Last Longer!!!???

auto · 05-06-2004, 02:54 PM

Has anybody ever used a desensitizing cream or spray? My girlfriend keeps taking longer and longer to get off and sometimes I don't want to have to finish her off by hand. Once she starts to orgasm they come fast and furious but it seems like it takes longer and longer to get that first one going.

Any decent products on the market to keep you hard longer? Any personal experience?

Thanks

ChrisHicks · 05-06-2004, 02:56 PM

maybe you should read some of the posts in this thread....

http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthr...hreadid=362368

ChrisHicks · 05-06-2004, 03:01 PM

just think of Rosie O Donnel

Giantrobo · 05-06-2004, 03:04 PM

Well one thing I heard..and it may not be a major issue but it's something to think about.

If you're using desensitizing cream then isn't reasonable to assume that that same application is also desensitizing her to some degree? Wouldn't that make it harder for her to cum too?

I don't know I'm just asking.

Also, is she not into the sex anymore? Stressed out? Is she masturbating too much? Women can lose sensitivity from too much of that too you know. What about foreplay? Are you getter her off through foreplay FIRST? I think most will say foreplay helps tremendously in terms of getting her "warmed up" and closer to "penil/vaginal" orgasms. But every woman is different and we don't know your GF. Pics?

But seriously, you guys really need to talk this one out -OUTSIDE- of the bedroom because there may be some "issues" that need working out.

Also, there's NO SHAME in using your hand to finish the job. One of the great jokes God played on mankind was making it harder to get women off and gving them quick recover times aftwards. We men like to sleep after one orgasm and they're ready to run the Boston Marathon.

Mayday · 05-06-2004, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ChrisHicks
just think of Rosie O Donnel

Last longer, not go limp!

JimRochester · 05-06-2004, 03:45 PM

Maybe you need more foreplay to get her closer before insertion. can that cream make you go limp?

MJKTool · 05-06-2004, 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ChrisHicks
just think of Rosie O Donnel

WTF? Does Rosie turn you on or something?

schlitz100 · 05-06-2004, 05:38 PM

go down on her, often

Michael Corvin · 05-06-2004, 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by schlitz100
go down on her, often

Rosie?

Buford T Pusser · 05-06-2004, 09:21 PM

Did someone call little ole me?

So_Cal_SAHM · 05-07-2004, 01:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by schlitz100
go down on her, often

I like that thinking

ChrisHicks · 05-07-2004, 02:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MJKTool
WTF? Does Rosie turn you on or something?

UM, NO!! It's quite the opposite.

the question was asked on how to last longer and what better way to last forever than to have that image running around your head. this can also work as a great birth control methed as well.

mookiemeister · 05-07-2004, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jay77
Has anybody ever used a desensitizing cream or spray? My girlfriend keeps taking longer and longer to get off and sometimes I don't want to have to finish her off by hand. Once she starts to orgasm they come fast and furious but it seems like it takes longer and longer to get that first one going.

Any decent products on the market to keep you hard longer? Any personal experience?

Thanks

If you vary your strokes or positions, it'll help prevent you from climaxing too quickly.

monkeyboy · 05-07-2004, 05:12 PM

I got some samples of these last time I was at the doctor. They made me last quite a bit longer than regular condoms. Almost too long sometimes, you have to be careful that you don't get so numb that you lose it altogether. I keep a few around for marathon sessions, but a regular condom is usually fine.

MJKTool · 05-07-2004, 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ChrisHicks
UM, NO!! It's quite the opposite. the question was asked on how to last longer and what better way to last forever than to have that image running around your head. this can also work as a great birth control methed as well.

Wouldn't the image of Rosie make you go completely limp within one second?

BlackBeauty92 · 05-17-2004, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Buford T Pusser
Did someone call little ole me?

aw, ****!!!!

thanx alot, dude...

Maryang Palad · 05-17-2004, 08:34 PM

Masturbate in the morning before doing her. It will last longer, guaranteed.

kar10 · 05-17-2004, 08:35 PM

Oral Sex First!

