Honest question of state of excitement and arousal

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 04:53 PM

Hi. I wanted to ask an honest question to boys and girls here. Honestly do you truthfully become aroused and excited when looking at a picture of a person, or a movie of a person, or a person on the street, even if they are complete strangers and have nothing to do with you?

I do not mean finding someone you are attracted to and falling in love, I just mean like becoming aroused and excited with someone you don't know and have no plan of getting to know, or a person on TV, or something?

And if you are married, how do you react to it when your wife or husband feels that way? Or how do they react when you feel that way?

I just want to know if most people are like this, or if some people only have eyes for beauty of the one they love.

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 04:59 PM

is this a joke?

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 05:01 PM

No, an honest question. I do not like looking at other girls even if they are really pretty because I would rather look at Sarah.

And even a girl who looks just like Sarah does nothing for me

While Sarah, even the slightest gaze or touch or sound or feeling makes me feel all sparkly and happy inside and out...

I just wanted to know about others

Former User · 01-18-2004, 05:09 PM

Maybe looking at Sarah would get us excited too.

TopHatCat64 · 01-18-2004, 05:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sararekuforever
While Sarah, even the slightest gaze or touch or sound or feeling makes me feel all sparkly and happy inside and out...

I'm curious sarareku, do you talk like that in real life?

joltaddict · 01-18-2004, 05:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sararekuforever
I do not like looking at other girls even if they are really pretty

You sir, are a big fat liar.

hotaru_san · 01-18-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by joltaddict
You sir, are a big fat liar.

you're just being mean

he's not fat

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 05:13 PM

No, I am being honest. I will say, "Oh, that girl is pretty" but it makes me feel nothing, it is like looking at a car I like, or a flower I like.

However when I look at Sarah I feel so different, I feel so much love, and happiness, and yes I feel so much desire and so much need for her

I just wonder if the people here who have girls [or boyfriends] feel that way too, that they love their one and only so much and do not feel anything with any other person.

And I talk a bit like this in real life, mostly with peopel I know and friends, but with strangers very proper and reserved...like an English Literature class

Jackskeleton · 01-18-2004, 05:15 PM

How long did it take to create that jaded world of yours? shine shine <3 <3

How could you not? it's human nature to enjoy visually attractive things. have it be women with large breast to flowers.

You sir are not human.

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 05:17 PM

at this thread

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 05:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
How long did it take to create that jaded world of yours? shine shine <3 <3

How could you not? it's human nature to enjoy visually attractive things. have it be women with large breast to flowers.

You sir are not human.

well you know.. he did say no other girl does it for him
maybe that was the keyword

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 05:23 PM

Well then maybe I am not human. I wanted to know if other people in love felt the same way. I guess twikoff is an example, he is married, but enjoys other women visually and probably physically as well.

All I know is that Sarah was the first girl that ever made me feel "that way", the only one I would think of night and day, and yes, dream about and fantasize about and want so much with her, her kisses, her hugs, her touch, her warmth, everything

And I enjoy looking at pretty things, animals, flowers and places and the sky and the clouds and the sun and the moon and man made things too like movies and paintings and video games and cars and computers and the like. And I enjoy listening to music and poetry and singing and stories. And I enjoy the taste of food and drink like everyone else does, but I don't enjoy looking at girls I don't know...

Maybe I am just that weird and messed up

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sararekuforever

Maybe I am just that weird and messed up

or fake

either way

scottall · 01-18-2004, 05:24 PM

Are you even old enough to be in this forum? This is ridiculous.

Quote:

Originally posted by sararekuforever
Hi. I wanted to ask an honest question to boys and girls here.

I see no boy here.

Suprmallet · 01-18-2004, 05:25 PM

There's something wrong with you if you cannot look at someone you find attractive and get aroused. Humans are designed for procreation. When we see someone we're attracted to, on a most base level, we're thinking, "I would like to mix my genes with theirs in the creation of another human being." Even though most of our sexual activity is not based around the creation of life, that's what it is designed for, and thus, what we find attractive is actually what we would want to pass on in our children. So, it is not natural to look at women you find attractive and not be aroused.

hotaru_san · 01-18-2004, 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jackskeleton
How long did it take to create that jaded world of yours? shine shine <3 <3

How could you not? it's human nature to enjoy visually attractive things. have it be women with large breast to flowers.

You sir are not human.

does that mean that all the porn you left here wasn't just research for your career?

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 05:35 PM

Yes, I am turning 19 in August. But anyways, what I say is this: I can say a girl is pretty, like I think Danielle Fishel is pretty

or like all the girls of speed are very pretty

but I do not get all excited and I do not want to make love with them or have them like that unless we met and we became very in love and happy together

Do any of you know what I mean?

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 05:36 PM

In other words, I do not look at a girl and say "I'd hit that" if she is pretty

Copenhagen · 01-18-2004, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sararekuforever
In other words, I do not look at a girl and say "I'd hit that" if she is pretty

That is a keeper!

RaMMaR · 01-18-2004, 05:38 PM

Man... i must be taking the wrong meds.

Honest answer? A resounding "YES!"

