The clitoris = mystery to me!

LX98Civic · 08-13-2002, 12:22 PM

My ex-wife could not take it when I would rub her clit while having intercourse.

But, I've been messing with this one girl who can't keep my finger (preferbly my thumb when she rides) off her clit while we are having sex. If I don't rub it, she does. I'm not bitching because it's a total turn-on when she touches her self. Just don't see how one can not get enough of the stimulation and the other can't take it to be touched down there (w/ intercourse).

Is there a reason for this? I was thinking maybe the one who likes it doesn't feel me as much on the inside? Maybe she just likes the extra stimulation? Maybe that is the only way she gets off?

I guess I need a lady's point of view because I sure in hell don't have the nerve to ask her

clemente · 08-13-2002, 12:49 PM

Maybe your ex-wifes was really sensitive......really sensitive and too much pressure, we're not talking about pleasure anymore.

I'm not a lady, I'm just guessing here.

Xanthguy · 08-13-2002, 02:12 PM

I'd just chalk it up to individuality. People get excited in different ways.

--Xg

tygloalex · 08-13-2002, 02:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by LX98Civic

I guess I need a lady's point of view because I sure in hell don't have the nerve to ask her

Why in the crap would you be afraid to ask her?

I can ask my wife anything.

Saxofonix · 08-13-2002, 06:54 PM

Like clemente said: some women's clitoris is super-sensitive and can't stand direct touch. Caressing the clitty through the fold of skin or indirectly works best ...

btw .. have you tried cunnilingus ?? Even super-sensitive clitties respond well to that.

LX98Civic · 08-14-2002, 11:06 AM

I don't think I have the nerve to ask her.
She is suppose to be coming back into town for the weekend from school, so maybe I'll ask her.

-lunacy- · 08-14-2002, 06:15 PM

For once, I am opting for the "don't ask her" answer. You may make her feel self concious about being open and doing what feels good.

As a womyn, and as a bi womyn I can assure you it is just an individuality thing. Just like each of us have different things that turn us on, each of us has different sensitivities.

I am a clit rubben gal myself, combined with intercourse it is

. Yet by itself can sometimes be too much, just depends.

After you guys are together for awhile, then I might bring it up, but for now...I'd just go with the flow.

Kudama · 08-14-2002, 07:25 PM

I would think that the key would be communicaton. You have to be pretty slick, though. Even in my closest relationship I always felt awkward telling my SO how to use her hand or mouth (or whatever came into play).

When told, on the other hand, I was not uncomfortable at all.

jw2299 · 08-14-2002, 09:41 PM

Some of my old g/f's couldn't get enough of it. One had to be touched an inch away from if b/c it was so sensitive that it hurt it was touched directly.

tenaciousdave · 08-14-2002, 10:31 PM

I am the clit commander! Whereever you see clit you'll see this face!

LX98Civic · 08-15-2002, 06:24 AM

Yeah, this will be something that will have to be later down the road if I do bring it up. But, like I said I like it and it would upset me if I brought it up and she became a dead leg

....Oh, but she has told me "Do it faster!" in a soft sexy voice.
I blew my top shortly after hearing those words. Good thing she didn't use the "F" word instead. I would of creamed right then and there

Thanks for all the advice! She is VERY excited to see me this weekend. ...and to top it off I start my new job at the airport this Monday

I think this will be a good weekend. We already got plans to spend the entire Sat. together

While you guys are posting, I'll be bangin'

Jack Straw · 08-16-2002, 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jw2299
Some of my old g/f's couldn't get enough of it. One had to be touched an inch away from if b/c it was so sensitive that it hurt it was touched directly.

Wow, that is sooo HOT!!!

Khan · 08-16-2002, 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by LX98Civic
I think this will be a good weekend. We already got plans to spend the entire Sat. together

While you guys are posting, I'll be bangin'

Man....

Writing stuff like that is just cruel.

On behalf of all the other losers here who won't be banging anything beside their keyboards this Saturday I'd like to propose that LX98Civic be BANNED from here for the entire day.

It's not like he'll care two hoots about it, but it sure might cheer us up some.

Maybe we'll UnBan him on condition of some serious sharing of details. Just maybe.

