
I have a small penis and I'll go down on you. Pics?

[Al_Tahoe]

But this is the internet, where the average penis is 11 inches.Soft!

[krkuhl]

not soft, its 11 inches AROUND. newb!

[yecul]

http://www.priceless420.com/Pr081507ouch.jpg

[The Bus]

FWIW, the common "average" size is somewhere between 5.5" and 5.75". I still remember seeing in New Orleans (a long time ago, I was like 11 at the time) a condom that rolled out to show you your penis size. At 4" it said "Joke" at 5" it said "Average", at six "Stud" at seven "Hero" and at eight "Farm Animal"... :lol:

[madcougar]

FWIW, the common "average" size is somewhere between 5.5" and 5.75". I still remember seeing in New Orleans (a long time ago, I was like 11 at the time) a condom that rolled out to show you your penis size. At 4" it said "Joke" at 5" it said "Average", at six "Stud" at seven "Hero" and at eight "Farm Animal"... :lol:

You must have had some awesome family vacations!

Speaking as a man with an 11 inch penis, yes, many, many women tell me they have left their man for my man loaf. It's very large and very thick. I also shave my chest and ass for that baby smooth feeling. :D

[ElementZ]

Haha manloaf

[Nick Danger]

She was pissed at me for being average, but wouldnt tell me, just ignored me and treated me like crap, so i got more and more depressed until one day it was too much. She said if i was huge we would still be together as she would have worked her ass off to be a good wife and treat me well. Instead she viewed me as less of a man who didnt deserve her respect.

I don't know what's going on with your relationship, but it sounds to me that she's just saying the most hurtful things she can think of. Good luck.

[big whoppa]

You must have had some awesome family vacations!

Speaking as a man with an 11 inch penis, yes, many, many women tell me they have left their man for my man loaf. It's very large and very thick. I also shave my chest and ass for that baby smooth feeling. :D

You're positive it's 11? Measured from the front and not the back?

[Li]

It sounds like she has bigger issues than your penis size. She really is a bad person for doing what she's doing. In my opinion it's no different than being addicted to a drug. She wants a feeling and putting a feeling before your family is one of the most selfish things you can do.

[boston george]

ok, I will be completely honest I am average.

My soon to be ex-wife cheated on me numerous times during our 10 year marriage with her high school boyfriend with a huge dick...she claims to this day that I am the best overall lover she has had and I even read some correspondence with this guy where she does say that, so I don't think she is just saying it to make me feel better. But she also said she just needs to be f*ucked by a BIG dick now. She told me that even though I am the best she has had at oral and using my hands, she needs to be filled completely and I just don't have the goods.

We are divorcing now and this was the main reason although not the only one. We have 3 kids who now have to shuttle back and forth on weekends and are now both financially ruined, facing foreclosure and bankruptcy all so she could nail guys with huge cocks.

So yes there are ladies who will do this...as a result I have lost all desire for sex with another person. Hell I don't even masturbate much anymore. It will come back with time, but right now I don't even care.

Permission to use that as my signature?

[Graftenberg]

ok, I will be completely honest I am average.

My soon to be ex-wife cheated on me numerous times during our 10 year marriage with her high school boyfriend with a huge dick...she claims to this day that I am the best overall lover she has had and I even read some correspondence with this guy where she does say that, so I don't think she is just saying it to make me feel better. But she also said she just needs to be f*ucked by a BIG dick now. She told me that even though I am the best she has had at oral and using my hands, she needs to be filled completely and I just don't have the goods.

We are divorcing now and this was the main reason although not the only one. We have 3 kids who now have to shuttle back and forth on weekends and are now both financially ruined, facing foreclosure and bankruptcy all so she could nail guys with huge cocks.

So yes there are ladies who will do this...as a result I have lost all desire for sex with another person. Hell I don't even masturbate much anymore. It will come back with time, but right now I don't even care.

Your kids should not be with her at all. That is really not a good environment for them to be around at all.

[Unclejosh]

Permission to use that as my signature?


go nuts, dude!

[Unclejosh]

Your kids should not be with her at all. That is really not a good environment for them to be around at all.


well they are not actually in that enviroment, she doesnt do anything at the house or anywhere near the kids. Now if you said she shouldnt be doing it because it is a risk to her then i might agree, but there is no "environment" that would be a concern, so not sure what you mean.

