Blow Job / Anal Play

[joshd2012]

Originally posted by SterinatU
I love anal and I love giving my baby a nice prostate massage.

Oh... that is so sig material. Who is claiming it?

[AndyCapps]

If he's willing to experiment enough, you can always go for the (skinny) vibrator and lots of lube. There's something magical about giving someone full control of your body.

[happycamper]

I think that most guys are afraid to even think about any back door play, however, if they had it done to them in the heat of passion with a woman, they'd find that they like it.

[Jack Straw]

Speaking as one of many hairy and probably stinky guys down there, I say that if you're lucky enough to find any woman that would have anything to do with that area of your body, you should by all means take advantage of it.

[suziq999]

[partypooper]Ok, maybe I'm uptight, but I don't want anybody digging around in my backdoor or going in anybody else's back door. The front door is just fine, thank you. [/partypooper]

no pun intended.

[brizz]

as a happily married man, I can most assuredly say that anyone who has the gumption to set aside th societal stigma of it all and let their woman in there then they won't be disappointed. Men's *******s have the same nerve endings as women's....if it feels good for you so_cal, it should for him too....as jackstraw and happycamper mentioned, once you go 'back', you'll never regret it....

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by brizz
as a happily married man, I can most assuredly say that anyone who has the gumption to set aside th societal stigma of it all and let their woman in there then they won't be disappointed. Men's *******s have the same nerve endings as women's....if it feels good for you so_cal, it should for him too....as jackstraw and happycamper mentioned, once you go 'back', you'll never regret it....

Why am I NOT shocked you take it in the ass brizz?

[Toad]

I'm interested to know how/if the pleasure of anal is anywhere near as good as vaginal. So Cal?

To answer your question, I'm lucky enough to have the area grazed from time to time, and I dig.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Toad
I'm interested to know how/if the pleasure of anal is anywhere near as good as vaginal. So Cal?

For me there is a very different sensation between anal and vaginal. I enjoy each equally as much. I guess it mostly comes down to the mood my partner and I are in that determines which we do.

Sometimes with anal you just have to be in a nastier mood

[costanza187]

Originally posted by suziq999
[partypooper]Ok, maybe I'm uptight, but I don't want anybody digging around in my backdoor or going in anybody else's back door. The front door is just fine, thank you. [/partypooper]

no pun intended.

Finally somebody agrees with me! We should start an ANTI-BUTT BOTHERING BRIGADE

[Buford T Pusser]

Originally posted by costanza187
Finally somebody agrees with me! We should start an ANTI-BUTT BOTHERING BRIGADE

Ahhh, maybe you should stick that brigade up your ass. Ooops. Sorry for that suggestion. You don't go that way.

[Suprmallet]

Well, I'd be up for it, if I didn't have Chron's disease. It makes that area...delicate.

However, no matter what, I think you should do an enema before anal sex, just as a courtesy. Just because you haven't had someone pull out covered in poo before doesn't mean it won't ever happen.

Also, talking to someone who used to work at a sex store the other day, and she said that men should always ALWAYS wear a condom during anal sex, otherwise you risk bacteria shooting back into your penis, and giving you a bladder infection, which are apparently even more painful for guys than for girls.

End of the lecture.

[Tarantino]

Yes, use a condom.

Most girls say that vaginal is better than anal, but as SoCal said, it's a different feeling, for sure.

Anal =

[Giantrobo]

Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
For me there is a very different sensation between anal and vaginal. I enjoy each equally as much. I guess it mostly comes down to the mood my partner and I are in that determines which we do.

Sometimes with anal you just have to be in a nastier mood

I've heard that women who are blessed with multiple orgasms tend to enjoy anal more than women who don't.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Giantrobo
I've heard that women who are blessed with multiple orgasms tend to enjoy anal more than women who don't.

If only that were true with me

[kicker_of_elves]

This thread reminded me of an interview with Tenacious D, i felt it was time to share it so here it is... Enjoy

Q: Of all the objects you may have inserted in your rectum, which was the most enjoyable?
MJPARLIER, RICHMOND, VIRGINIA

GASS: I’m kind of weird about my b-hole. It feels like nothing should go in there. I’m not anal retentive, I’m anal expulsive. When I was a child, I wanted to shit and show it to you. I don’t want things stuck in there.
BLACK: When I was a kid, I put Cocoa Puffs in the crack of my ass for comedy. I was 6 or 7 years old, and I thought Cocoa Puffs in the butt was about the funniest thing that could possibly happen. But since then, the only thing that has gone in there was my finger, one time. Well, OK — two times.
GASS: I met this chick one time, and — this is always a bad thing — she was raving about her blow jobs. She was like, “I am the best. I am so good you don’t even want to try it.” And then she starts doing it, and of course it’s kind of lame. But then she starts putting her finger around my butthole.…
BLACK: Uh-oh.…
GASS: That was her big thing, like, the trump card of why she was so great. I was like, “No, I’m not that guy — aaaargh! — no, don’t get in there!”

