How did you learn to pleasure yourself?

big whoppa · 11-03-2003, 01:46 PM

Assuming you are in the large population who masturbates, how did you first learn about masturbation? How was the experience?

In my teens, a friend bought me a book about sex. In those pages, I learned about masturbation. I was shocked when I discovered something other than urine can come out of a penis.

MJKTool · 11-03-2003, 01:58 PM

I discovered my brothers porno mags in the garage

big whoppa · 11-03-2003, 02:02 PM

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Originally posted by MJKTool
I discovered my brothers porno mags in the garage

Sure but how did you learn rubbing your genitals would be pleasurable?

WillieTheShakes · 11-03-2003, 02:26 PM

Trial and error...

So_Cal_SAHM · 11-03-2003, 02:44 PM

Layed on the bed, spread my legs and started touching myself. I prefer mostly clit stimulation so I concentrated on that. Varied my speed and motion and after sometime the juices flowed.

krkuhl · 11-03-2003, 04:15 PM

this is so sad--i am almost too embarrassed to admit to it here since it seems so out of whack with my normal postings. i never learned to maturbate until after my ex boyfriend. so yes, i was the whopping age of 24 before i learned to experience the big O on my own. had many orgasms before that just none on my own

sure, i had tried several times (i dont know how i knew about masturbation, i just always knew--i vividly remember trying to masturbate when i was in 3rd grade) but i never suceeded. i got the juices flowing but no grand finale. eventually, after my ex (who incidentally, pumped up my sex drive even higher as if i really needed that), i became determined so i rubbed myself raw but in a good way. boy, i was so proud of myself! needless to say, it doesnt take me that long anymore and i have definitely made up for lost time since then!!!

PJsig08 · 11-03-2003, 04:18 PM

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Originally posted by WillieTheShakes
Trial and error...

Ding ding ding.

I would beat off to MTV videos or whatever, and one day something came out other than urine. It was weird but felt good after a while.

When did everyone first masturbate? I started freshman year of high school...very late I believe.

mookiemeister · 11-03-2003, 04:25 PM

I was in graduate school when I learn about it. Yes, I'm a slow learner. Only after I saw a porn video did I learn how to do it. First time tried it in the bathroom. Reached orgasm but didn't know what it was.

MJKTool · 11-03-2003, 04:30 PM

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Originally posted by big whoppa
Sure but how did you learn rubbing your genitals would be pleasurable?

I remember having a "funny feeling" while looking at those mags. So I decided to copy what I was seeing in the mag....before I knew it I was scared shitless watching stuff come out of me besides urine

So_Cal_SAHM · 11-03-2003, 04:39 PM

krkuhl.......don't feel bad I was a late starter as well. I'm telling the 100% truth here.....I have only been doing it for the past two years and I'm 33 years old!! Since then I have been like a teenage boy who first discovered how to pleasure himself.

zelebron · 11-03-2003, 05:17 PM

I knew about sex since I was a kid but to actually touch myself to masturbate was when a friend from HS asked me if I "squirted the white stuff". I told him no and that got me curious if I did "squirted the white stuff" or not. That night I masturbated.

WillieTheShakes · 11-03-2003, 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by PJsig08
Ding ding ding.

I would beat off to MTV videos or whatever, and one day something came out other than urine. It was weird but felt good after a while.

When did everyone first masturbate? I started freshman year of high school...very late I believe.

I started early. 9? 10? My Dad's Penthouse Forum mags.
I knew, as I was flushing the jizz out of my right eye, that I was onto something...

ChiTownAbs, Inc · 11-03-2003, 05:26 PM

Uh... a (guy) friend told me about it... I tried it ...

Charlie Goose · 11-03-2003, 06:50 PM

I never understood what the word "orgasm" meant. I looked it up in the dictionary, but I still was unable to comprehend sexual climax. When I was about 12, I was abusing myself and discovered that it felt better if I gripped my whole penis in my fist and made a pumping motion (Eureka!). I added a little hand lotion and really went to town. This feeling that I had never experienced before had me completely baffled, but I wasn't about to stop. When I came, I swear I heard angels singing. It was like a whole new world had been revealed to me. After that, I masturbated at least twice daily for 3 or 134 months.

Honk!

11-03-2003, 06:55 PM

this thread.

Deftones · 11-03-2003, 07:25 PM

my friend was showing me how he plays this game called "Red rocket". I was fascinated so I had to try it. The rest is history.

MJKTool · 11-03-2003, 08:05 PM

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Originally posted by Deftones
The rest is history.