Suprmallet · 05-18-2004, 12:21 AM

Make her orgasm at least once before you penetrate. That way even if she doesn't orgasm again, she won't feel cheated. Extended foreplay/oral sex is a good way to go.

clappj · 05-18-2004, 08:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by kar10
Oral Sex First!

There will be no better response than this!

auto · 05-18-2004, 10:11 AM

Thanks for all the replies...The problem isnt really getting her off. I get her off through oral/foreplay/straight sex. My question was had anybody used creams/sprays etc. and if they worked. I am not simply trying to get her off it would just be enjoyable for both of us if the actual straight sex portion of our "fun" lasted longer. To clarify, I usually last about ten minutes unless we are actually trying to draw it out (ie. stop/start, switching positions). I would really like to last longer in one position. Whereas she used to cum in about ten minutes it now takes her 15-20. Stop/starting or switching positions just makes it longer for her to cum.

She does masturbate a lot and this may be why it now takes her longer to orgasm. Again, any suggestions or personal experiences are appreciated.

ben12 · 05-18-2004, 04:41 PM

Stick a Coke bottle up her ass. Works everytime.

XCritic Editorerson · 05-19-2004, 07:47 AM

Just don't make the same mistake Larry David did.

ANDREMIKE · 05-19-2004, 09:41 AM

I can't believe no one has mention KEGEL excercises....

greg9x · 05-19-2004, 11:37 AM

Tried one of those desensitizing creams once... felt like novacain at the dentist, did not like it all as it can make you lose too much feeling.

As ANDREMIKE said kegal excersies and start/stop method (practice with yourself if you don't want to with her) will help you to last longer... but be careful about what you ask for...I wish things would happen faster sometimes, trying to reverse some of the 'training' when I worried too much about finishing too fast.

05-06-2004, 02:54 PM	#1
auto Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Ypsilanti, MI Posts: 4,136	Last Longer!!!??? Has anybody ever used a desensitizing cream or spray? My girlfriend keeps taking longer and longer to get off and sometimes I don't want to have to finish her off by hand. Once she starts to orgasm they come fast and furious but it seems like it takes longer and longer to get that first one going. Any decent products on the market to keep you hard longer? Any personal experience? Thanks __________________ it is called the snowball effect (and no not the sexual meaning)

05-06-2004, 02:56 PM	#2
ChrisHicks Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Michigan Posts: 4,396	maybe you should read some of the posts in this thread.... http://www.dvdtalk.com/forum/showthr...hreadid=362368 __________________ DVD List / My Small LD List / My DVDSpot List / The Rejects Rest Stop Sign the Petition for all studio HD-DVD support Now!!! / Owner of a PS3 and a Toshiba HD-XA1 Wii Friend Code: 1249 6431 9623 9624 / XBL Gamertag: chrishicks / PS3 Gamertag: chrishicks

05-06-2004, 03:01 PM	#3
ChrisHicks Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Michigan Posts: 4,396	just think of Rosie O Donnel __________________ DVD List / My Small LD List / My DVDSpot List / The Rejects Rest Stop Sign the Petition for all studio HD-DVD support Now!!! / Owner of a PS3 and a Toshiba HD-XA1 Wii Friend Code: 1249 6431 9623 9624 / XBL Gamertag: chrishicks / PS3 Gamertag: chrishicks

05-06-2004, 03:04 PM	#4
Giantrobo Senior Member Join Date: Apr 1999 Location: TORRANCE, CA Posts: 36,977	Well one thing I heard..and it may not be a major issue but it's something to think about. If you're using desensitizing cream then isn't reasonable to assume that that same application is also desensitizing her to some degree? Wouldn't that make it harder for her to cum too? I don't know I'm just asking. Also, is she not into the sex anymore? Stressed out? Is she masturbating too much? Women can lose sensitivity from too much of that too you know. What about foreplay? Are you getter her off through foreplay FIRST? I think most will say foreplay helps tremendously in terms of getting her "warmed up" and closer to "penil/vaginal" orgasms. But every woman is different and we don't know your GF. Pics? But seriously, you guys really need to talk this one out -OUTSIDE- of the bedroom because there may be some "issues" that need working out. Also, there's NO SHAME in using your hand to finish the job. One of the great jokes God played on mankind was making it harder to get women off and gving them quick recover times aftwards. We men like to sleep after one orgasm and they're ready to run the Boston Marathon. __________________ XBOX Gamertag: Giantrobo On my 3rd 360 as of 9/27/2007 Wii: 3016 5988 8229 5603 Last edited by Giantrobo; 05-06-2004 at 03:06 PM.