[starman13]

hi, I am new here...27yr old male. this topic is one of great interest. I am a big fan of my girlfriend playing with my ass when giving me a BJ. She has done it now about 4 times, each time it has been great. 1 finger and sometimes 2. I am not gay or even Bi, but have always been into the sensation of anal, is that strange? I have had a couple toys and loved it, would love to talk more about it indeed and see if I am the only strange one

[NickAdonidus]

Originally posted by costanza187
popped or pooped?

OH.. its popped!!! Apparently your rather conservative when it comes to sex. From your statements I have read, you must be a little afraid of your sexuality as well.

Just a thought.

[Buford T Pusser]

Good luck!

THE MALE HOT SPOT — MASSAGING THE PROSTATE
Dear Alice,

I have a question that I don't think you have addressed before (hope it's not too kinky). I am interested in learning the technique for doing a prostate massage. My partner enjoys being anally stimulated and I am sure this would be a "winner" for us. I just need to know the proper way to do it.


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Dear Reader,

While anal play may be considered kinky and somewhat taboo, it's a sexual practice that more than a few men and women, regardless of sexual orientation, enjoy. In men, this potent pleasure point is the prostate, which is found inside their anal canal. The prostate's primary function, however, is to aid in reproduction. It does this by secreting a fluid into semen before ejaculation occurs, helping with sperm mobility and prolonging the life of the sperm once it leaves the penis.

Before anal play, it can be helpful for your partner to urinate and/or have a bowel movement before you begin. You can cut and file smooth your fingernails as well, so that there are no rough or jagged edges. Relaxation is also important, minimizing or preventing the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and setting the stage for pleasure. Some people relax by taking a warm bath. Others begin by sensuously massaging their partner's body, slowly leading to the butt and inner thighs, using or adding massage oil or lubricant. For safer anal play, you can wear a latex glove with a dab of water-based lubricant on it.

When you are both ready, you can begin massaging your partner's prostate externally. Using your index and middle fingertips, you can touch, rub, stroke, or press his perineum (the area of skin from underneath his testicles to his anus), trying various sensations and pressures. Using your other hand, you can stroke other parts of his body for additional arousal. This is the beginning of the massage, so encourage your partner to communicate with you about what feels good to him.

As your partner begins to enjoy the sensations, using water-based lube, gradually insert your finger(s) into his anus. You may both need to experiment with various positions that allow for easy access. In the meantime, you can begin with him lying on his back. Insert your finger(s) about an inch or so, and when your partner is comfortable, move your finger(s) in an upward motion along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue — this is the prostate. Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a "come here" motion, as if you were asking someone to move closer to you so that you could whisper a secret. Use your finger pad(s) on the tip(s) of your finger(s) to massage the prostate, and be mindful of not using your nail(s). Ask him what feels good and how he wants to be touched. While you are touching your partner in this way, you can ask if he wants more or less pressure, or slower or faster strokes. You can also ask him if he wants you to touch his penis, testicles, or perineum simultaneously. Some men like oral sex or kissing at the same time, too.

Be aware that receiving anal stimulation may cause feelings of having to go to the bathroom. More often than not, this is just a "feeling" that the stimulation causes and may take some getting used to. If your partner indeed does find pleasure from this experience, it might set him over the edge if you rhythmically or irregularly press on his prostate gland before or during ejaculation. It is even possible for men to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone.

Hopefully, you'll hit the jackpot with this rectal rub. At a minimum, you will be learning together, trusting each other, and having a new experience. For more information, you can refer to Jack Morin's book, Anal Pleasure and Health.

[Jack Straw]

Call me immature, I don't care. How'd you like to see someone reading this in public? Sounds like a fun weekend endevour for me to go on to see the looks I'd get, particularly from the ladies.

[So_Cal_SAHM]

Originally posted by Jack Straw




Call me immature, I don't care. How'd you like to see someone reading this in public? Sounds like a fun weekend endevour for me to go on to see the looks I'd get, particularly from the ladies.

Thanks for the heads up......I will be staying clear of the Borders Books here in Simi this weekend.

And don't worry.......I would never call you immature

[Buford T Pusser]

Are you paying Jack to bump your threads.

I thought my helpful post killed this one.

[devilshalo]

Originally posted by joshd2012

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[achau9598]

I bought the top one for my wife. Needless to say she never bothered to read it, and it now holds about an inch of dust underneath our bed

So_Cal - want to talk to my wife and set her straight for me?