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 05:38 PM

its getting really deep in here

hotaru_san · 01-18-2004, 05:40 PM

my attempt at a serious answer:
there are different levels of being attracted to someone

you can think a girl is pretty without thinking anything sexual about her
you can think she's attractive but not actually want to have sex with her
or you can want to have sex with the her

the balance of how many women fit into each level is different for everyone- for some people, almost every female fits into the willing to screw category, but apparently that isn't the case for you
apart from your way of expressing it, there isn't anything wierd about it

scottall · 01-18-2004, 06:01 PM

For my own curiousity, have you and Sara consummated your shining love?

twikoff · 01-18-2004, 06:17 PM

sarah might not even be his chick

he must just be a real bad stalker

sounds like one at least

sararekuforever · 01-18-2004, 06:18 PM

01-18-2004, 04:53 PM	#1
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	Honest question of state of excitement and arousal Hi. I wanted to ask an honest question to boys and girls here. Honestly do you truthfully become aroused and excited when looking at a picture of a person, or a movie of a person, or a person on the street, even if they are complete strangers and have nothing to do with you? I do not mean finding someone you are attracted to and falling in love, I just mean like becoming aroused and excited with someone you don't know and have no plan of getting to know, or a person on TV, or something? And if you are married, how do you react to it when your wife or husband feels that way? Or how do they react when you feel that way? I just want to know if most people are like this, or if some people only have eyes for beauty of the one they love.

01-18-2004, 05:15 PM	#9
Jackskeleton DVD Talk Godfather Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: City of the lakers.. riots.. and drug dealing cops.. los(t) Angel(e)s. ca. Posts: 51,676	How long did it take to create that jaded world of yours? shine shine <3 <3 How could you not? it's human nature to enjoy visually attractive things. have it be women with large breast to flowers. You sir are not human. __________________ *OTHER FORUM TEAM 7 leader*I will not say them here nor there. I will not say them anywhere. I will not say those Words you twit. I will not, will not sayI quit! Leaving a dark wet stain where your brain used to be? weird..tv? The bank is worth the risk

01-18-2004, 05:38 PM	#20
RaMMaR Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2000 Location: Underfoot... Posts: 3,860	Man... i must be taking the wrong meds. Honest answer? A resounding "YES!" __________________ Have you ever had one of those days? i'm having one of those lives...! DVD Tracker - DVD Profiler - CD Tracker "You're such a lovely audience...Love you ALLLL!!!" - Mohammed {RFH} "... a nickel is better than nothing, but 5 cents can't buy DICK!" - Rap Replinger

01-18-2004, 05:40 PM	#22
hotaru_san DVD Talk Hall of Fame Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: florida Posts: 9,481	my attempt at a serious answer: there are different levels of being attracted to someone you can think a girl is pretty without thinking anything sexual about her you can think she's attractive but not actually want to have sex with her or you can want to have sex with the her the balance of how many women fit into each level is different for everyone- for some people, almost every female fits into the willing to screw category, but apparently that isn't the case for you apart from your way of expressing it, there isn't anything wierd about it __________________ I know that mess spelled backwards is ssem and I felt much better armed with that information. - tori amos

01-18-2004, 06:18 PM	#25
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	= (

01-18-2004, 05:01 PM	#3
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	No, an honest question. I do not like looking at other girls even if they are really pretty because I would rather look at Sarah. And even a girl who looks just like Sarah does nothing for me While Sarah, even the slightest gaze or touch or sound or feeling makes me feel all sparkly and happy inside and out... I just wanted to know about others

01-18-2004, 05:09 PM	#4
Former User Legacy Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 238	Maybe looking at Sarah would get us excited too.

01-18-2004, 05:13 PM	#8
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	No, I am being honest. I will say, "Oh, that girl is pretty" but it makes me feel nothing, it is like looking at a car I like, or a flower I like. However when I look at Sarah I feel so different, I feel so much love, and happiness, and yes I feel so much desire and so much need for her I just wonder if the people here who have girls [or boyfriends] feel that way too, that they love their one and only so much and do not feel anything with any other person. And I talk a bit like this in real life, mostly with peopel I know and friends, but with strangers very proper and reserved...like an English Literature class

01-18-2004, 05:23 PM	#12
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	Well then maybe I am not human. I wanted to know if other people in love felt the same way. I guess twikoff is an example, he is married, but enjoys other women visually and probably physically as well. All I know is that Sarah was the first girl that ever made me feel "that way", the only one I would think of night and day, and yes, dream about and fantasize about and want so much with her, her kisses, her hugs, her touch, her warmth, everything And I enjoy looking at pretty things, animals, flowers and places and the sky and the clouds and the sun and the moon and man made things too like movies and paintings and video games and cars and computers and the like. And I enjoy listening to music and poetry and singing and stories. And I enjoy the taste of food and drink like everyone else does, but I don't enjoy looking at girls I don't know... Maybe I am just that weird and messed up

01-18-2004, 05:25 PM	#15
Suprmallet Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Mile End Posts: 15,055	There's something wrong with you if you cannot look at someone you find attractive and get aroused. Humans are designed for procreation. When we see someone we're attracted to, on a most base level, we're thinking, "I would like to mix my genes with theirs in the creation of another human being." Even though most of our sexual activity is not based around the creation of life, that's what it is designed for, and thus, what we find attractive is actually what we would want to pass on in our children. So, it is not natural to look at women you find attractive and not be aroused.

01-18-2004, 05:35 PM	#17
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	Yes, I am turning 19 in August. But anyways, what I say is this: I can say a girl is pretty, like I think Danielle Fishel is pretty or like all the girls of speed are very pretty but I do not get all excited and I do not want to make love with them or have them like that unless we met and we became very in love and happy together Do any of you know what I mean?

01-18-2004, 05:36 PM	#18
sararekuforever Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 840	In other words, I do not look at a girl and say "I'd hit that" if she is pretty

01-18-2004, 06:01 PM	#23
scottall DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 2,785	For my own curiousity, have you and Sara consummated your shining love?

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