And so Deftones life of circle jerks began!

Sonicflood · 11-03-2003, 08:54 PM

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Originally posted by Charlie Goose
After that, I masturbated at least twice daily for 3 or 134 months.

Honk!

Time really flys when you're yankin your goose, huh? 3 months or 11 years, which is it?

darkflounder · 11-04-2003, 12:38 AM

First time?? Don't really know, but I remember being 9 on a family trip hiding in the hotel bathroom.

Giantrobo · 11-04-2003, 09:32 AM

My mother had this vibrating massager thing for her feet.

Well she never used it and one day while at home alone I put it on my dick...it felt good.

The next time I left it on longer....it felt better.

Finally, I left it on my dick long enough for me to cum.

I knew it(the cum dripping from my dick) wasn't anything I'd seen before because before that I had never shot a load but I knoew I liked the process of drawing it out....

I was hooked!!!!

nycdude · 11-04-2003, 01:55 PM

Taking a bath and had the water aiming on the underside of my penis between the head and shaft and happy endings ever since.

JimRochester · 11-04-2003, 02:05 PM

Was never able to complete the task as a teen. Fortunately never really needed to. Always did pretty well. I was another late starter, it was only after my wife gave birth that I was so horny I finally needed to take things into my own hands, literally.

Spooky · 11-04-2003, 04:02 PM

My babysitter showed me...

scottall · 11-04-2003, 06:41 PM

Wasn't until I had sex for the first time that I did. Probably because of lack of porn in my life at that point-Playboy never really did it for me when I was a kid. I have been making up for it since then.

jw2299 · 11-04-2003, 06:47 PM

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Originally posted by Spooky
My babysitter showed me...

I hope it was a supple 17 year old female!

As far as I go, I was about 11 or 12, my friend out of the blue asks me "Are you old enough to have a baby? Cause I am!". I was like WTF? Then he told me what to do to see if I was indeed old enough to "have a baby". I tried it a couple of days later.

11-03-2003, 01:46 PM	#1
big whoppa Senior Member Join Date: May 2000 Location: Under Golden Gate Bridge Posts: 6,247	How did you learn to pleasure yourself? Assuming you are in the large population who masturbates, how did you first learn about masturbation? How was the experience? In my teens, a friend bought me a book about sex. In those pages, I learned about masturbation. I was shocked when I discovered something other than urine can come out of a penis. __________________ "I Choked Linda Lovelace" - on Joe Dirt's T-Shirt

11-03-2003, 02:44 PM	#5
So_Cal_SAHM Senior Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: Kailua-Kona, HI Posts: 1,009	Layed on the bed, spread my legs and started touching myself. I prefer mostly clit stimulation so I concentrated on that. Varied my speed and motion and after sometime the juices flowed. __________________ And on the seventh day, God played hockey Lifetime Kings fan even through the good, the bad and the ugly.....and I've seen a lot of ugly over the years!!

11-03-2003, 04:15 PM	#6
krkuhl Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: houston, tx Posts: 4,997	this is so sad--i am almost too embarrassed to admit to it here since it seems so out of whack with my normal postings. i never learned to maturbate until after my ex boyfriend. so yes, i was the whopping age of 24 before i learned to experience the big O on my own. had many orgasms before that just none on my own sure, i had tried several times (i dont know how i knew about masturbation, i just always knew--i vividly remember trying to masturbate when i was in 3rd grade) but i never suceeded. i got the juices flowing but no grand finale. eventually, after my ex (who incidentally, pumped up my sex drive even higher as if i really needed that), i became determined so i rubbed myself raw but in a good way. boy, i was so proud of myself! needless to say, it doesnt take me that long anymore and i have definitely made up for lost time since then!!! __________________ I got a sweater for Christmas. i really wanted a screamer or a moaner.

11-03-2003, 04:25 PM	#8
mookiemeister DVD Talk Ultimate Edition Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Pearland, TX Posts: 4,341	I was in graduate school when I learn about it. Yes, I'm a slow learner. Only after I saw a porn video did I learn how to do it. First time tried it in the bathroom. Reached orgasm but didn't know what it was. __________________ I don't believe it - Luke That is why you fail - Yoda I don't hate you, Cardassian, I hate what I became because of you - Miles O'Brian Life is pain, Highness! Anyone who says differently is selling something - Westley We all see what we want to see. He sees hate and fear. You have to look with better eyes than that - Lindsay Brigman My DVD Collection: DVD Profiler \| Guzzlefish \| DVD AF

11-03-2003, 04:39 PM	#10
So_Cal_SAHM Senior Member Join Date: May 2003 Location: Kailua-Kona, HI Posts: 1,009	krkuhl.......don't feel bad I was a late starter as well. I'm telling the 100% truth here.....I have only been doing it for the past two years and I'm 33 years old!! Since then I have been like a teenage boy who first discovered how to pleasure himself. __________________ And on the seventh day, God played hockey Lifetime Kings fan even through the good, the bad and the ugly.....and I've seen a lot of ugly over the years!!