[SkullOrchard]

08-17-07, 07:56 AM #26
Unclejosh
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Join Date: Mar 2003

Actual Size-----------> :sad:


J/K -ptth-

[The Bus]

If you feel bad, just look online for pictures of penises smaller than yours. Unless you're one of the guys depicted. Then I dunno what to tell ya. Buy a big SUV or something.

[Unclejosh]

I've seen smaller guys than me in porn. She likes to be hurt during sex though so if you arent packing a bat, i guess it is too small for her.

[big whoppa]

I've seen smaller guys than me in porn. She likes to be hurt during sex though so if you arent packing a bat, i guess it is too small for her.

I assume you two had sex before you got married so she must have known what was in store for her.

[madcougar]

You're positive it's 11? Measured from the front and not the back?

Son, I'm talking side to side. That ain't bread rising friend. MAN. LOAF.

[Giantrobo]

You're positive it's 11? Measured from the front and not the back?


He probably started measuring from his kidneys....

[big whoppa]

He probably started measuring from his kidneys....

:lol: 11 inches width wise? I believe him now.

[madcougar]

:lol: 11 inches width wise? I believe him now.

Thank you friend. I thought the ":D" would make it clear I was exaggerating... a little. I just like saying man loaf.

[jaelliot]

...as a result I have lost all desire for sex with another person. Hell I don't even masturbate much anymore. It will come back with time, but right now I don't even care.

Hey this kind of struck a chord with me... I am almost two years out of my ten year (8 married) relationship ending and it was traumatic for me and I for the first time in my life completely lost the desire for sex and it was really weird. I just wanted to confirm that as you suspected it does come back. Hell I jerked off once already today and plan to when I am done with this post! Seriously, time heals all wounds and you will find you are so much happier without her in your life. You will always be disgusted with the fact of what she ruined over something seemingly so petty, but you will be happier, trust me. Hang in there. And I have a feeling that your wife will regret her decision someday when she ends up married to a huge dick, and I ain't talking about the size of his cock.

[jaelliot]

My answer would be no.........I divorced my husband because he didn't go down on me not because he has a small penis :D

Speaking as a guy who loves nothing more than going down on a girl, it just blows my mind that there are guys out there who don't take advantage of it every chance they get. It is such a waste. If I were to run for president my platform would be, "A tongue in every twat!"

Could your husband have been gay? I remember from pictures posted here in the past that you are an attractive woman. Did he ever buy you a strap on and ...... nevermind. ;)

[JoeyOhhhh]

Hell I jerked off once already today and plan to when I am done with this post!
:lol: Awesome

I usually turn it around on women, that they have a big vagina. This guy would agree:
http://worstweatherever.com/media/1/20061020-larry_david.jpg

[big whoppa]

Hey this kind of struck a chord with me... I am almost two years out of my ten year (8 married) relationship ending and it was traumatic for me and I for the first time in my life completely lost the desire for sex and it was really weird. I just wanted to confirm that as you suspected it does come back. Hell I jerked off once already today and plan to when I am done with this post! Seriously, time heals all wounds and you will find you are so much happier without her in your life. You will always be disgusted with the fact of what she ruined over something seemingly so petty, but you will be happier, trust me. Hang in there.

I found doing a few one night stands works. Some friends suggested this and I didn't take them seriously but it helps because it lets you know there are others who find you desireable.

[sassylaurie]

Just a tip for men who are concerned about size.

Stop jerking off.

Seriously the more turned on you are the bigger and harder your cock is when you are with a girl then.

[Unclejosh]

Well if you stop jerking off you run the risk of being a 2 pump chump. And personally I am not really concerned about my size, I am not tiny and nobody else has complained. I would hook up with my ex's all the time before I got married so it isn't like I don't realize this isn't her issue, but I love her with all my heart, so that is what makes it worse.

[DaveCole]

Speaking as a guy who loves nothing more than going down on a girl, it just blows my mind that there are guys out there who don't take advantage of it every chance they get. It is such a waste. If I were to run for president my platform would be, "A tongue in every twat!"

Could your husband have been gay? I remember from pictures posted here in the past that you are an attractive woman. Did he ever buy you a strap on and ...... nevermind. ;)
I enjoy it too. The big problem with the newly ex-gf is that she failed to keep the streets clean down there.

[Giantrobo]

Just a tip for men who are concerned about size.

Stop jerking off.

Spoken like a true woman. :lol:

Telling a guy to stop jerking off is like telling a woman to stay quiet for a day. :p:lol:



Seriously the more turned on you are the bigger and harder your cock is when you are with a girl then.