05-06-2004, 03:45 PM	#6
JimRochester Senior Member Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: Rochester, NY. USA Posts: 6,834	Maybe you need more foreplay to get her closer before insertion. can that cream make you go limp? __________________ Convicted? No, never convicted - John Winger Widescreen Presentation I've stopped counting

05-06-2004, 05:38 PM	#8
schlitz100 DVD Talk Gold Edition Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Baltimore Posts: 2,580	go down on her, often

05-06-2004, 09:21 PM	#10
Buford T Pusser DVD Talk Hero Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Lighten up, Francis! (Funland) Posts: 31,586	Did someone call little ole me? __________________ it really bufords my pusser. (wow, that sounds dirty!)- cultshock

05-07-2004, 05:12 PM	#14
monkeyboy Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: looking for mangos in the jungle Posts: 3,903	I got some samples of these last time I was at the doctor. They made me last quite a bit longer than regular condoms. Almost too long sometimes, you have to be careful that you don't get so numb that you lose it altogether. I keep a few around for marathon sessions, but a regular condom is usually fine. __________________ you can turn your back on a person, but never turn your back on a drug; especially when it's holding a razor sharp hunting knife in your eye.

05-17-2004, 08:34 PM	#17
Maryang Palad DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 1,008	Masturbate in the morning before doing her. It will last longer, guaranteed. __________________ The hand that rocks! My Video Game Collection

05-17-2004, 08:35 PM	#18
kar10 DVD Talk Special Edition Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 1,992	Oral Sex First! __________________ --Don't Confuse Luck With Skill--

05-18-2004, 12:21 AM	#19
Suprmallet Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Mile End Posts: 15,055	Make her orgasm at least once before you penetrate. That way even if she doesn't orgasm again, she won't feel cheated. Extended foreplay/oral sex is a good way to go.

05-18-2004, 10:11 AM	#21
auto Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Ypsilanti, MI Posts: 4,136	Thanks for all the replies...The problem isnt really getting her off. I get her off through oral/foreplay/straight sex. My question was had anybody used creams/sprays etc. and if they worked. I am not simply trying to get her off it would just be enjoyable for both of us if the actual straight sex portion of our "fun" lasted longer. To clarify, I usually last about ten minutes unless we are actually trying to draw it out (ie. stop/start, switching positions). I would really like to last longer in one position. Whereas she used to cum in about ten minutes it now takes her 15-20. Stop/starting or switching positions just makes it longer for her to cum. She does masturbate a lot and this may be why it now takes her longer to orgasm. Again, any suggestions or personal experiences are appreciated. __________________ it is called the snowball effect (and no not the sexual meaning)

05-18-2004, 04:41 PM	#22
ben12 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Where I live? Posts: 1,524	Stick a Coke bottle up her ass. Works everytime. __________________ Ben

05-19-2004, 07:47 AM	#23
XCritic Editorerson DVD Talk Hero Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Gracen & Gracen Posts: 29,982	Just don't make the same mistake Larry David did. __________________ Vote for Enos and Robbery Homicide Division at TVShowsOnDVD “The world meets nobody halfway. When you want something, you gotta take it." Lincoln Hawk

05-19-2004, 09:41 AM	#24
ANDREMIKE DVD Talk Platinum Edition Join Date: Jan 2000 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,308	I can't believe no one has mention KEGEL excercises.... __________________ Mike

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05-19-2004, 11:37 AM	#25
greg9x Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Frederick, MD Posts: 2,106	Tried one of those desensitizing creams once... felt like novacain at the dentist, did not like it all as it can make you lose too much feeling. As ANDREMIKE said kegal excersies and start/stop method (practice with yourself if you don't want to with her) will help you to last longer... but be careful about what you ask for...I wish things would happen faster sometimes, trying to reverse some of the 'training' when I worried too much about finishing too fast.

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