11-03-2003, 01:58 PM	#2
MJKTool Suspended Join Date: Jun 1999 Posts: 16,047	I discovered my brothers porno mags in the garage

11-03-2003, 02:26 PM	#4
WillieTheShakes DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Jun 2001 Posts: 1,084	Trial and error...

11-03-2003, 05:17 PM	#11
zelebron Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Somewhere Posts: 196	I knew about sex since I was a kid but to actually touch myself to masturbate was when a friend from HS asked me if I "squirted the white stuff". I told him no and that got me curious if I did "squirted the white stuff" or not. That night I masturbated.

11-03-2003, 05:26 PM	#13
ChiTownAbs, Inc Senior Member Join Date: Aug 1999 Posts: 17,012	Uh... a (guy) friend told me about it... I tried it ... __________________ The market can stay irrational longer than you can stay solvent. --John Maynard Keynes

11-03-2003, 06:50 PM	#14
Charlie Goose Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: Sesame Street (the apt. next to Bob's) Posts: 12,777	I never understood what the word "orgasm" meant. I looked it up in the dictionary, but I still was unable to comprehend sexual climax. When I was about 12, I was abusing myself and discovered that it felt better if I gripped my whole penis in my fist and made a pumping motion (Eureka!). I added a little hand lotion and really went to town. This feeling that I had never experienced before had me completely baffled, but I wasn't about to stop. When I came, I swear I heard angels singing. It was like a whole new world had been revealed to me. After that, I masturbated at least twice daily for 3 or 134 months. Honk! __________________ Ohwa Tagu Siam

11-03-2003, 06:55 PM	#15
jrobinson Guest Posts: n/a	this thread.

11-03-2003, 07:25 PM	#16
Deftones Senior Member Join Date: Oct 1999 Location: Arizona Posts: 37,016	my friend was showing me how he plays this game called "Red rocket". I was fascinated so I had to try it. The rest is history. __________________ John Henson: McDonald's has dumped Kobe Bryant as their spokesperson and have replaced him with Yao Ming. Apparently McDonald's prefers Yao because he is a bigger international star, and he doesn't rape so much. "You are everything that's wrong with this forum".---SleepyW

11-04-2003, 12:38 AM	#19
darkflounder Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Here Posts: 2,934	First time?? Don't really know, but I remember being 9 on a family trip hiding in the hotel bathroom.

11-04-2003, 09:32 AM	#20
Giantrobo Senior Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: TORRANCE, CA Posts: 36,977	My mother had this vibrating massager thing for her feet. Well she never used it and one day while at home alone I put it on my dick...it felt good. The next time I left it on longer....it felt better. Finally, I left it on my dick long enough for me to cum. I knew it(the cum dripping from my dick) wasn't anything I'd seen before because before that I had never shot a load but I knoew I liked the process of drawing it out.... I was hooked!!!! __________________ XBOX Gamertag: Giantrobo On my 3rd 360 as of 9/27/2007 Wii: 3016 5988 8229 5603

11-04-2003, 01:55 PM	#21
nycdude Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: NJ Posts: 392	Taking a bath and had the water aiming on the underside of my penis between the head and shaft and happy endings ever since.

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11-04-2003, 02:05 PM	#22
JimRochester Senior Member Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Rochester, NY. USA Posts: 6,834	Was never able to complete the task as a teen. Fortunately never really needed to. Always did pretty well. I was another late starter, it was only after my wife gave birth that I was so horny I finally needed to take things into my own hands, literally. __________________ Convicted? No, never convicted - John Winger Widescreen Presentation I've stopped counting

11-04-2003, 04:02 PM	#23
Spooky Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 910	My babysitter showed me... Last edited by Spooky; 11-04-2003 at 04:05 PM.

11-04-2003, 06:41 PM	#24
scottall DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 2,785	Wasn't until I had sex for the first time that I did. Probably because of lack of porn in my life at that point-Playboy never really did it for me when I was a kid. I have been making up for it since then.

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