What is your fantasy? (Help!)

auto · 03-02-2004, 08:30 AM

Ok, boys and girls. I need a little help.

The girl that I'm dating right now is a bit of a freak in the bedroom (in a good way) and it seems like I can't come up with new sexual adventures fast enough to keep her happy. She really wants to make me happy and keeps asking about my different fantasies.

Now, Im a typical guy, and I like some kinky stuff now and again, but I'm at a loss with this girl. The stuff that I suggest just doesnt seem crazy enough and I'm running out of fantasies.

So, here's the deal. Anyone care to share their bedroom fantasies? I'm ready for the inevitable joking but serious suggestions would be appreciated. I'm trying to keep this girl happy.

And before we start, she has made it clear, no backdoor fun. Everything else seems to be fair game though.

Thanks.

Shadow Ace · 03-02-2004, 08:35 AM

Have her bring a female friend along next time (or 2 or 3 or 4 female friends)

retihsuhnt · 03-02-2004, 08:41 AM

Im thinking reddiwhip, handcuffs, and ice cubes.

seven · 03-02-2004, 09:10 AM

Why only bedroom fantasies? Why not Wal-Mart or the library or anyplace public where there's a chance that you might get caught that will enhance the pleasure.

Oh! Better yet get her into the whole exhibitionist thing then take pics or videos for us.

7

Giantrobo · 03-02-2004, 09:27 AM

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Originally posted by seven

Oh! Better yet get her into the whole exhibitionist thing then take pics or videos for us.

7

seven, I love a dvdtalker who looks out for the rest.

auto · 03-02-2004, 09:27 AM

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Originally posted by Shadow Ace
Have her bring a female friend along next time (or 2 or 3 or 4 female friends)

She has hinted around that this might be a possibility. I don't think that I would be involved though. Just watching.

retihsuhnt · 03-02-2004, 09:55 AM

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Originally posted by jay77
I don't think that I would be involved though. Just watching.

Thats when you break out the camera!

Giantrobo · 03-02-2004, 09:59 AM

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Originally posted by jay77
She has hinted around that this might be a possibility. I don't think that I would be involved though. Just watching.

Wow, if you care about her then you guys need to talk seriously about this. Make sure no "weirdness" is gonna happen if another person is brought into the picture.

auto · 03-02-2004, 10:04 AM

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Originally posted by Giantrobo
Wow, if you care about her then you guys need to talk seriously about this. Make sure no "weirdness" is gonna happen if another person is brought into the picture.

Thanks. Actually, I have already pretty much ruled out other girls (and she has agreed) because I do genuinely like this girl and don't want things to get out of control. She brought it up just to turn me on I think but was very clear that she would get jealous if she saw me with another women (even if she were involved). She has "experimented" with girls in the past but we have agreed to only date one another at the moment.

It is fun to dream though....

obscurelabel · 03-02-2004, 10:40 AM

TTIUWP

scottall · 03-02-2004, 10:56 AM

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Originally posted by jay77
Thanks. Actually, I have already pretty much ruled out other girls (and she has agreed) because I do genuinely like this girl and don't want things to get out of control. She brought it up just to turn me on I think but was very clear that she would get jealous if she saw me with another women (even if she were involved). She has "experimented" with girls in the past but we have agreed to only date one another at the moment.

It is fun to dream though....

So does this mean that ya'll want a guy involved. If so I am available.

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Originally posted by seven
Why only bedroom fantasies? Why not Wal-Mart or the library or anyplace public where there's a chance that you might get caught that will enhance the pleasure.

Women love this stuff. Definitely get out of the bedroom (it's the most comfortable, but the most boring).

Lastblade · 03-02-2004, 11:32 AM

Why stop at taking pics?

Why not do a webcam streaming session for the rest of us dvdtalkers?

QuiGonJosh · 03-02-2004, 11:33 AM

a baseball bat...nuff said...

DarkestPhoenix · 03-02-2004, 11:42 AM

Yawn. She seems kinda wishy-washy on the whole deal. Why bring up another chick if she doesn't want to do anything?

No anal???

Yet she's adventurous. She doesn't really seem to be going ALL out, to me, anyway. Dress her up in costumes. I always wanted to do a stormtrooper...

Phil L. · 03-02-2004, 11:57 AM

Here's just a few:

You will need to do some costume shopping for these.
Schoolgirl, cheerleader, naughty secretary or nurse, dominatrix.

Does she have rape fantasies? If so you could pretend to force you way into her house or apt. and get a little rough.

What about hooker fantasies? She gets dressed all tarted up and arrives at a hotel bar a bit before you do. You arrive, "pick her up", and take her upstairs for cheap tawdry sex.
That even works without the hooker scenario. She could be the cheating housewife and you could pick her up almost anywhere for a one night stand.

How about home repair guy? You show up to fix her clogged sink and end up plugging something else!

Does either of you work in or have access to an office? Could she be dressed up to look the part of a businesswoman? Cause there are two ways to go here.
(1) She could be the business exec and you come to interview for a job. She decides that you need to "convince" her you are the right guy for the job.
(2) You are the boss and she REALLY needs this job. How bad does she want the position?!?

Hope these help.

PerpleNerple · 03-02-2004, 12:00 PM

Let her tie you up and then she can have her way with you!

auto · 03-02-2004, 12:35 PM

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Originally posted by DarkestPhoenix
Yawn. She seems kinda wishy-washy on the whole deal. Why bring up another chick if she doesn't want to do anything?

No anal???

Well, she is a bit of a tease. But she will put her money where her mouth is when it comes down to it. She said she would be willing to try anal if I really wanted it....and if we bought the right products. I don't know if Im that into it though. Especially if she is hesitant.

