How long do you last?

[greg9x]

Originally Posted by circes

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.

Damn women !! Other night went for ~ hour+, she'd cum about 6 times... i'm dehydrated, sweating, arms giving out, dead... finally finish and she says she'd like to go a couple more hours if I wanted !!! That's why I don't feel bad if you only get 3 minutes (which actually is supposed to be the average).

[Altimus Prime]

Originally Posted by circes

i'm beginning to feel sorry for men....as a woman,i can go all day and then some.

That's the impression I get from my gf. Like the Energizer bunny. Keeps going and going and going and going...

So, when you're a man, you wonder - how long is too brief? But, despite a woman's ability to "go all day," is it possible for an intercourse session to last too long???

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

Is there a time span that's "just right"???

[Matthew Chmiel]

When I've had sex before, the shortest I've lasted was 20 minutes (the last girl I used to sleep with). This included "foreplay" before hand.

The longest I've lasted was 45 minutes (a one night stand in March of 2004), this included no "foreplay." It was pretty much pants down and "I'M IN!"

[brizz]

Originally Posted by Altimus Prime

That's the impression I get from my gf. Like the Energizer bunny. Keeps going and going and going and going...

So, when you're a man, you wonder - how long is too brief? But, despite a woman's ability to "go all day," is it possible for an intercourse session to last too long???

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

Is there a time span that's "just right"???

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....

[KDforever]

Originally Posted by TomOpus

Just think of Bea and I'm done right away!

Wow, I had no idea, Tom.

[Altimus Prime]

Originally Posted by brizz

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....

Porn probably does so much harm in royally screwing up what we think sex should be like. Gives us so many false impressions and expectations. Porn should be viewed as no more 'real' than other fictitous films.

[Giantrobo]

Originally Posted by Altimus Prime

Porn probably does so much harm in royally screwing up what we think sex should be like. Gives us so many false impressions and expectations. Porn should be viewed as no more 'real' than other fictitous films.

I totally agree. It's nearly impossible for the average person to live up to what's featured in porn.

[Giantrobo]

Originally Posted by brizz

I think that's the case with the vast majority of women. every once in a while going for a while is nice, but i've had more than one girlfriend admit that more than 10 minutes or so and things get a little tiresome and/or sore and uncomfortable. And i'm not exactly Peter North I think this "fucking for an hour" idea is a societal construct similar to men fearing ridicule about their penis size...when the average is just that, normal. 2-5 minutes is what we are wired for....anything beyond that is pure mental configuration. Kinsey found that 3/4 of the men in his study came in about 2 minutes. In the 70s other studies raised the bar to 10 minutes - as men became more self-conscious about it and porn became commonplace. In terms of evolution, those who could come the quickest actually had an advantage over those that couldn't, as they were less likely to be interrupted or have the female escape their grasp before finishing, and therefore more likely to impregnate them.....

A quick male could also sneak in and get his DNA deposited in hopes of displacing the previous semen deposit. Supposedly this is why the Penis head has the shape it does. They speculate that it's function was to act as a "plunger" that worked out the previous semen while it was being pushed in and pulled out of the female thus allowing his sperm a better chance or getting an egg.

Plus, and I've heard this from Sex Specialists and Doctors, among the many things men can't relate to in terms of women's sexuality is their ability to still have satisfaction after sex even if they ddin't have an orgasm. Men can't understand this. We feel Orgasm = satisfaction and there's no other way around it. Women are so wonderfully and often frustratingly complex our male brains are just can't understand all that makes them tick....or cum for that matter.

[crankyman]

last? i'm married.

[circes]

Basically, I'm wondering if there's guys out there who are struggling to go longer, while the woman is thinking, "OK, enough, cum already!"

this is totally true,even though we can go like bunnies,it doesn't mean that most of the time 5-10 minutes is just right.my personal opinion is that once i have gotten a couple of orgasms and my husband is satisfied,it's good to just cuddle up and go to sleep,and if it took 2 minutes to get there,then the sooner we get to nap.

[Baron Of Hell]

Depends on what we are doing. I never cum from oral no matter how long or who is doing it. Me pounding away I guess 15 minutes maybe. Yep I had the two pumps thing happen. Never had the come before getting in happen to me. Also had the hours long session that you start wishing it would go off. My girl kept asking me if I cum yet. Annoying as hell.

[Giantrobo]

Originally Posted by circes

this is totally true,even though we can go like bunnies,it doesn't mean that most of the time 5-10 minutes is just right.my personal opinion is that once i have gotten a couple of orgasms and my husband is satisfied,it's good to just cuddle up and go to sleep,and if it took 2 minutes to get there,then the sooner we get to nap.

This may be true for certain segment of the female population but they sure do a great job of keeping it a government secret. I wonder how many of their lovers know this because they've been told? Men won't know this unless women tell them.

[Giantrobo]

Originally Posted by Baron Of Hell

I never cum from oral

Yeah, it often takes a long time for me to cum while getting oral too. However, if we're doing "69" then I can cum pretty quick. Having a woman's beautiful bottom in my face is hot.


i know...TMI.

[TomOpus]

Originally Posted by Kittydreamer

Wow, I had no idea, Tom.

Bea gets a lot of "love" on this board.

[bill_n_opus]

Back in the early days ... it was tough to last. Too excited I guess. I had to literally call time out.

Now, I can last much longer, even more so with a condom. I'm married btw.

[LivingINClip]

My girlfriend totally loses the mood the WHOLE act lasts over thirty mintues. It's bada-bam-bada-bing.
Works for me.

[Wanderer1133]

I've always been able to mentally remove myself when I get close so I have pretty good control. I've always felt the 15 minute range is best (I went an hour once and realized that's just crazy).

I'm not huge (just above what the "normal" range is) but my current g/f says anything over 5 minutes gets uncomfortable and anything over 10 she gets sore. So I make sure thru oral and toys she cums at least 5 times and then it's "my time" and I last until I cum (I try to make sure it's not more than 10 minutes).

[mookiemeister]

I have a related question...

Do guys last longer inside a woman or if they relief with their own hand?

[brizz]

oh, i can rub one out in a minute easily....but its at least twice that inside a woman

[debbert]

Before Zoloft.....up to ten minutes

While taking Zoloft....FOREVER (if at all)....let's see, my last session was about 45 minutes, and although it felt great, nothing came of it. BLAH

[happycamper]

Im in the 'hurry up already' camp most of the time. It was one thing when I was younger, but marathon sex just does not do it for me anymore. After I have 5, maybe 6 orgasms, Im done. I lose all energy and momentum and thats usually when he wants me to be on top. All I wanna do is roll over, cool off, drink a gallon of water and have a smoke.

When theres alkeehol involved, I could care less. Five minutes or five hours...doesnt matter. Theres usually much more foreplay and exploration going on under the influence.