strip club with boyfriend

Natalie · 12-23-2002, 03:36 PM

I want to take my boyfriend to a strip club as a surprise for Christmas. I think it will be fun, but this is something we've never done together before. We've both hinted that it might be fun, but I was wondering if anyone could offer advice. Any advice at all. I'm not sure what to expect. Is this a good idea? Could it backfire in any way? Who has done it? What should and shouldn't I do and/or expect? I am really interested in hearing from girls on this matter too to see what they think. Thanks for any input!

Ranger · 12-23-2002, 04:32 PM

Are you for real?!!

That very well depends on what kind of strip club you want to take him to. He'll definitely have a lot more fun if its a female strip club!

I guess you'll be open minded about his behavior at the strip club but don't use it as an excuse to start a fight and consider if you'll have jealously issues.

Houstondon · 12-23-2002, 04:36 PM

Wow! What a great gal! Do you have a sister?

Anyway, if you really want to treat him, hook up with one of the strippers beforehand (or while going to the bathroom) and pay her to give both of you an extra long table dance. You can let him in on it afterwards but let him think he's getting a freebie for awhile.

devilshalo · 12-23-2002, 04:43 PM

don't be jealous...
if you're going to get him a lap dance.. make sure you both talk to the gal..
have fun.. just know that you're the one he's going home with.. and you can give him a private show

my best friend goes with his wife every now and then.. they make a date of it..

Buford T Pusser · 12-23-2002, 04:52 PM

Is this Soup Nazi?

New member and her first post is this?

ravan · 12-28-2002, 05:42 AM

Highly recommended - just relax, have fun and remember she's not coming on to him - its just a night out

Toxygen · 12-28-2002, 08:30 AM

Just be sure not to go somewhere where he's a regular.. it could prove embarrassing

ChubbZ · 12-28-2002, 09:16 AM

omfg, you have a lucky boyfriend. O_O!

Sdallnct · 12-28-2002, 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Natalie
I want to take my boyfriend to a strip club as a surprise for Christmas. I think it will be fun, but this is something we've never done together before. We've both hinted that it might be fun, but I was wondering if anyone could offer advice. Any advice at all. I'm not sure what to expect. Is this a good idea? Could it backfire in any way? Who has done it? What should and shouldn't I do and/or expect? I am really interested in hearing from girls on this matter too to see what they think. Thanks for any input!

So did you go? Can we get a report? Was it what you thought?

PICs?

Just kidding. Really, how did it go?

Buford T Pusser · 12-28-2002, 01:30 PM

Since she's only made the one post I'm guessing she ran away with one of the strippers.

funkyryno · 12-28-2002, 03:58 PM

My girlfriend loves going to the stripclubs with me. It's definetely pretty cool because we get a lot more attention from the girls when she's with me. Couch dances with your partner are so much better than alone.

rkndkn · 12-28-2002, 05:14 PM

I've gone with a boyfriend before, at MY suggestion. No big deal.

Thunderball · 12-29-2002, 08:43 AM

I've noticed a definate trend with this lately when it's "guy's night" and we hit a strip club. There are more and more couples and the girls spend more and more time trying to talk to the couples.

alarican · 12-30-2002, 04:09 PM

A buddy I know went for the first time with his wife about a year ago. She was this total bitch, then. My other buds coudn't believe he got her to go. Some kind of dare or something. Lets just say she loved it. I knew that he and her had been back a few more times, and his wife is now really cool and so much more relaxed. So I was like hey man whats up with everything. At first he was like nothin man, things are just really cool. Then later he came up to me and was telling me he had to tell me what really has been going on cause it was eating him up.

His wife never gave him BJ's before.. Now he gets them all the time...especially in the car going anywhere. He said if I looked in there glove box I would find a vibrating dildo that his wife uses some times while she is giving him a BJ while they drive. She also swallows all the time now. Even when he has been inside her she wants him to pull out and cume in her mouth. This is even more amazing. She also does anything in bed now, in any hole. He told me that she begs for anal. I was like wow...what has brought this change on.