08-13-2002, 12:22 PM	#1
LX98Civic DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Sold all 246 dvds...owner of 3 now Posts: 2,095	The clitoris = mystery to me! My ex-wife could not take it when I would rub her clit while having intercourse. But, I've been messing with this one girl who can't keep my finger (preferbly my thumb when she rides) off her clit while we are having sex. If I don't rub it, she does. I'm not bitching because it's a total turn-on when she touches her self. Just don't see how one can not get enough of the stimulation and the other can't take it to be touched down there (w/ intercourse). Is there a reason for this? I was thinking maybe the one who likes it doesn't feel me as much on the inside? Maybe she just likes the extra stimulation? Maybe that is the only way she gets off? I guess I need a lady's point of view because I sure in hell don't have the nerve to ask her __________________ 95 Civic VX.... K20a2 build underway!!

08-13-2002, 12:49 PM	#2
clemente Senior Member Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 6,031	Maybe your ex-wifes was really sensitive......really sensitive and too much pressure, we're not talking about pleasure anymore. I'm not a lady, I'm just guessing here. __________________ Everyone has an opinion, why shouldn't I? TheaterHopping

08-13-2002, 02:12 PM	#3
Xanthguy Member Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 229	I'd just chalk it up to individuality. People get excited in different ways. --Xg __________________ And he strikes.... like Thuuuunndeeerbaaaaalllllll!!

08-14-2002, 11:06 AM	#6
LX98Civic DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Sold all 246 dvds...owner of 3 now Posts: 2,095	I don't think I have the nerve to ask her. She is suppose to be coming back into town for the weekend from school, so maybe I'll ask her. __________________ 95 Civic VX.... K20a2 build underway!!

08-14-2002, 06:15 PM	#7
-lunacy- Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2000 Location: Beside the Sea Posts: 771	For once, I am opting for the "don't ask her" answer. You may make her feel self concious about being open and doing what feels good. As a womyn, and as a bi womyn I can assure you it is just an individuality thing. Just like each of us have different things that turn us on, each of us has different sensitivities. I am a clit rubben gal myself, combined with intercourse it is . Yet by itself can sometimes be too much, just depends. After you guys are together for awhile, then I might bring it up, but for now...I'd just go with the flow. __________________ Uh...what was my line? -----------------------------------

08-13-2002, 06:54 PM	#5
Saxofonix Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: NJ, USA Posts: 1,044	Like clemente said: some women's clitoris is super-sensitive and can't stand direct touch. Caressing the clitty through the fold of skin or indirectly works best ... btw .. have you tried cunnilingus ?? Even super-sensitive clitties respond well to that.

08-14-2002, 07:25 PM	#8
Kudama DVD Talk Limited Edition Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: The Illustrious State of Fugue Posts: 5,443	I would think that the key would be communicaton. You have to be pretty slick, though. Even in my closest relationship I always felt awkward telling my SO how to use her hand or mouth (or whatever came into play). When told, on the other hand, I was not uncomfortable at all. __________________ "Your faith brings DEATH!" -Rose Da Silva

08-14-2002, 09:41 PM	#9
jw2299 DVD Talk Ultimate Edition Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Beautiful (sterile) Johnson Co., KS Posts: 4,334	Some of my old g/f's couldn't get enough of it. One had to be touched an inch away from if b/c it was so sensitive that it hurt it was touched directly. __________________ "See you space cowboy..." "Can anyone tell I'm still shooting for someone's sig line?" - Seeker

08-14-2002, 10:31 PM	#10
tenaciousdave DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: McKinney, TX Posts: 1,137	I am the clit commander! Whereever you see clit you'll see this face!

08-15-2002, 06:24 AM	#11
LX98Civic DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Sold all 246 dvds...owner of 3 now Posts: 2,095	Yeah, this will be something that will have to be later down the road if I do bring it up. But, like I said I like it and it would upset me if I brought it up and she became a dead leg ....Oh, but she has told me "Do it faster!" in a soft sexy voice. I blew my top shortly after hearing those words. Good thing she didn't use the "F" word instead. I would of creamed right then and there Thanks for all the advice! She is VERY excited to see me this weekend. ...and to top it off I start my new job at the airport this Monday I think this will be a good weekend. We already got plans to spend the entire Sat. together While you guys are posting, I'll be bangin' __________________ 95 Civic VX.... K20a2 build underway!!

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