Harder? Maybe. But difference in size? Not by much.

[shadowhawk2020]

I enjoy it too. The big problem with the newly ex-gf is that she failed to keep the streets clean down there.


That is the WORST! I love doing it but can't even get near one that hasn't been showered recently. Luckily my wife is almost compulsive about cleaning before we mess around.

[Rockmjd23]

Just a tip for men who are concerned about size.

Stop jerking off.
Yeah, that's truly going to help a guy's sex life. :lol:

[dieinafire]

Just a tip for men who are concerned about size.

Stop jerking off.

Seriously the more turned on you are the bigger and harder your cock is when you are with a girl then.

But, then the kitten population would explode.

[sassylaurie]

That is the WORST! I love doing it but can't even get near one that hasn't been showered recently. Luckily my wife is almost compulsive about cleaning before we mess around.

Do you shower right before she goes down on you as well? What a boring sex life you guys must have!

[sassylaurie]

Spoken like a true woman. :lol:

Telling a guy to stop jerking off is like telling a woman to stay quiet for a day. :p:lol:



Harder? Maybe. But difference in size? Not by much.


Totally disagree with you. There is a difference in size and hardness. I am sure that most women will tell you the same thing.

My guy hasn't jerked off in 2 years. I told him if he needs to get off I will get on my knees for a few minutes anytime he needs to. I don't care if it is 6 times a day, I want to be the one getting him off.

[shadowhawk2020]

Do you shower right before she goes down on you as well? What a boring sex life you guys must have!


Most of the time, and clean pussy does not equal boring sex life, it equals more pussy eating.

[whoopdido]

Totally disagree with you. There is a difference in size and hardness. I am sure that most women will tell you the same thing.

My guy hasn't jerked off in 2 years. I told him if he needs to get off I will get on my knees for a few minutes anytime he needs to. I don't care if it is 6 times a day, I want to be the one getting him off.

You actually believe him when he tells you that?

Methinks you're pretty naive.

[whoopdido]

You actually believe him when he tells you that?

Methinks you're pretty naive.

By the way I just don't get some women who either won't let their guy jerk off or frown upon it.

Personally I think one of the sexiest things in the world is a woman masturbating.

Sometimes people (both men and women) just need a quick release and don't necessarily want to deal with the whole saga of sex.

[Rockmjd23]

My guy hasn't jerked off in 2 years.
Sure he hasn't. :lol:

[Unclejosh]

Sure he hasn't. :lol:


Yeah, I agree. If anything in my experience the more you have sex with your partner the more "horned" up you are in general and you jerk off more sometimes.

[big whoppa]

My guy hasn't jerked off in 2 years. I told him if he needs to get off I will get on my knees for a few minutes anytime he needs to. I don't care if it is 6 times a day, I want to be the one getting him off.

Don't get jealous of his hand. ;) But seriously, I think it's more convenient to take care of it yourself.

[wewantflair]

Do you shower right before she goes down on you as well? What a boring sex life you guys must have!

Well you ARE from Wisconsin, so you're probably into the whole cheese thing.

[Al_Tahoe]

Telling a guy to stop jerking off is like telling a woman to stay quiet for a day. :lol:

Yup, the chance of either one of those things happening is pretty much zero. Well, maybe if the woman had a severe throat ailment and the guy had a broken hand.

... Make that two broken hands.

[Nick Danger]

Totally disagree with you. There is a difference in size and hardness. I am sure that most women will tell you the same thing.

My guy hasn't jerked off in 2 years. I told him if he needs to get off I will get on my knees for a few minutes anytime he needs to. I don't care if it is 6 times a day, I want to be the one getting him off.

That is so hot.

[logrus9]

I told him if he needs to get off I will get on my knees for a few minutes anytime he needs to. I don't care if it is 6 times a day, I want to be the one getting him off.


Do you have a sister?

[TallGuyMe]

any ladies take a dump on a guys member?

sorry.. couldnt resist.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Speaking as a guy who loves nothing more than going down on a girl, it just blows my mind that there are guys out there who don't take advantage of it every chance they get. It is such a waste. If I were to run for president my platform would be, "A tongue in every twat!"

Could your husband have been gay? I remember from pictures posted here in the past that you are an attractive woman. Did he ever buy you a strap on and ...... nevermind. ;)

No chance he is gay. He actually re-married 8 months after our divorce. He was a good guy...I miss him :(