Is this fair?

[asap]

Recently met a couple who are into swinging. During chat I realized that they only do women. Apparently he does not allow other men in a threesome just women. I'm not sure if they do couples.
In any case..is this fair play? If ur into threesomes etc I figure she would enjoy an MMF just as much as he enjoys a FFM

[JimRochester]

I suppose if she really wants another man it isn't fair, but I think it's more their decision than what's "fair". Maybe he has some jealousy issues and it isn't worth it to go there. I'm not saying right or wrong, she just knows that she can handle it better than him so she doesn't really care to go there. Maybe she likes woman and this is an excuse without any type of baggage. You don't mention ages, some middle age and older folks grew up in an era where female sexuality and pleasure was not as open as it is today. It was much more about a woman pleasing her man, not about a woman having an orgasm. Or getting pleasure by providing pleasure.

Then let's face it. Some woman depending on their history, only know pleasing their partner without getting everything they need fullfilled. Depends how communicative they are/were.

Thought of one other thing; perhaps he thinks that another male might involve some touching between he and the other guy and he feels uncomfortable with that. I had many MMF threesomes and me and the other guy never really got near each other. If the ladies are enjoying each other he may think that the guys ned to as well.