He told me that they have been going to the strip club like once a month now. And she has bought them a few porn movies, and two dildos. He told me a that about 4 months ago back one girl was really having fun with them, giving them extra long lap dances and being real touchy. Then the chick was rubing her tits on his wife and then bam!!!, leaned in an kissed her. He was for sure that she was going to freak out and want to leave. But no...she kissed her back. Then the striper leaned in a kissed him. He didn't kiss her back cause he didn't want to get his ass in trouble or ruin what he already had going for him. The striper was into both of them and they bought a few more lap dances from her that night and left. He said that they didn't talk about what happend but they had the best sex that night, ever. Then they went back the very next weekend. As soon as they came in he was looking for the striper from last weekend. But she was not around. They were having a good time when he saw last weeks girl. She noticed them too and came straight over. She just sat down and started talking to them for a while. Then his wife said that she wanted a lapdance. So she gave her a very special one. She was rubbing her nee on his wifes croch. Then stuck out her toung at his wife and his wife leaned forward and sucked it. He didn't know what to think. Then his wife wispered it the strippers ear....then she leaned down and kiss him. This time he kissed her back.

I know this is getting long but I am still amazed at what he tells me next!!!!

After the danced they talked a little and the wife said that they should hang out some time. So they exchanged digits.

A mutual friend of ours had a party about two months back and my buddy's wife was intrudicing us to a new friend of hers.....I find out now she is the stripper. She was good looking, not supper fine or anyting, with a really nice body..especially her ass.

He told me that that night after the party they went back to their place and had a threesome all night. He couldn't believe it. And he said that she has been over a few times now and it has been awsome. And the stripper chick has another girlfriend that wants to join them.

The best thing for me in this is that my wife and his wife are friends and my wife asked me the other day if I would take her to a strip club. I'm not getting my hopes up....well yes I am. I'll keep you updated.

BizRodian · 01-05-2003, 03:05 AM

He'll be sorry when the two run off together

Phil L. · 01-05-2003, 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
Is this Soup Nazi? New member and her first post is this?

12-23-2002, 03:36 PM	#1
Natalie New Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 1	strip club with boyfriend I want to take my boyfriend to a strip club as a surprise for Christmas. I think it will be fun, but this is something we've never done together before. We've both hinted that it might be fun, but I was wondering if anyone could offer advice. Any advice at all. I'm not sure what to expect. Is this a good idea? Could it backfire in any way? Who has done it? What should and shouldn't I do and/or expect? I am really interested in hearing from girls on this matter too to see what they think. Thanks for any input!

12-23-2002, 04:52 PM	#5
Buford T Pusser DVD Talk Hero Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Lighten up, Francis! (Funland) Posts: 31,586	Is this Soup Nazi? New member and her first post is this? __________________ it really bufords my pusser. (wow, that sounds dirty!)- cultshock

12-28-2002, 09:16 AM	#8
ChubbZ Cool New Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: www.lividnet.com Posts: 22	omfg, you have a lucky boyfriend. O_O! __________________ Visit The Zone Forums

12-28-2002, 01:30 PM	#10
Buford T Pusser DVD Talk Hero Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Lighten up, Francis! (Funland) Posts: 31,586	Since she's only made the one post I'm guessing she ran away with one of the strippers. __________________ it really bufords my pusser. (wow, that sounds dirty!)- cultshock

12-29-2002, 08:43 AM	#13
Thunderball DVD Talk Legend Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In a place without the cursed couch Posts: 20,556	I've noticed a definate trend with this lately when it's "guy's night" and we hit a strip club. There are more and more couples and the girls spend more and more time trying to talk to the couples. __________________ If people had followed my guidelines their wouldn't be any fluff. It was supposed to be just lists and no discussions, but I guess I was expecting too much for DVD Talkers. -Josh Hinkle My Addiction

12-23-2002, 04:32 PM	#2
Ranger DVD Talk Legend Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 13,275	Are you for real?!! That very well depends on what kind of strip club you want to take him to. He'll definitely have a lot more fun if its a female strip club! I guess you'll be open minded about his behavior at the strip club but don't use it as an excuse to start a fight and consider if you'll have jealously issues.

12-23-2002, 04:36 PM	#3
Houstondon XCritic Reviewer Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 2,879	Wow! What a great gal! Do you have a sister? Anyway, if you really want to treat him, hook up with one of the strippers beforehand (or while going to the bathroom) and pay her to give both of you an extra long table dance. You can let him in on it afterwards but let him think he's getting a freebie for awhile.