She does want to buy some kind of "chinese shrinking cream". It is supposed to tighten up the muscles down there for a girl and make her very small. Sounds nice to me.

She also wants to go to the movies and sit way in the back (if you know what I mean). That is the only public fun she has mentioned.

Bondage has also been discussed. I just wish I could think of something really good.

I'm liking all these ideas though. Thanks all.

So_Cal_SAHM · 03-02-2004, 12:53 PM

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Originally posted by jay77
She said she would be willing to try anal if I really wanted it....and if we bought the right products.

Anal is free.......you don't need to buy anything to make it pleasurable.

spainlinx0 · 03-02-2004, 01:09 PM

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Originally posted by So_Cal_SAHM
Anal is free.......you don't need to buy anything to make it pleasurable.

If he doesn't buy lube and she is hesitant I guarantee it will be the only time he ever gets anal from her.

auto · 03-02-2004, 01:21 PM

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Originally posted by spainlinx0
If he doesn't buy lube and she is hesitant I guarantee it will be the only time he ever gets anal from her.

Anal Ease, baby!!!

MasterofDVD · 03-02-2004, 02:01 PM

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Originally posted by jay77
She does want to buy some kind of "chinese shrinking cream".

I can't help but picture the " Ancient Chinese Secret" scene in Wayne's World 2 where Wayne finds the box of detergent.

If you afraid of keeping up with her and also afraid your ideas are going to bore her then I'd wanna rethink the idea of this being long term.

But I'm all for getting freaky for the time being and enjoying her while she is around. The public sex thing is fun. Try it out at the movies and see what you both think of it. I've had sex in some very cramped and crowded spaces and it was intense. I've also done it out in the open with nobody around and that was just as good. It all depends on the mood.

Saxofonix · 03-02-2004, 02:33 PM

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Originally posted by PerpleNerple
Let her tie you up and then she can have her way with you!

This was going to be my suggestion as well when I read your original posting. Let her "force" oral sex upon you, where you *have* to perform cunnilingus on her while you are tied up. The two of you could work this around a fantasy scene as well, which I have no doubt she'd find verrrrrry hot.

mookiemeister · 03-03-2004, 01:17 PM

Watch porn to get more ideas.

auto · 03-03-2004, 02:34 PM

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Originally posted by mookiemeister
Watch porn to get more ideas.

I've been trying this for years!

So_Cal_SAHM · 03-03-2004, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by jay77
She has hinted around that this might be a possibility. I don't think that I would be involved though. Just watching.

Nothing wrong with just watching. Sometimes just watching can be hotter than sex itself. Think of it as foreplay.

Then after the girls leave and it's just you and her you guys can have some fun and I'm sure you will be ready to go

03-02-2004, 08:30 AM	#1
auto Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Ypsilanti, MI Posts: 4,136	What is your fantasy? (Help!) Ok, boys and girls. I need a little help. The girl that I'm dating right now is a bit of a freak in the bedroom (in a good way) and it seems like I can't come up with new sexual adventures fast enough to keep her happy. She really wants to make me happy and keeps asking about my different fantasies. Now, Im a typical guy, and I like some kinky stuff now and again, but I'm at a loss with this girl. The stuff that I suggest just doesnt seem crazy enough and I'm running out of fantasies. So, here's the deal. Anyone care to share their bedroom fantasies? I'm ready for the inevitable joking but serious suggestions would be appreciated. I'm trying to keep this girl happy. And before we start, she has made it clear, no backdoor fun. Everything else seems to be fair game though. Thanks. __________________ it is called the snowball effect (and no not the sexual meaning)

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DarkestPhoenix DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: May 2002 Location: The Cradle Of Life.....And Death Posts: 2,493	Yawn. She seems kinda wishy-washy on the whole deal. Why bring up another chick if she doesn't want to do anything? No anal??? Yet she's adventurous. She doesn't really seem to be going ALL out, to me, anyway. Dress her up in costumes. I always wanted to do a stormtrooper... __________________ High School's most likely to be paid to party with others! ~ Gunshy Minor Threat Announced: You've got my vote for literary genius of the year! Derrich's POV: The guy has problems...sounds like a crazy person who follows someone around all the time. Visit the Legend at: www.darkestphoenix.com

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Shadow Ace Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Around The Corner Posts: 347	Have her bring a female friend along next time (or 2 or 3 or 4 female friends)

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retihsuhnt DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: PDX Posts: 1,186	Im thinking reddiwhip, handcuffs, and ice cubes.

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QuiGonJosh Banned Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 3,419	a baseball bat...nuff said...

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Phil L. DVD Talk Hall of Fame Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Exit 151 Posts: 9,777	Here's just a few: You will need to do some costume shopping for these. Schoolgirl, cheerleader, naughty secretary or nurse, dominatrix. Does she have rape fantasies? If so you could pretend to force you way into her house or apt. and get a little rough. What about hooker fantasies? She gets dressed all tarted up and arrives at a hotel bar a bit before you do. You arrive, "pick her up", and take her upstairs for cheap tawdry sex. That even works without the hooker scenario. She could be the cheating housewife and you could pick her up almost anywhere for a one night stand. How about home repair guy? You show up to fix her clogged sink and end up plugging something else! Does either of you work in or have access to an office? Could she be dressed up to look the part of a businesswoman? Cause there are two ways to go here. (1) She could be the business exec and you come to interview for a job. She decides that you need to "convince" her you are the right guy for the job. (2) You are the boss and she REALLY needs this job. How bad does she want the position?!? Hope these help.

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