12-23-2002, 04:43 PM	#4
devilshalo Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Somewhere between Heaven and Hell Posts: 16,629	don't be jealous... if you're going to get him a lap dance.. make sure you both talk to the gal.. have fun.. just know that you're the one he's going home with.. and you can give him a private show my best friend goes with his wife every now and then.. they make a date of it..

12-28-2002, 05:42 AM	#6
ravan DVD Talk Limited Edition Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: In the ATL Posts: 6,675	Highly recommended - just relax, have fun and remember she's not coming on to him - its just a night out

12-28-2002, 08:30 AM	#7
Toxygen Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Somewhere cold Posts: 377	Just be sure not to go somewhere where he's a regular.. it could prove embarrassing

12-28-2002, 03:58 PM	#11
funkyryno DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 1,716	My girlfriend loves going to the stripclubs with me. It's definetely pretty cool because we get a lot more attention from the girls when she's with me. Couch dances with your partner are so much better than alone.

12-28-2002, 05:14 PM	#12
rkndkn DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Hawaii, USA Posts: 2,592	I've gone with a boyfriend before, at MY suggestion. No big deal.

12-30-2002, 04:09 PM	#14
alarican Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 1,093	A buddy I know went for the first time with his wife about a year ago. She was this total bitch, then. My other buds coudn't believe he got her to go. Some kind of dare or something. Lets just say she loved it. I knew that he and her had been back a few more times, and his wife is now really cool and so much more relaxed. So I was like hey man whats up with everything. At first he was like nothin man, things are just really cool. Then later he came up to me and was telling me he had to tell me what really has been going on cause it was eating him up. His wife never gave him BJ's before.. Now he gets them all the time...especially in the car going anywhere. He said if I looked in there glove box I would find a vibrating dildo that his wife uses some times while she is giving him a BJ while they drive. She also swallows all the time now. Even when he has been inside her she wants him to pull out and cume in her mouth. This is even more amazing. She also does anything in bed now, in any hole. He told me that she begs for anal. I was like wow...what has brought this change on. He told me that they have been going to the strip club like once a month now. And she has bought them a few porn movies, and two dildos. He told me a that about 4 months ago back one girl was really having fun with them, giving them extra long lap dances and being real touchy. Then the chick was rubing her tits on his wife and then bam!!!, leaned in an kissed her. He was for sure that she was going to freak out and want to leave. But no...she kissed her back. Then the striper leaned in a kissed him. He didn't kiss her back cause he didn't want to get his ass in trouble or ruin what he already had going for him. The striper was into both of them and they bought a few more lap dances from her that night and left. He said that they didn't talk about what happend but they had the best sex that night, ever. Then they went back the very next weekend. As soon as they came in he was looking for the striper from last weekend. But she was not around. They were having a good time when he saw last weeks girl. She noticed them too and came straight over. She just sat down and started talking to them for a while. Then his wife said that she wanted a lapdance. So she gave her a very special one. She was rubbing her nee on his wifes croch. Then stuck out her toung at his wife and his wife leaned forward and sucked it. He didn't know what to think. Then his wife wispered it the strippers ear....then she leaned down and kiss him. This time he kissed her back. I know this is getting long but I am still amazed at what he tells me next!!!! After the danced they talked a little and the wife said that they should hang out some time. So they exchanged digits. A mutual friend of ours had a party about two months back and my buddy's wife was intrudicing us to a new friend of hers.....I find out now she is the stripper. She was good looking, not supper fine or anyting, with a really nice body..especially her ass. He told me that that night after the party they went back to their place and had a threesome all night. He couldn't believe it. And he said that she has been over a few times now and it has been awsome. And the stripper chick has another girlfriend that wants to join them. The best thing for me in this is that my wife and his wife are friends and my wife asked me the other day if I would take her to a strip club. I'm not getting my hopes up....well yes I am. I'll keep you updated. __________________ War DAMN Eagle "Semper Fi" 1995-1999 MOS:0431]

01-05-2003, 03:05 AM	#15
BizRodian Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2000 Posts: 10,199	He'll be sorry when the two run off together

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